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4 Rituals You Can Do Today To Guarantee A Better Tomorrow

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"Youth is waste on the young” One of those powerful apophthegms that motivates me to put on hard work and utilize the potential of my 20’s. The grass is said to be greener when seeds of today will become trees tomorrow. The future of a man is built when his still strong, when he can still lift weight, the earlier this is done the better. Certain rituals can make a better ending and on the contrary a rigorous step has an effect.

 "It takes one minute to make someone's day and one word or action or wrong step to destroy entirely '

1.     1  Patience:
Growing up I wasn't that patience dog. The eagerness to accumulate wealth blurred my vision. It led me nowhere but depressing moment and more worries. Impatient can have a serious negative outcome. It's one those desires that's drive the world insane. People lack endurance, human are better off with quick satisfaction that last but a minute.
A friend was under the shadow of impatience, nights of worries, days of the same. Hoping to sip from that' Holy Grail "quick success with less effort ".Impatience made a fool out of him until he cultivated that balance. Impatience is linked with health and physiological risk. It's more rewarding being patience, its keeps your mind at ease and give you a clear meaning of life.
"It's good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth''
It's more like Lacking (unlike living for not for tomorrow satisfaction) today and having enough tomorrow than short lived.
2.     2  Understanding ------Increased awareness.
We live in an enlightening but blind world   behind the mirror where mistaken certainties is blindfolding, ruining mixed with different colour of religion and view, raised in homes with parent that can't keep up, went to schools that we  were deprive of knowledge. What am trying to say in essence is that human are perishing because of lack of knowledge and you shouldn't be among those that live back stage. Do anything humanly possible to expand your level of awareness of things and how the universe works. ''Knowledge is Power''..
You never knew if all you what were taught were true of false. I read a story of a young man who was always fed buy scholars, one day he decided to verify all his been taught, to his surprise 55% were fabricated. From that day forward he started doing for himself.
 ''The beginning of wise is to get wisdom, and whatever you get, get insight.


Wastes so Much Effort on....Don't:
Youth is Truly wasted on the young, we waste so much time channelling our youthful energies into dark and unprofitable route. Millions of young people are driven by this alcoholic influence . Waste so much trying to find love from strangers and happiness in lustful relationships, Chasing the latest gadgets, trending fashion, watching the TV and thinking that life revolves around that but unfortunately life is not dictionary. Sometimes the saying '' you don't know what you're doing till you stop doing it'' is true because people tend that realize the value of something when it has been taken away.(old age)

.Avoid Short lived Pleasure
Pleasure a mind blowing experience, simple but powerful. The other way round Pleasure is ruining... The urge of pleasurable satisfactions is why the world is suffering from depression of impatience; it’s the reason why everyone wants quick cash. The rate at which people desire to satisfy this intimacy is amazing but youth is a waste on the young when all this effort yield pleasures that are short lived.
  If you observe your immediate environment, your church, your classmate, the leaders you'll see the bigger picture, the endless pursuit of FUN and Pleasure. Turn around you'll see effects of short lived pleasure. (Teenage pregnancy, under age prostitution, women turning their into sex symbols, on the TVs) Everyone is stripping for the pot of Gold. Instead of paying attention and laying concrete foundations, setting the right goals and hard work, they are busy touring nightclubs all for the Pleasure. Am not in any way saying all pleasures are blind but short lived in the sense those who run after it are like seeds that are supposed to land of fertile soil for the better of tomorrow, unfortunately it falls on Rocks.

Any choice you make as a young person stay with you for the rest of your life, youth are making decisions they cannot hold on for a lifetime.(Dating, marrying at the wrong age, drinking alcohol and doing drugs and a whole lot of unwholesome things). Youth is age with blessing but don't sell your soul to live it. Do something today and enjoy a better tomorrow.

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10 Powerful Habits Of The Super Successful (Infographic)

I found his bewildering infographic , its  an eminent approach to manage get you into the right perspective to get you to the destinations you are orchestrated to fulfil: It goes more than 10 convincing slants for ultra profitable individuals and solidify some confirmed circumstances where popular individuals have utilized them to make progress. So, i decided to share it
Infographic Source: Addictedtosuccess

10 Reasons Why You Are Still Nowhere Near Success

Year after year people makes resolutions, set goals,dream of succeeding in their business, they bet their bottom dollar but end up achieving below the par'. Alongside, we notice it's not like they have never worked hard like their fellow counterpart who planted on a piece of land and harvested good products nor because others have got 2 heads better than ours. It's simply because we have not been able to search ourselves through to know what could be responsible for such. Today I'll be sharing with you few reasons you never accomplished or failed to achieve bountiful.

10 Reasons Why You Can't Achieve Success.

1. Our thoughts,character contributes more to our achievements in life. An optimist strives to achieve his desire while a pessimist occupies his head with thoughts of failure and impossibility which reaps no results. James Allen said" All that you accomplish or fail to accomplish with your life is the direct result of your thoughts". Pensively, are you an optimist or a pessimist?
To get this right, note that we are the author and finisher of our fortunes. The subconscious mind attracts hidden thoughts and it directly manifest in our characters. Hence, negative thoughts materializes into failure. Nothing is done without being optimistic ,hope and confident. Believe in yourself that you actually do that which seems impossible
The joy in doing what is best for you tend drive you crazy. A purpose driven someone knows what he is after and he enjoys doing it. Therefore,success lies in doing what you love to do. I challenge you to find your purpose for life, be specific, have a target ---a goal you want to achieve and devote your time, energy to it, with the right mindset success lies.
3.You Procrastinate Wrongly.
Most people procrastinate by waiting for an appointed time, they fail to recognize that this appointed time can only be met when they tend to make effort doing what is expected of them rightly.
Our friends don't decide our life though but they can influence it, positively or negatively. There's most likely we are influenced by those with whom we relate. Our society has made this perception in numerous regions of conduct; The possibility of being influenced by those we spend our 24 hours with is a high. This is why: "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with." . Keeping company with those who are positive to your success in life gives you more energy, "Success is a journey fun when embarked with people who's desires is to achieve it. In Napoleon Hill's book. Think and Grow Rich: Chapter 10. Power of the Master Mind. He stressed out the importance of keeping company with people whose focus is to attain a definite purpose. To accomplish a goal a strong mastermind group or network is very vital. Great walls are built by groups of masterminded builders . A wise king makes wiser decisions with a committee of smart elders. Also, a successful man keeps company with success conscious people. Coming together is the beginning. Keeping together is progress. Working together is success." - Henry Ford.
In life, whatever happens to you is a product of whatever choice you make. Hence, nothing hits a man unless he permits it. Failure to motivate your self is like failing to begin: "Be courageous enough to enjoy courage. self motivation therefore energizes you to dream which helps to achieve a greater ambition."
6. You Never Care to Eliminate Distractions.
This era,people care less not knowing that any unproductive minute wasted is a moment lost forever . We tend to keep ourselves busy with the master of distractions called the internet, smartphones,watching TV, playing video games,associating with negative people , wasting away in wrong relationship that draw us backwards while you're supposed to plant the great trees of tomorrow.
All those makes life tough but it's makes you live for today not for tomorrow's satisfaction. The best way to strike a balance is learn to manage time effectively and increase your productivity.Care less of what people think of you, turn off notifications, avoid starting your day in neutral but make the most out of your everyday and develop a distraction free routine.
7. You Were not Passionate about what you desired for./Never Believed In Your Ability
When you fail to to ignite the burning desire for something and let the aspirations drive your you won't identify the beauty in the struggle. Remember:"Choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day of your life." -Confucius
8.Your Failed to Plan  Your Life.
Many understand the importance of planning ceremonies but fail to implement the same technique when it's comes to life accomplishment. Anyone who doesn't plan, in contrary digs his own graves(plans to fail). Planning is an unavoidable function of success. It's of no meaning to go after achieving something not planned for because the possibility of achievement is slim. A plan gives you direction, you in control , prepares you against uncertainty ,it's the vehicles that drives your purpose. And move your subconscious mind at work. Life could be so unclear when looked from afar but brighter when viewed from the right angle.
This era,people care less not knowing that any unproductive minute wasted is a moment lost forever . We tend to keep ourselves busy with the master of distractions called the internet, smartphones,watching TV, playing video games,associating with negative people , wasting away in wrong relationship that draws us backwards while you're supposed to plant the great trees of tomorrow.
All those makes life tough but it's makes you live for today not for tomorrow's satisfaction. The best way to strike a balance is learn to manage time effectively and increase your productivity.Care less of what people think of you, turn off notifications, avoid starting your day in neutral but make the most out of your everyday and develop a distraction free routine.

10.You Never Thought About Getting Off Your Comfort zone .
At times why people fail is just simply a matter of locations, the place,the wrong time, the wrong job, wrong city, its a very unrealized tricks. Every one is succeeding in that field but not everybody is capable, Knowing when to move to the next opportunity. When to get off your comfort zone, it could be in form of changing your mind, habits, friends. Accomplishing success in life is a choice but being poor is a decision. Be determined then you can overcome the obstacles nothing will work unless you do. 10.You
A downfall was never the end but simply an opportunity to begin again, more wittily. Those times you never accomplish anything were steps and foundation of success. You fail to recognize them. One of the most common causes of failure is the habit of quitting when one is overtaken by temporary defeat.. Failure is a friend. Be sincere with your work and don't be afraid to take chances.
Action and It's Price
All accomplishment has price tags. Without having proper understanding of the scope of how to accomplish it in life, you won't stand a test of time. Having a talent is one thing,discovering, utilizing and exposure is another. People who fail most times took all the steps to reach that pinnacle (success ) but things went sideways. Karma tend to play her role in lives of those who permits it. Many harbour the insane beliefs that their misfortune is as a result of lack of luck or fate. Nothing is impossible. Like I said in the beginning Of this post, our future is in our hands. We are the architect ,we recreate and design Who we want to become. To succeed, be conscious,find your purpose and put your whole soul to it, above all be pure in the heart, smart abstain from crooked ways.

Setting Smart Goal and Resolutions

We all hope to improve some area of our lives in the New Year. Thousands make resolutions to quit smoking, weights loss, achieve success, and a stay healthy. But only 1 percent tend to achieve the goal.
 Goal Setting

I could recall a year ago, I made resolutions. Which later became unrealistic. That's the common culture around the world, people trying to change things without knowing what it takes to actually make it a success. There are techniques to set smart goals and achieve remarkable resolutions. These techniques could include:

1. Make the resolutions: Make a list of bad habit you want to break, things you want to accomplish. Convert them to goals. Resolution are vows while goals are results.

2. Make Realistic and Specific goals: why most people fail to achieve is failing to realize what
exactly they want. Paint a vivid picture of what you want. (You want to achieve success in life or business )

3. Time: Give it a lifespan. Ask your self: "is my goal attainable-accomplished within a reasonable period? Hence, map out this period. Say 366day (1year), I will accomplish my goals successfully.

4. Be Ready to Strive: Know your strength and weakness. Am I fit for this? What distracts my focus? Ok it's my friends!  I vow never to make. the same mistakes again.

5. Seek for knowledge and skills: master your ideas. For example, to become a successful lawyer you most spend a year in Law school. The needed information prepares you for obstacles and all the things ahead.

6. Team Up: Build a network. To achieve your resolution, You have to start networking with people with similar interest. Is it weight loss? You need people that will make motivate you,give you reasons to loss more pounds. Start with the little things. don't underrate yours little beginning. Above all be optimistic build your confidence. When it's get going remember to measure the progress.

Bottom line.
==> Make a list of your goals.
==> Be specific.
==> Make it realistic.
==> Should be attainable
==> Timely .
==> Get the needed knowledge.
==> Build a good network.
==> Make progress and measure how far you have gone.

Smart Goal. This year I will be successful, I have to start a little business, the one I know best and i can do well. In the time frame of 64 days I will extend it and before the end of this year i Will be employing more people.

Success in Life – A Simple Technique to achieve it

Success greatness and happiness is a journey, a battle of the fittest,  for the non sceptic minded. Applying the proper strategies can help attain and achieved all your heart desires. They exist no secret of success in this 21 century,every one of them have been taught, exposed numerous times by people who made it through life. Like i have said consecutive times'' We need to be motivated from times to time to fuelled of purpose driven mind to keep that burning desire on the rage.

I was opportune to have a conversation with a great man lately. He gave me advices, principles and encouragement which i want to share today with you techniques great men made used of to acquire wealth and power. Note, the below are according to  what he told me.

''The key i,s  first desiring for whatever you wish to become in life, that great fruits of today are products of yesterday. And also being optimise in life, seeing the better side of everything and also trying our best to neglect negativity. He emphasized on how our potentials is act upon by an active force can makes us become rich and famous. Everything in the world are products of natural gifted talent discovered and utilized.

Many go through life in poverty because they failed to makes use of the natural gifted talent, they fail to subdue  and have dominion over it .  Our subconscious mind recognize thought which are blended and act on them. Dreams, desire, thought, habits needs to be mixed properly and acted on. To become rich  you daydream, makes us of the power of desire, be positive about, do away with procrastinating and most of all you seek others thought, change your habits. '' Success and failure are results of our habits''  The habits you develop towards a gaol is is more important than  wishes and hoping.

There is a huge connection between success and believing, having faith and griping to it firmly, it makes you more grounded. Believe it's possible for your dreams to materialize.

Faith without workout is dead. Actions needs to be involve and also finding your purpose of life. Without handwork nothing grows except weeds. Success won't fall from heavens, actions, making use of the God given talent embedded  in you and having a specialized general knowledge. Desire to have broad knowledge of differs things,many wealth  people this days DON'T  invest in one thing but many, they know how to purchase knowledge associate with wise set of people who refuse to compromise with circumstance.

Idea rules the world, this blog is a product of  idea, the internet was someone idea even the telephone. It all begun with a concept.'' All achievement, all earned riches, have their beginning in an idea''_ Napoleon Hill. A  Idea  that have value, few once that make progress.  John F Kennedy said'' A man may  die, nation may rise and fall but an idea lives on''.

The degree of  success that you desire should be an element that is usually possible, provided your may to determine the idea via. Furthermore, your desire inside of it seriously isn't ample to guarantee in which good results although by utilizing these strategies coupled with a firm opinion you will have great results, you happen to be much more likely to obtain your goals.

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Be Purpose Driven: 5 Things Purpose Driven People do Differently

What is the purpose of life? What's mine all about?. Those are few of numerous questions that babbles in our heads. Many of us are not happy  where we are or what we do just because we never wanted that but we were given or we chosed it because our friends did. It affects your life in a long run, at your place of work if purpose didn't drives you the joy of being there won't overtake you.

Buddha says '' Your purpose in life is to find your purpose and give your whole heart and soul to it". A lot of  people are not happy where they are. Put their whole hearth and soul to it seems suffocating. I think  they weren't purpose driven and tactic while choosing career. Being purposed driven--- know the mission- the task that fulfil a purpose- Live it a vision-be positive in thoughts and focus on achieving all that.

 5 Things Purpose Driven People do Differently

1.Live With A Vision: Living with perception is one vital tool great and successful  people make use of . I read stories of many great men and how they went through many vision killer circumstances but they still kept  it alive. They all came to conscious understanding of certain things. Using the power of desire they all become a success and made history. I can recollect years ago my life cycled around the TV and my vision was blurred. The kind of person I'll become in 5 years  time i couldn't visualized. 3 years later i came to knowledge that there's a world out there the brighter than the fantasies i see on the TV screen. And also that you never be great when the basics and aspiration is lacked. One must find his own purpose for life.

2.Determination and Focus: A purposeful driven individual makes up their mind to be focus and pay no attention to fantasies,pleasure that are dis-tractive.. These days Smartphone and the internet can be one of those. They have a negative spirit. I challenge you to identify your weakness, do away with your time killer. and then put your camera at whatever is your purpose.

Determination changes your view,--- an active force that keeps you motivated. Strengthen your will power and restructure your desire. Energies that purposefulness in you and make you embrace chance and embarrassment.

4.Dream Little: We are constantly informed that dreams comes through and that impossibility is a mere word accepted by mediocre who don't think outside the box. Making many to shoot for the stars hastily and aim at nothing.I believe that success is a deck, steps takes you there. Like the popular adage'' Rome was not built in a day'' Every purpose after realization materialize gradually. Dream little and grow bigger in no time.

5.Follow Your Bliss and find Happiness. Most people claim to learn to love something with times while others fell even before they understood better. Whatever which is not your bliss can never be, it will be impossible to find joy being a nurse when you never liked sick people. But you decided to chose the career because your friend Alicia did. Happiness lies in doing what you love.

5.Sacrifice for that Purpose: Sacrifice is the price you pay to fulfil a purpose. Nothing parachute itself in to space. Someone must have made it happened. ''Dictionary is the only place that success comes before work. Hard work is the price we must pay for success. I think you can accomplish anything if you're willing to pay the price.''-- Vince Lombardi

Lastly, put your whole soul to it. A passionate nurse put her soul to the profession. She sacrifice her life into it like in the recent Ebola cases. She find great joy because her purpose for life has been found. Everyone has been made for some particular work, and the desire for that work has been put in every heart.-- Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Over to You

As for me my purposed for life seems many right now. I see myself and this blog changing lives, bringing joy to people and re-framing the mindset of people all around the world that Happiness can be attained. And also see myself one day being there for others and whole a lot of things no one has ever dreamt off, i guess i have to be specific, but does it really matters?.

Now I'll like you to ponder over these questions. What is your mission on earth?, What's is your purpose for life, have your find it yet or still searching?. For those of you that are presently living it how does it feel doing what makes you always wanted, what you love and are you actually putting your whole soul to it?. 

Secrets Of Success Using The Power Of Desire

The Power Of Desire

“The world is little, people are little, human life is little. There is only one big thing — desire.” 

― Willa CatherThe Song of the Lark
Success in life means to achieve a particular goals. It might mean different thing to you but   it all boils down to achieving a goal and living the dream. Do you want to be happy and successful in whatever you want in life?. Read this article and you will find the  secrets of success using the power  of desire.
Successful opportunity comes when your desire is embarked with action which is making a change in your comfort zone. Then hang where the definite ,major purpose at.  Success are hidden and only the smart caves and  locate it where one thought it could ever be. With knowledge the the impossible can be prove possible.  The power of  thoughts, that obstacles, failure can withstand it.

The practical reason why most people  don't make it is because they forget to locate their root and lost the determination to walk with that burning Desire until it becomes realistic.'' We give up when it's get tougher''. The truth is you can't build the tower alone, others experience is very vital. Never Quit. (See why you never give up.)

The most easiest thing to do in life is to give up, to Quit when he can't bear it no more, meanwhile the moment you gives. Your times was nearer, to shine bright in place no one thought light could dwell never quit. With my experience even though am not successful yet(Not rich like Bill Gate still chasing dreams) i have  this believe that success ride on a State Of Mind. The law of attraction, it's begins with powerful thoughts that grows to Desire which trigger moves along the crooked lane full of obstacles but leads to wealth. And it present it self only to those who are success concious.

Understanding the principle, how to make use of it and make desire function with a dollar and a dream baffle people. There is no such thing as Secrets Of Success because nearly all the successful people have shared their stories. And it all boils down to mind-work, having a distinct limit goal and investing your energy, time into to back it up.

Opportunity that narrow to realizing the twin flames might be hidden in your current unproductive place of work. Version should never be allowed to die in the mission. (Expand your version) Many miss out because of the body and mind are not in equilibrium. ''Wherever you mind chase let thy body do the work''. Don't Quit, failing 3 times means 3 steps according to Thomas Edison. Read about most successful people they all had one gaol at a time, desired,makes use of opportunity(it might be working for someone to save for the project )and plans.not giving up until it a success.

I strongly believe Bill Gate learnt a little of programming somewhere, education is power. With a dollar and a dream, right plan and a little eduction(knowledge)any one can becomes successful. For instance, to become a dream Doctor you first be a concious dreamer who is ready to summit his self to acquire the needed skill and knowledge. Hard times will definite come but never accept defeat, impossible and obstacle, failure are no dought friends, they will pay you a surprise visitation. ''People only fail when they become failure conscious and accept defeat and mediocrity.

desireIn Christianity we Believe..'' Whosoever believe in him(JESUS) will not perish(fail) but have everlasting life(success.). All you have to do is believe in your dreams.

Go against nature and destroy that natural balance of impossibility. Naturally certain things are tagged impossible. Like in the case of Helen Keller. She lost her sensation of hearing at birth, despite her disability she prove to nature that Impossible is just a word. She defeated nature with the power of believe and desire.

Focus on those things you wishes to become, the journey requires faith, believing in yourself. Whatever you point your camera at that exactly what you'll capture. Distraction will come your way. In pleasurable and cunny ways. Make use of head never let the heart deceive you. The fantasies of life and pleasure of eyes can keep hold of your dreams.
On the road to success you bound to miss a few turns, meet negative people, unbelievers that will try to poison your mind with discouragement.''Great people don't accept mediocre and opinion of others when making use of believe. Because believe give courage.

Associate with the right people. Dream and desire cannot never be crushed but wrong company corrupts. Kings should never make friends with slaves.

Without actions''Hard work'' not becomes a success except failure. Lazy mind kills the future but hard work gives rise to discoveries which in time mothers invention, the simplifier of life.
Consistency is the velocity. Thomas Edison was consistent in his journey to invent a light bulb.

Despite failing multiple times his desire to be successful and change the world never changed. He never accepted defeated. Imagination and have memories of the future and most of all not faking it when you're still on the road. Many believe that sincerity, the secret of success  once faked it means you've got it made. Personally i believe in the opposite make it then fake it.

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8 Golden Rules To Being Great In Life

Greatness  is having or doing extraordinary  things that mediocre people can't never attempt to. Not necessary the state of superiority. Everyone wants to be like Michael Jackson  doing the mood work and like the rest of the genius that ever lived and get their name written in ink on the page of history book. The road to greatness  is full of failure and fright. It's like you're running for your life on a camel back, its fury,a process, a goal aim with patience and confident with energetic enthusiasm back up with passion and determination.  Powerful motivational words of greatness provokes the lying spirit in us, it caffeine our soul boost  and strengthens our mind.
What Great People Did:

1.Desire To Be Great:  '' There are many wonderful things that will never be done if you don't do them  said Charles D.Gill. You have to desire things before you can have them. The only big things on earth is desire, it's grows. The greater your desire the farther your growth extends. What you desire is seeking you.
'' A desire is anything but frivolous. It is the interface between you and that which is greater than you. No desire is meaningless or inconsequential. If it pull you. Even a little bit, it will take everyone higher. Desire Desire is where the divine lives, inside the inspiration of your desire. Every desire is of profound importance with huge consequences, and deserve your attention._Mama Gena.

2.Burn that motto'' IMPOSSIBLE'':  The greatest people  who once lived in the face of this earth  faced this insane powerless word. Impossible.  They proved it wrong, Helen Keller did, she told her disabilities..'' Impossible is just a word''.  Impossibilities are optional.  '' Often what seems impossible climb is just a staircase without the step drawn in.
Greatness is not measured by what a man or woman accomplishes, but by the opposition he or she has overcome to reach his goals._Dorothy Height
3.Eliminate Fear Of Failing: Fear is very wonder imaginations that throw minds on a step slope. Nothing that leads to greatness is ever straight, tiger and holocaust comes into the scene just to knock you off. Failure is colleague, never be afraid of it rather dare to.
“I was never afraid of failure; for I would sooner fail than not be among the greatest.”― John Keats

4.Be Open To Change: Greatness is in stages, one step to the other and each one is change it'self. Many people don't get the desire things just because they are dam to changes.  New ideas are really vital to great people. Its a doorways to growing bigger.
It is a rough road that leads to the heights of greatness._Lucius Annaeus Seneca

5.Create The Future:  Anyone who fail to draw the plan for his life and set gaols, picture his position in next 5 years is worthless  and a lost man. Great people created their future, makes decision and also recreated an unforgettable past all together. In order to design a black and white future all you have to do is Wake-up and start where are. ''ACTION'', The most important goal first.
''The mark of a great man is one who knows when to set aside the important things in order to accomplish the vital ones.”― Brandon SandersonThe Alloy of Law

6.Be Courageous: Success and greatness can never comes into existence when courages isn't the lead. Many human have showed courage as an important key to greatness.  Don't allow the fear of attaining a greater height scare you.
'' Be not afraid of greatness. Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and others have greatness thrust upon them_ William Shakespeare,twelve Night.
7.Be Your Self: The road to fames, great achievements in life's seems to change number of people. They lost that realness spirit.  One must maintain the natural balance by not permit the interference of the toughness on the path  to drag out the real version of them.  Judy Garland said'' Always be the first rate version of you.
 ''Wherever you go, no matter what weather, always bring your sunshine'' _Anthony J.
8.Simplicity, Love and Treat Others Equally.“A great man is always willing to be little.” said Ralph Waldo Emerson. There is nothing to be feeling too high about.  Simplicity to me is being humble,, Coco Chanel defined as “Simplicity a the keynote of all true elegance.” .  Truly there is no greatness where there is no simplicity, goodness and truth. Many well people today are just so arrogant and hard. Love your fellow human. Its the only thing that show the level of your greatness. The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively._Bob Marley. Anyone can be whatever they want to be, great people don't have two heads and thousands life. Nothing can limit you unless you permit it. And when you achieve it don't get shallowed by the new flames.

Why You Should Never Ever Give Up

Why You Should Never Ever Give Up

At certain point life and all our hard works and investment seems unproductive. Making it to that pinnacle of success seems like the seas you crossed were all in vein. The land of fulfilment gets farther the closer you get, you still feel behind. When all the faith is hopeless and insufficient and the only option left is giving up . Are you in such situation or is life so unfair to such extend?  Today i tell you never to give up on your dreams. Time will heal everything. As the saying goes'' Winners Never Give Up. In order walk into the hall of fames and have a chapter in the history book you need to have in mind that nothing good comes easy and Rome  was not built in a day.  Like i said lately'' We need to be motivated timelessly'' to man up our courage .

Thomas Edison failed but he never gave up.  While in school Thomas was regarded as the least student due to his  inability  to shine like his class mate. His teacher told him that'' He was to stupid to learn anything ''. His unproductive head made him to lose two jobs. He never lets those disabilities hold him back.  He still went on, trying to prove    no one could ever thought of, he still failed this times 1000 times as an attempts to invent light bulb . Despite the multiple failed attempts he never accepted failure, when asked how it felt failing multiply  times he replied'' I didn't fail, the 1000 times were steps''. 

Marilyn Monroe; the sixth greatest female star of all time never woke up one to day to this award. She hits the stone hard and crossed of valley. She was sack after she failed to turn for  firming. Her first modelling job paid only 5 $ enough to make any body take the exist but she never did.  Before the fame as an actress and a sex figure encountered lot of obstruction, hits many obstacles even got sack by her first Hollywood studio, faced problems in her home, marriage and career she never gave up.  '' Just because you fail once doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything''.

Michael Jordan wasn't an exception. Today his the greatest basket baller of all time but this didn't just happen.Sea were crossed,ship sink and glasses were broken. Years later he said..'' I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career, I've lost almost 300 games. 29 times, I've been trust to take the wining shoots and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that's why i succeed. ''

Never hang down in your comfort zone find a way. Failure is never an end point but preparing and a test of your strength if you've have what it's takes. There is no dought that failure is a friend and that everyone encounter with failure is for a better reason. Sri Chinmoy said “Not to give up under any circumstances should be the motto of our life: we shall try again and again, and we are bound to succeed. There will be obstacles, but we have to defy them. So do not give up, do not give up! Continue, continue! The goal is ahead of you. If you do not give up, you are bound to reach your destined goal.“
''When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hang on a minute longer, never give up then, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn.''_Harriet Beecher Stowe.
Success and failure can make you loose concentration. All what you need is the right tool which is the wisdom  and power of unconditional surrender, Listen to you drum. Everything gets better with time, Never give up. Like Edison, Marilyn, Michael Jordan and other famous successful people today they faced the hard side of life, they never gave up.

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70 Questions To Inspire Rapid Self-discovery

70 Questions That Will Change Your Life 
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 Sometimes thoughtful questions trigger the successful change factor in us. The world and things we all carry drops us in strange land full of questions marks.  In life, when it comes to setting of goals  marking them turnt out, mindful questions that moves power need to asked, examine and put into considerations. I discover that everybody needs to be motivated at least once a day. Motivational words awakens the sleep weak inner person. It's energize and provoke that successful humanity. It might be any form. Written or verbally. '' Someone who ask questions never gets lost in strangeland.''  Some area in your life might be stagnant and you don't need a fortune teller. All you need is reasoning, self examination, self searching. Trying to locate the particular area that needs improvements.  Questions, life changing questions need to asked.

At times i sit and put my heart upon my selves , i ask my self the below questions when i get off track.
  1. Who Am i and Where am i?.
  2. Where will i be in the next 5 years to come.?
  3. Am i the real version of me?
  4.  What does success mean to me?
  5. What are you passionate about?
  6. What are your values? What do you represent? What do you want to embody?
  7. Do you love yourself?
  8. Can i win?
  9. What kind of seed am i planting?
  10. What will happen to me, my family and belongings when i die?
  11. If you were to die three hours from now, what would you regret most?
  12. What is holding me back?
  13. Who are the 3 people who had most powerful influence on you?
  14. What’s your deepest secret?
  15. What is happiness for you?
  16. How can you love yourself more today?
  17. What would you do today if there is no more tomorrow?
  18. For every experience you get: What are the biggest things you have learned?
  19. How can you do this better the next time?
  20. When was the last time you did something spontaneously?
  21. Which are the most memorable moments from your past?
  22.  Are you making the same mistakes over and over again?
  23.  Forget your real age for a second – now tell yourself how old are you?
  24. How important is social approval for you?
  25. Do you live for others or for yourself?
  26. What was the last life lesson you learnt?
  27. Do you love your job?
  28. What is your ideal career?
  29. How can you start creating your ideal career starting today?
  30. What is your ideal home like?
  31. When was the last time you helped someone?
  32. What’s your life’s biggest achievement?
  33. Do I seize opportunities?
  34. What can you do to start living your ideal life?
  35. What do you fear most in life?
  36. How can I bring more joy into my life?
  37. Who do I want to meet?
  38. What adventures do I want to go on?
  39. What is your ideal physical look?
  40. What do you need to do to achieve your ideal physical look?
  41. What is your ideal life?
  42. What do I want more of in my life?
  43. Am I open-minded? Am I flexible?
  44. Am I quick to judge others?
  45. Do I take calculated risks?
  46. Do I give others sincere compliments?
  47. Do I appreciate what others do for me?
  48. Where do I want to go?
  49. Do I care too much about what others think of me?
  50. When was the last time you were proud of yourself?
  51. If everything was possible where would you live?
  52. What are the achievements you are most proud of?
  53. What are you most grateful for in life?
  54. What are the most important things to you in life?
  55. How would you describe yourself?
  56.  What stops you from making the first step towards your dream?
  57. When was the last time you took a risk?
  58. Did you ever help complete stranger?
  59. What is your greatest fear?
  60. Which word describes your personality best?
  61. What inspires you?
  62. What was the biggest change initiated by you in the past 5 years?
  63. If you have  10 thousand dollars, what would you do with it?
  64. What do you need to do to achieve your ideal home?
  65. What do I want less of in my life?
  66. Am I on the look out for opportunities?
  67. Am i making the right memories?
  68. How many people have i help to reach their full potential?
  69. Are my friends improving or damaging my life?
  70. Is experience truly my best teacher?

 Who am i? Where am i? Where will i be in the next 5 years to come?: I combined these three because i think the trio is a must asked. I stood in front of the mirror, i saw someone,the reflection of me. Bright faced but deep inside it's color riot. I ponder about this times without number.Who i'm i? is that boy in the mirror the real me or something like Mona Lisa. ? . Where am i ?comes to  my mind  often. The world and the life we lived is evil and uncertainty is the order of the day. Unplanned things happens everyday and am left with questions. Sometimes i ask why was  i born at first place.  Does the future really exist if it does then Where will  i be in the next years to come?. Will i still be at my mamas house or on my own or probably be the man my dad was'nt.?

 Do really love myself? ,What's love?: Anytimes i break any of my personal 10 commandments i get this feeling, the sensational kind you get when you turn tables and burn bridges. That quilt, i end up saying i don't love myself. I think if do love i wont hurt him. I came to conclusion that experience was never the best teacher and loving my self is far beyond lay blames when i go wrong.

4 Keys To Success


Have you ever look back and measure the height you've attained in life, things you gave to be where you're?. The road to success never felt so smooth right. Success is crooked. You might be at the grass-root right now but i believe that wherever someone is right now is a success already. Success is the consequences of one's deeds, it's an achievement of one's aims. It never a miracles or something someone receives as a gift. Success is a journey of thousand miles it achieved in a while and only those with matured minds survives.

Be Success Conscious. The road to success is glift, to make it to a plateau it more than merely climbing. It all about being smart and alert. Being conscious of success means being aware of what you're about to achieved. It all about being aware of one's awareness, it all about knowing and being ready to conquer no matter how hard it gets. Anyone whose attentive is ready for it. Nothing on earth comes to anyone who who is not well prepared.
'' Success comes to those who becomes success conscious. Failure to those who differently allow himself to become failure conscious''_ Napoleon Hills.
Plan. Before something becomes a success the first step toward that is by making plans, painting an image or design of everything. Plan what you want and the dimension, the durations it will take it to be materialize. Planning your way to success is making up your minds, your intentions backed up with actions and expectations to achieving something. To becomes successfulness you must plan and work those plans.

Success don't come overnight. Many still have this mediocre believe that success can come be miraculous.  Which i disagree, all the successful people never  woke up to all they dreamt of when they slumber. But through handwork and consistence hunger for it. Times needs to be invested.
Day and night. Steady progress towards the goal at hand,nothing is forever easy everything goes to those who attracts them.

Patience . Impatient have ended many in places not meant for them. It can be harmful.When it comes to achieving anything one must be patience.Without it nothing grows except weeds.
Lastly, failure is a friend, to win something you have to lose and they say the downfall of a man isn't the end but a beginning, a test. No matter how focus you're failure will always be around but never give up. Above all loving what you do is the most important key.

Resilience training – take it to live life properly

Resilience training
Have you ever faced any trauma, bad experience, death of a family member in life? Well, these are the most important facts of our life. People have to face it at some point of time. Some bad experiences make people so weak that they forget to stand on their leg. Trauma can be the most dangerous part of life that sometimes makes people mad. It snatches away your thinking power and makes you half dead. Who wants to live a beautiful life in this way? Nobody come here to experience such things. Sorrow is a part of life but it is not the entire life. Happiness is also important and every person has the right to live happily.
Advantages of resilience training:
So, if you want to maintain the normal life, enjoy the positive life and experience the beauty of life then it is really important to take resilience training. Resilience is a part of human character that makes them able to get the power to fight with everything. If you can manage to get this ability then, you can easily fight with stress, get over of your trauma, any adversity of life. You will definitely be able to deal with the tragedies of life with the help of this training. 
Resilience training helps people to become more confident. It is such a good effect that it will give you a healthy life. You will be able to control your health as well as psychological aspects with the help of this training. It will give you the confidence to handle your life and you will be able to face different challenges that come into your path. 
Without proper resilience power human cannot deal with their problems. They cannot manage to get the best solution to deal with it. So, naturally they have to use some bad tactics to handle the stress. It will hamper your personal life and sometimes can take you under depression. 
Due to all these severe reasons it is really important to take help from resilience training. There are many such training centres that help people to understand the meaning of life and know their strength. You should find out the centres as soon as possible and take help from it. You can search on internet to get the details of these training centres. It is always good to live a happy life. You should know how to fight with different challenges and how to deal with them. Take resilience training and get a better life.