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4 Important Areas in Your Life That Needs Improvement The Most

4 Important Areas in Your Life That Needs Improvement The Most  Lately i went on search for the garden of Eden have been reading about in the bible. I dusted  my belongings, i founds worn out tissues that intruded my desire to continue the search for that hidden even though i found out that one question leads to more overwhelming and headless ones.   My motive  changed, quilts and strange cloud stormed my beautiful blue sky.  There are vital  broken areas in our life that needs re-branding and total change from colours to black and white .

Important Areas in Your Life That Needs Change The Most 

1. Spiritual Aspects needs more attention more like every other,  God created us for several purposes and one of them is spiritual purpose. Finding that purpose and improving on them motivate your desire to grow more spiritually. The complications people faces is how and how to maintain the balance as the flow glows. In a world filled with distractions and religious confusions.

 How to Improve Your Spiritual Life

 You  can be spiritually strong and wealthy and pure like God's son did . first thing first, it's a gradual process. Time and commitment and desire to grow older and wiser  is the key.

  •  Get the knowledge in your holy book or scriptures . You can grow on the part you know nothing about. They say faith comes by hearing and hearing so, the more you study the more you discover more about your spiritual father and this will motivate  and increase the burning desire to imitate his qualities.
  • Praying without season gets you closer to God, read and also meditate more often creates a personal bond and close friendship with God.  
  • Attend Christian meetings with fellow believer, communicating and sharing experience strengthens your weakness and gives you reasons to try harder than  the devil. And this will reduces the chances of you going astray,  singing and defiling your self with worldly things.
  • Improve our spirituality by imitating  Jesus . Learning to love with all of you, give without thinking twice, and sharing all what you've learnt with others who are trying to attain spiritual maturity.

Most of the people who are spiritually mature have this  greater feeling of well being. They live life to it's fullest and they enjoy the best things in life which unbeliever find it hard to. They live comfortably in worst situations, when life swings and turn the other side of the coin. They embrace happiness, the spice of life. They are really peaceful and they don't mix true worship with false.

2.Moral Aspect: Morality is a another vital part of life that needs to be improved. A moral person is someone whose behaviour,  manners and character is upright.  A different entity whose intention is clean and knowns right and wrong. This days it's hard to find someone who is totally moral, they might displace a perfect image like Monalisa but dirty and stinky like a swine.

How to Improve Your Morals.

Being morality or been  morally clean is far beyond distinguishing between right and wrong. It also involves being sexual moral, i mean avoiding all forms of sexual immorality. This age of social media and technological advancement keeping the natural balance of morality is a challenge.

  • On the internet, don't put on a different version of you, updating and posting videos and photos that brings shame to nature, and people who looks up to you. I see countless  of immoral and offensive acts done by decent people on the net but pretends to be different and religious in real life. Any mistake on the internet can go viral and at the end bring shame and regrets.
  • In reality, one can be moral by being decent in all ways including the way he talks and addressing others, dresses and act when his all alone. He values  not his self alone but others around him and even strangers, he also respect the creations and things therein, including blood, the people in the world and their believers, their right and wrong and most of all help them out when needs arises.

I also believe that being honest too contribute to morality and it's a social phenomenon. Life would have been empty and totally worthless if it was just all about one person without relating and improving life directly or indirectly.

3.Mental Aspect. Thoughts are like trees planted closer to a sea, they are ever green. They don't live like atuum leaves. Many people in the world is faced with one problem or the other and most of them are mentally oriented. What ever you think  grows. Anyone who 'beats his brains out' with hurtful thought is endangering his life.

How To Improve The Mental Life.

 To be mentally  free one must do away or avoid all hurtful thoughts and  that shifts your thinking from pure to dirty and dangerous. Free your mind from the world and all the bad happenings. Point your mind on importance things, think of strategies to grow and focus on happiness as a basic of life.

  • Avoid movies like horror, pornographic and very graphic actions, war and those that's isn't improving your life positively.
  • Stay out of abusive  relationships, any relation that gives you stress and sleepless night don't worth crying over.
  • Negative thoughts could be a bad companion, avoid it at all cost. Relax your mind and focuses on things that enlightens your soul.

Your mental health is more important that anything else in the world. A  mentally fit individual is a positive and a productive person. Develop love for things that will will express joy to your emotions. If any problem like fear or depression from anywhere hits you up. Be sure  to identify them and focus on the course.

4.The Physical Aspect :This aspect is what is term as personal hygiene and cleanliness. It one thing do without. According to the popular adage'' Dress the way you wants to be addressed''. It a must to have a good manner and proper  personal hygiene.  The physical is far beyond looks alone and care for our body but the sorrounding we find ourselves too.   Exercise properly and don't foget to get that attractive appearance on, well groom and decent, all the time.

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The Fear OF Dying


Death, the doorway through life's unfair nature,most people despise any conversation that has any thing related to it. All religion believes that dead is one thing that everyone must  one day give up to. But when and how baffles nearly everyone, life is so uncertain, you never see it coming. The angel in a new dress knocks when you least expect.

The fear of the unknown hits you up like a traffic jam, living behind  strange cloud, fear of dying one day.
The fear of losing all what you worked hard to acquire, all the lonely night you spend transforming the impossible into something worthwhile.

What is death all about? Is it sleeping forever with no version?. Some says it's a deep sleep without memories. Some religion Say's a doorway to eternity. Making it to go in accordance with the saying that "Life is___ is but a dream" you only  wake up when you lose it.

Heaven and Hell teaching makes you grips to faith, if it might help you skip Hell. Despite that the trauma keep hurting you. Living behind a mindset of reaping what you sow on earth some day when lost your breathe.

 Malaysia Airlines Flight 370, a Boeing 777 with 239 people aboard that went missing on March 8 en route from Kuala Lumpur to Beijing.. I wonder if the passengers on board had that insane version  or thought about losing it in the Ocean. The Dying Process, no one knows how it feels life or how they will die.

Totally being replaced and forgotten, the cars,house and all the material things you owned will all have a new owner and you will be forgotten. The only worthless things left over is memories.

Another man will replace you, playing dad to your kids.The moments, smiles, promises and future is never coming into reality. Vanity upon vanity, the things of our life.

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27 Inspirational Bible Quotes

All works and no play makes Jacks dull-witted and all Life,prosperity, breakthrough with no God make Daniel a loser,empty,incomplete and lost in the world.

You need Inspirational Christian Quotes  that is capable of uplifting and guiding you ways to living a more divine and Holy Christ like way of life.  Below you can find them;

  1. "Whoever transgresses and does not abide in the doctrine of Christ does not have God. He who abides in the doctrine of Christ has both the Father and the Son"   -2John 9:11
  2. ''`But whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in Me to stumble, it would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck, and he were thrown into the sea.'' -Mark 9:42
  3. "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding"   -Proverbs 3:5
  4. "Now when Daniel knew that the writing was signed, he went home. And in his upper room, with his windows open toward Jerusalem, he knelt down on his knees three times that day, and prayed and gave thanks before his God, as was his custom since early days."   -Daniel 6:10
  5. "Your own mouth condemns you, and not I; Yes, your own lips testify against you."   -Job 15:6
  6. "Sow for yourselves righteousness; Reap in mercy; Break up your fallow ground, For it is time to seek the Lord, Till He comes and rains  righteousness on you."   -Hosea 10:12
  7. "There is a way that seems right to a man, But its end is the way of death."   -Proverbs 14:12
  8. "Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own? 20 For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body[a] and in your spirit, which are God's."   -1Corinthians 6:19-20
  9. "Nevertheless to remain in the flesh is more needful for you."   -Philippians 1:24
  10. "Fear not for I am with you, be not dismayed for I am your God; I will strengthen you, yes I will help you. I will uphold you with My righteous right hand."   -Isaiah 41:10
  11. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God"   -Philippians 4:6
  12. "Therefore  `Come out from among them And be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean, And I will receive you.`"   -2Corinthians 6:17
  13. "But if you indeed obey His voice and do all that I speak, then I will be an enemy to your enemies and an adversary to your adversaries."   -Exodus 23:22
  14. "Who ever goes to war at his own expense? Who plants a vineyard and does not eat of its fruit? Or who tends a flock and does not drink of the milk of the flock?"   -1Corinthians 9:7
  15. "When I say to the wicked, 'O wicked man, you shall surely die!' and you do not speak to warn the wicked from his way, that wicked man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood I will require at your hand."   -Ezekiel 33:8
  16. "The law of the Lord is perfect, converting the soul; The testimony of the Lord is sure, making wise the simple;"   -Psalm 19:7
  17. "There are many plans in a man's heart, Nevertheless the Lord's counsel--that will stand."   -Proverbs 19:21
  18. "For the kingdom of heaven is like a man traveling to a far country, who called his own servants and delivered his goods to them."   -Matthew 25:14
  19. "So the Lord said, 'If you have faith as a mustard seed, you can say to this mulberry tree, 'Be pulled up by the roots and be planted in the sea,' and it would obey you."   -Luke 17:6
  20. "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law"   -Galatians 5:22-23
  21. "for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?"   -1Timothy 3:5
  22. "A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man displays folly"   -Proverbs 14:29
  23. "But Jesus looked at them and said to them, 'With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible."   -Matthew 19:26
  24. "Do not be overly wicked, Nor be foolish: Why should you die before your time?"   -Ecclesiastes 7:17
  25. "And the very hairs on your head are all numbered. So don't be afraid; you are more valuable to God than a whole flock of sparrows"   -Luke 12:7
  26. "that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to comprehend with all the saints what is the width and length and depth and height to know the love of Christ which passes knowledge; that you may be filled with all the fullness of God."   -Ephesians 3:17-19
  27. "Better is a dry morsel with quietness, Than a house full of feasting with strife."   -Proverbs 17

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Be Smart: Stop Following Your Heart

" Smart listens to the head. Stupid listens to the heart "

The connectivity between the heart and the head, when it comes to taking certain actions, we thought about it  times without number before we implementing it.
Sometime get we deceived, multiply thoughts got us lost, day dreaming visualising it wishing they were materialize so we know which one is real.
The heart be saying this is it, the head be mixing different thoughts, telling us it isn't. Now which one should me follow?.

When it comes to choosing or relationships issues you will be told to listen to what your hearts is telling. And when we do at times we end up remorseful.

I observe a lot, i was once mixed with this issue of choices. When i was much younger i remember been told times without number to follow my heart. The conscience ,head and heart battles, The head will be babbling the heart won't absolve. I did it as they said along the line i had a crooked smile.

I discovered that the heart is not usually right as i thought. If  the quote above is to be applied does that mean i was stupid?. Maybe not but really.!

"The struggle i was in then was to  develop the strength i need for today"  they say Life is a lesson, the trick is to find out what it’s trying to teach you..

Stop Following Your Heart

Following Our Heart is it Proper?

In today's world follow your heart is what the preach every corner,even when  our conscience says we're not on the smooth path but since our heart felt it's OK , so we are totally right. But the bible and the quote above is against it, let me quote it once more so you can recollect it if you forgot.

" Smart listens to the head. Stupid listens to the heart "
The bible just saved this quote by confirming it because i was thinking of how i will defend it.
 "He who trusts in his own heart is a fool, but he who walks wisely will be delivered" (Prov. 28:26)
Our emotion can lead us astray, our heart has the power to overshadow the conscience, the heart is weak and too open, its accept things as long as its comes with  a piece of love and affection.

Follow your heart was once my best phrase until i read the book of Jeremiah...

“''The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” (Jeremiah 17:9) Earlier he says, “Cursed is the man who trusts in man!

It's still a little bit sick, maybe  i won't follow none of them but i do listen to my head often, the heart can lie..

Do you follow your heart or head
Which one do you follow?, has the heart or the head misled you before? What do you think about this head and heart issue?. I will love to read your thought below.

Breaking Free From Pornography Addiction

Breaking Free From Pornography Addiction
The whole universe is filled with numerous addictions. The case of p*rn is worst and its one of the mostly complicated to quit. We come across them in our everyday lives unless you are not expose the certain medium like adverts,movies,music, web pages and even the social networking site.

More people are being introduced into it every single second. At first its fun but deadly, it's harmful and toxic to the mind,body and its makes our spirit impure.
Too Much of it can cause negative thoughts,self hatred,shame,depression,anger and less of self esteem, guilt deep inside. People who indulge in the habit are secretive.

I saw some crazy and mind blowing facts about pornography i was overwhelmed with surprises. Can you imagine how real this facts are?,they are true and accurate.

Below are facts about p*rn*graphy.

  • Every Second nearly 30,000 persons view p*rn* sites.
  • Every Minute Internet users send more send more than 1.7 million porno e-mails.
  • Every hour nearly two hardcore p*rn* videos are released in the united States.Every day an average of more than two million p*rn* movies in the United States.
  • Every month nearly nine out of ten young men and three out of ten you women view p*rno in the United States.

And lastly Every year the global p*rn industry makes an estimated $100 billion in U.S
After reading this i was like what!!!, it's seems like every one is a fan of p*rn*. Ha ha,you are surprise right?.

How to break free from this devilish addition? Nothing on earth is impossible, so make use of the tips below.

1. Be ready.

Anything you want to put to an end you can only if are prepared to get over it. Be ready to fight this addiction,it's now or never.

2. Distract Yourself.

Most of the addict are indoor people, they spend most their doing nothing than viewing images of naked woman on the net. Distract yourself ,get out of your comfort zone. Use software that will block you from visiting those sites. Limit Internet access. If news is what you want to read let it be news alone.

3.Think positive.

Porno addiction bored the mind,as i said it can cause negative thoughts. There is power in words,say no, tell yourself 'i will not view that site today. And work hard to achieve it. Think of the side effects then picture how it will feel like being free.

4. Use your imagination.

The brain is a sexually in nature it control all the s*x and addiction hormone. Develop positivity rather than spending time imagining watching porn when you feel horny
Think about why you are quitting, know it's for the better.
Never think you can't overcome this,you started it and you can end it.

5. Invite God.

You can't do without God, his all and all, the only one that can set you free is God. Pray for help.

Many of us are addicted to this but am not going to ask if you are or not, the questions is What do you think about p*rn*graphy addiction, is it harmless or toxic?, is there any better way to overcome it?

Blood Oath: What Young People in Love Need to Know

Love is mighty powerful and at times it turn a decent individual into a freak in just a blink of an eye. I just want to share with you people the side effect of falling in love with our brain instead with the heart. I don’t usually write about people though but this one makes my heart bleed so I decided to write it just to awake those of us that are sleeping on this crazy feeling called love.
Blood Oath: What Young People in Love Need to Know
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Parents need to be alert and watch their children well because this younger generation are like climate they change from good to bad and some even extend it to real bad.  I don’t know if our parent even think about they children sometimes like WHAT ARE MY KIDS DOING WHEN AM OUT OF THE SCENE ,  for the truth I say they don’t have time to ask their children  such questions.

I grew up learning everything I know myself   I makes rules for myself and I lived up to them, I just discover that some young people live life like they were born to live wild. Maybe its because our so called guardian are to busy chasing pavement  trying to get all the paper in the world.

They let their kids accept things they don’t know better , younger people get too expose to reality in the age they are not supposed to. Sometimes I ask myself do I really need to be in a relationship at this age?. I get stocks in the moment as the sky turn blue then my imaginary friend talked  to me saying love is scam, maybe she’s right but people won’t still agree with her thoughts.

Love is like gasoline its highly inflammable it can destroy when you don’t have a clear view or understanding, teenager are being misled every day ,they think love is all the need I don’t blame them though. 

The pointed am trying to bring out when i took shot at parent and i also used myself as an example is that our parents need to bring us up in the way we should go, they need to restrict young people from using or involving themselves from certain act. And children too need to learn how to choose what and who they keep company with and the type of company to keep.
Guardians cant walk around with them all, they or know what they are doing outside. But the craze of the moment seems to be on the wrong side.

I met a young boy who we got to discuss  about relationships matter so along the  line he told me that loves his girlfriend so much that they are planning on talking  blood oath to prove they love.

I sat him down and told him to relax, I tried to change his mind set by telling the wrong side of what his attempting to do, I talked to him  properly like I was recording task I know he wants to prove the beautiful blind love before he turn off the light, I succeed in wining him and i exposed him to the lamb lights.

He smiled and appreciate me for being such and angel even though he was still lost in thoughts but I know he wont take my advice for granted. And I will try to talk to him from time to time till his totally free from love fever.

Why  would a young boy who is yet to know what reality have such thoughts of  taking oath just to prove his love.Imagine how the future of the young boy would have been twisted if i didn't have the opportunity to meet him. Lets know why people in general takes oaths.

Why Do People Take Oaths In Relationships?

People risk life some numerous of priceless reason in the name of being crazy and drunk in love.
One the reason why people take oath is the fear of losing one person so they think blood covenant bond is the strongest and it can make them stand a test of time but they forgot that nothing  with bad foundation last.
There is only one reason though it can split into many but if you look at it closely they all fall in the line.
Insecurity ,lack of trust, greed.

What Young People in Love Need to Know about  Blood Oath.

Exchanging blood oath is like putting a price on your head,selling your soul to the devil of by force faithfulness to each, its usually done by cutting both lovers fingers then words are commanded inform of swearing to any thing they wish and later the blood is mixed and drink or sucked
( vampire things) .Blood is life and its meant to respected. We show respect for blood by not eating it. (Genesis 1:29 ; 9:3,4. Leviticus 17:13, 14 ).

There are side effects of blood covenant, being attached and committed to one person is not an easy task.  Even relationship bond by mere love is full with alot of complications then the one bind by spiritual entity. Breaking free isn't that easy.

What To Do To Avoid Being Deceived into  Blood Oath.

  • Abstain from relationships until you are matured enough to deal with it.
  • Beware of any negative partner who ask for blood covenant or suggest such bond.
  • Be a man or a woman with a mind of your own, lets your no be no don't allow people control you.
Can you take with blood covenant with your boyfriend or girl?. I will like to hear from you so please use comments to share your thoughts.