You might be going through a lot, negative thoughts is overshadowing the bright and vivid thinking. Do you wish to get over and live a free minded life? . The solutions below can be of help.

You can not live your whole time on negativity, its not profitable, its senseless. Five minute of negative thought is enough to change over or look for solution.

And if you've been contemplating on the issue it advisable to focus on putting and end to it rather than focusing on the problem.

For those the grew up with this thoughts, the most efficient way to over it is by engaging in something new.
Developing a Positive self image of your self could change, at time having low self esteem can trigger to negative thoughts and the way others sees us. Read my article on How to Develope a positive selfimage.
Living negativity behind is that easy the way you think, nothing is forever easy and nothing is impossible.
Thinks and act positive, gradually positive will  be attracted to you, it talks much practice.

I was once a affected with the same issue, it took years before my  mind was set free, read my battle with negative thoughts in the article i shared my own personal story and how i got free from that deadly bondage

Busy schedule most at times and laziness tempers with our well being.Having full control of your self is far beyond eating good and dressing nice. Love is care and care is of different stages, it's proper balance of ones physical,spiritual,emotional stage. Maintaining a good hygiene,health to self improvement. Many procrastinate, other lets others decide for them while other save for tomorrow and limit their self from certain right and privilege now.

Note that there is fine line between making most out of today and trading what you desire most all for the pleasure of today. Life  and things goes sideways this end and it's advisable to secure the future and enjoy the present still.

Are you still a slave to your own self? Then who's the boss. Never limit yourself. Starting taking control of your life and acquire all the necessary things that you ought to obtain. Being now, start doing the below thing to your self.

1. Take Good Care Of Yourself

A healthy lifestyles and practice improves one's self, it's easy to have a pure mind and be a good shape when you eating good, stop eating junk foods and managing when you know the it not advancing your physical health. Exercise daily, making all those joint and the whole of your body system vibrant. And never forget to have enough rest after a hard day at work, never try to cheat sleep because you can't. An individual who takes good care of his self is a happy,positive minded man.

2.Flee Away From Negative Thoughts

No amount of negative conversion has the power to triumph over any discomfort the only out of it is apply techniques, to get rid of them when it comes to your nothing that negative self talk is within, detach it and don't gives room for it.

3.Stop Making Assumption

Self judgemental without proof of being guilty or of what other thought about you, the imagination of not being accepted like everybody that surrounds you when  you have no proof that it's truth. Assuming that people are pissed of because you mistake A for B or little bird is probably gossiping about you as you walked by is of no important. Instead approach the little bird but why worrying thing without proof, thing you're not actually sure about? Look for proof instead of making assumptions.

4. Remind Yourself of the Things You Are Thankful For

There are 24 hours in a day, you spent nearly all on jobs,in the office all in the names of making money. Taking few seconds off to appreciate life and things therein won't have any negative effect on you and your business.

5.Worry Less

If you found yourself being dealt with by excessive worries the best thing to do is interrupt such unpleasant feeling with something totally different.  You can match Mr. Ben or listen to songs and if it's still persist then get out your comfort zone. Mingle with happy people who makes you smile.

6. Refrain from Trying to be Perfect

Everyone get piss off, you yelled at someone or say provocative words to people. No one is totally clean, have no fear of perfection because you'll never reach there.

7. Learn Loving, Yourself and Others


Nothing is so sweet like a kiss from a friend, and nothing is so romantic than giving out love unconditionally. No certificate or practice is required to care and be there for others around you. And most of all treating yourself the exact way you do others.

8. Be There For Others, Help Others Out

It's brings joy  while helping someone out of situations. Volunteer to build churches, school. You can involve in community development or humanitarian service. Volunteer your precious busy time to reach out for someone or your money. The more you care for others the more your blessing  doubles.

9.Increase Your Social Activity


By doing this you boast yourself. Negative thinking comes to lonely minds, social interactions increases your happiness. Networking with fun loving and positive person, positive energy will influence you. You can use the social media ,social gathering. Go outdoors and interact with people with differ believes.

10. Life Happily Everyday

The very purpose of live is to seek happiness.  Seek not happiness too greedily. Change your thought because it depend on your thoughts. Eat when you feel hungry,sleep, interact with people and never hurt someone. Smile even in worst situations.

Life is too short to be lacking behind. Live life to it's fullest, explore. Make a different, leave legacy behind. Many believes will always come around to swing the balance. Start taking control now or never.