The world economy is risky and only those with clear understanding, those that are financially wise can start firm on that pinnacle. Mismanagement can make money runaway. Being financially wise is far beyond having the necessary skills to acquire wealth but being able to think and act like rich people. Planting the money tree on a fertile soil  and fertilizing it to grow figures.

 There are thousands of reasons why our society is full of poor people, poor mentality and lack of understanding of the path money goes. I had a conversation with someone one on my way home from a friends home, he was complaining that anything he plants don't grow even when they do, the tree withers hastily   why because you did some or all of the reasons below:

1. You Spend Too Much:  Luxury and flashy lifestyle, huge unnecessary spending, and over spending can't guarantee the chances of growing richer. Someone who earns $1OO a month is not advisable to purchase things that worth over a thousand dollar. Because his busy digging his grave of failure. Spending too much on things that are of no importance  is critical.

 ''A person who spend more than he earn is a fool''_Visvesvaraya.

2. You Sow Too Little:  We spend money to make money, whatever you plants grows, you sow big you reap big. The amount you  invest on something will guarantee the amount you'll earn in return. The rich take chances and change. Recognize that Changes is the permanent thing on earth, taking chances by sowing big can change your entire financial status from low to higher. Little things are less value.

''He who would accomplish little must sacrifice little; he who would achieve much must sacrifice much; he who would attain higher must sacrifice greatly'' _James Allen.

3.You  Owe Too Much Debt: Debt brings worries and shame, the more you owe the greater you borden and the more frustrated your thoughts drives you insane. Any money you earn will be directed to those you borrowed from. You took 45k from a lender, 100k from another and 40k from a friend while your monthly earning is 100k. How can you ever get rich when debt is not equivalent with want you earn. You'll end up paying and owing more.


4.You Don't Invest: You don't place capital in expectation of deriving profit. All you do spend in necessarily and still it to grow. Money don't grow on three, the don't multiply dramatically. They say ''The easiest way to rich is put all your money in a basket and watch the basket.''. That's words told to fool to keep them from getting money wise. Investment is the only surefire to grow money. It impossible to get rich when you don't invest the little you have but spend it. ''


5. You Buy Every New Thing: This days the trend is acquiring new new,  anything that is trending is catchy to the eye and wanted by all. Except those who are neutral to trends. There people who likes living big when they aren't rich yet. They work hard play harder with little earning with or no saving at all. You buy the latest Android, Windows.... phone. You buy every playstation.......Everything even those you don't need then you expect to be rich.

'' If you buy what you don't need, you'll need what you cannot buy_ Visvesvaraya.

The more you gamble your little money one stuffs just to impress someone of show up. You'll end up with nothing.

The way money influence people this days can makes anyone a believer that it's capable of buying nearly everything. It even quoted that.Money answers all things. Leaving those without it with a total different kind of feeling.  All around the net there are thousands of articles in regards to what money can never buy .Most of them are mainly written and read buy poor while they rich laugh at. At age 9 i can recollect asking my mom several times why people say  money can never buy the best things in life. She replied'' One day you won't be blind to it.

Life is such a mi-story, the more you seek the truth the more questions you find. OK. i get it, if money can't buy all the things i will be listing below then why do people die just get rich?.Are they blind to it? Hey i think it what the rich tell the poor to keep them from aim higher and calm.

Things They Told me Money Cannot Buy 

Happiness:  They way this people paint  pictures , colourful smiley pictures can convince you to believe that money can buy you happiness. Celebrities and wealthy people can paint a picture, . I believe happiness is when what you think, say and do is in harmony said Gandhi. Picture that, What are they saying? I should hate money, i don't know. Is a poor man happy?. ''You can never understand how it feels to be poor until you be one''. Money can buy happiness, temporary but not genuine one.

People misunderstand the connections between happiness and money. Money can buy dreams and that fulfilment can trigger the mind to be happiness or can advance, improve ones lifestyle. Anything you're good at contribute to happiness.
Above all, i still believe that money can't buy happiness, it maybe bring it. But what's the essence of having  something that won't last.

Manners: Money has a force which is capable of shifting things, all around the world human  made with differs characters.  Don't be deceive money can buy manners. The kind matters which is the reason why many believe it can't.  They way rich people behaves is called what?, common it's manner whether it's bad or good.
My dictionary defines manner as, a way of performing,effecting anything;method, style,fashion.... Whatever. Haven't you seen someone who was calm but when (s)he got rich they changed dramatically?.

Things I Thought Money Can Buy.

 Moral:  Money may answers all things but there certain things it can never buy, morals conforming to a standard of right behaviour which is impossible for money to purchase.  Moral is been lost  this days, nearly everyone who is exposed to certain reality of life is been victimize by rectitude which is  impossible to get it buy with cash.

Health. No matter how much you bank, it doesn't guarantee you a good health condition.  Health is wealthy. Being poor and healthy is better than owning million and lack a better health condition.

Knowledge /Experience: You might earn a degree or be a first class graduates but lack knowledge of things. ''You can pay for school but you can't buy class''. There is a huge cap between i saw and i experienced it . Having the  knowledge of how it feels to be death isn't the same with experiencing it. No amount of money can buy that.Have seen a lot of people who are graduates of high school shining brighter than a college with degree in the same field.

Love: Loves is blind , it complicated to define  this days. Money is the main attraction. Riches attracts lovers. They rich have lots of buddies. But true love can never be bought, it something that comes from within and grows there. Not words and temporary actions. Money can't buy love but fakes love and pretenders. People will love and supports you if it will be beneficial but when the sky falls(money goes). The ones who bleed red(who loved you) can turn out to be the worst experience ever.

Respect:  The respected one in the society are not usually the wealthy and leaders, in fact people don't respect presidents and politicians. Respect can only be earn through a well mannered positive attitude and lifestyle via they pattern you comfort and respect your self and others. Not necessary from the rank Forbes.

Inner Peace: What is life with millions of strings attached to you and the inner you a nightmare.  Life is empty when peace of mind is not earn. Inner peace is earn when  our thoughts is in a positive balance. Money makes someone bored deep inside, even when you're in the future you'll still feels behind, this triggers you to earn more, save it and at last die for it.

Intelligence: No matter how much you have, a dummies is always a dummies even when you install books in his head. But the smart once will almost make A's no matters how poor their background is. You can buy a perfect certificate and it don't change a thing.
Family: To me family is everything, nothing else can replace that. Not Money. Family is what made us unique and who we're. No matters what, they are special, golden.

Ticket To Heaven:  One of the most important things someone could have is heavens and it so unfortunate that we die to get money instead of heaven.  The  airport is still a mystery.

Additional Things I Found Out Money Can't Buy Me.

I used to think and still wonder if money can buy me all i ever wanted, trully money can't happiness,sleep, personal contentment............ It over to you.

 Walking across the street everyone is busy doing variety of thing, something comes into my head, i frequently question myself what the whole inhabitant of the world is chasing. Many says the are after achieving or fulfilling their destiny, what is this almighty destiny, is it a golden salvation of the soul?. No, it's simply somewhat material things that we all after, a better life.

Different people view a better life based on religious and cultural point but the true meaning we're kinda blind to it unless you seek to discover the hidden truth, which is the focus of all human.

A child grows up with one thing on his pretty innocent heart, to be a lived hero, wealthy and change his immediate world. People do anything humanly possible to excel, student work not for passion or to learn to know it but all are preparation for the what we all call the future.
Human are naturally materialistic, we want all, life to us  is all about the money, due to religious settings and believes everyone seems  to hide it, pretend as we are immaterial but the truth the say can't hide itself because rocks do crack and its butt exposed.

People no longer do things because of the passion of pleasure derived , the outcome is what matters most and if it won't have a cash full end then its abandoned.

At my younger age i was told times without number  that life is not all about the money, that being contented and happy is living life to it fullest. But i grew up to witness totally a different scene on the flat screen that not having money can be the root of all evil. Biblical the love for it is.

If you don't love something you hates it and if you do hate you distance yourself from it and anything related to it. The facts is......we all chasing money but they say it don't make you rich and i wonder if the world billionaires aren't rich, maybe they are broke.

Money ,the answer to all things can be devilish when you focus on getting it Asap ,through any means, its don't grow on trees  so in order you to be  plugged to the power source bills needs to be paid in form of sacrifice. You work hard  and watch it multiply gradually or you get it fast or die trying,

Why is everyone chasing money? that's the question here, the same way success mean a whole lot of things to different people, same the reason why people chase mula differs.

Money can do a couple of unimagined things, it mighty powerful,it controls rulers and disintegrate the strongest, it turns people into freaks. It can buy dreams, changes you and also makes you rich.

There is this concept about it, that can buy the best things in life but i can make them worthwhile.And it doesn't change you, i think if you haven't gotten enough, too much might kill you which i ask is Bill Gate still the same as he was when i started Programming?. Just saying, the change they mean is not the physical one , you know there is a fine line between having abundance and you still feel bored and being happy with little you have. Money don't buy happiness is just a microchip planted on the mind of the poor, the only thing it can't buy is inner peace.

There is one other thing that still make me wanna murder, with all this concepts about how money sucks peoples life, how it makes people empty, how it can't buy health......no one has stop chasing it, the more the concept the greater the chase.

Over To You.

Why Is Everyone Chasing Money?.

Life without money is incomplete, its like a half bread but its not better. It easy to be single and hold on to it but being broke is a curse. Money is a gate pass, it speak volume, it open close doors, it buy dreams.

Have you ever wondered why you're not making any advancement financially? why your net-worth is getting low or why you are not making any cash at all?.

Well! getting rich is a matter of choice and being broke is a decision. Rich means different thing to different people but its the core, being rich doesn't always mean having money, It means being happy with the amount you have.

Why i am not rich?

►You're not ready to be rich, believe me, you can't until you're ready.

''The secret of getting ahead is getting started."

►You're lazy, its impossible to be at the top when you're not talking a step higher.

''The first step toward success is taken when you refuse to be a captive of the environment in which you first find yourself.''

Blood Oath: What Young People in Love Need to Know

Young man need to grow up  or else this older men will take away all our future wives away.

I don't see anything wrong with going on to marriage because of weath, many tradition even encourage it so It's not a new thing but many still think  that not proper that "Love is the key". Parents prefer a well-to -do son in law to a guy with no money. It brings good names and respect to the family . Wedding for love is a generally later marvel. For a long time, relational unions were organized issues, straightening families for investment or political purposes.
As the  old  saying says

"behind every successful man there's a woman" .

I grew up hearing elderly people quoting this I never knew the meaning but now I understand. If this great saying is viewed from the other way around it mean"  behind unsuccessful (poor) man there shouldn't be a woman " . 

All a 21st century girl needs is in the hands of the rich.  Love can't pay your bills but dreams money can buy. There are a lot of benefits marrying for money. Remember that love is something that can die with time, it's changeable the same way your wardrobe gets old and ugly. 

Even if love is a factor in s marriage I have to say that it is not the greatest thing to marry for! I have to say that even in today society people to not know real true love! .

You will get the Security you deserves :

One of the basic need of every girl is to have someone that can make them feel secured. Being  strong isn't all about having muscles like Arnold Schwarzenegger but being financially strong, like the say" money is power".

Your future is not at stake;

In the world that divorce rate is on the high no body can tell what tomorrow holds, anything is possible. We all know that nothing last forever if things eventually changes you won't be a loser.
You will have something left if you were the wise type. Unlike being with someone who  struggles to survive and when love dies you'll be left with nothing but regret.


Your Children will have a better life ;


That  say the best things in life are free and I have wondering what that thing is, I still don't know where to get them. How does it feel being born rich and being born into the world that life is not simply is the motto. Children are precious gift and they deserve the best things in life which are not priceless and they need someone who can  take care of their financial needs. I don't know if love can pay school fees and other bills.


The luxurious life is guaranteed it's all about how you take it as for me view it as a good idea so it's left for you to choose marrying for money or for love. Are you with me? let me know in the comments.