Gone are the days when courtship was in existence, when love had sensations.
But now its over a different new level. Many have this common believe that love is blinded. As well as not capricious to comprehend that it isn't yet dating is window blind, physically and physiologically.
Unlike courtship, dating  across borders. People who date are blind to numerous facts.
When the younger generation fall for one other they lost their mind. Blimey, could be dangerous in some situation.


In our society we experience unusual relationship culture this days, an underage lady eventually fall in love a guy and the next thing is pack straight into stay with him  as couple.
They never  contemplate the future or ask their self certain questions like what am i doing oh! am i  in love?. Has he paid my bride price? I'm only 18.
       
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Many jump into a bullet that wasn't meant for them just in the name of following their  their feelings.
I'm never against dating i don't discourage it but as soon as it get beyond the friends zone i dislike.
They are many disadvantage of dating, most of us claim grown and dought it but there is often something in the mirror that our own naked eyes are not able to see clearer.
This so called love isn't just a verb,its mighty powerful. It's  power can burn bridges. Never unrate or think that love is a mere words. Oh! should i say fear love? .
Fear what you don't know, beware of things you don't you don' t understand.

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Below are reasons while dating is blind and something people who find themselves drunk in love need to know.


The person you think is your everything is probably not your soul mate. Compatibility is far beyond ordinary thoughts it natural and vital.
If you think that you're in heaven simply because things seems up-right, you are completely wrong.Change is a continuous process, it visits you unexpectively.
Those who find themselves dating never realize that nothing remains the same for long, mpeople change love dies, the super power  reduces.


You might become pregnant along the line, the spirit referred to as love change men and women, you might say  no! to intimate act the first few month but one day 'She Will'.
And since she's not really matured enough to mother a child legally no other choice left than (abortion) the same old thing.


Multiple of this leads to infertility, the male is untouched, if the lights eventually goes off he'll continues flexing and making babies however the daddy's little girl will probably be left with absolutely nothing than regrets along with wishes.
Breakup comes around like a hula hoop, its natural and nothing magically can help erase or quit its divine visitation.

Most of the love we discover at young age are typically ordinary, merely lust and attraction.

That's the main reason why most of our first/high school sweethearts never last.
Cheating is the culture practice in nearly all arenas of the earth. The eyes observe different colors each and the ear hears additional sweet words, The tendency of infidelity is high.
Before you fall in be prepared to face reality.


Heart break is one thing you can never escape. Believe it or not, its right beside you. In the primary phase everything will feel as if you are in the third heavens floating from the cloud.
One day gasoline or the engine will crash, and every thing could possibly get stock. That's the advantage single people have over the daters, they are free of many strings which are attached to :relationships.
Jealousy will often rip out you mindset, many religious books state that love does not jealous but the reverse is the love we are in this days, dater jealous a lot. What a blind practice.
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He that is certainly jealous is not really in love. 

    - Saint Augustine.

Does Jealousy Prove Love?

Many daters have this concepts that being jealous is a sign of genuine love but it sad to say it that jealousy doesn’t prove love. It proves insecurity”.  Read Dr Cookerly's article on Does Jealousy  Proves Love? .



Since you haven't put a ring on it, her/his is like a scheduled event that could be cancelled. He/she will date other people just to get a sense of balance, all this bring about emotional instability.
Dating is game to people that know the rules and the way to play it.

Dating someone doesn't mean you're his truly its only an attachment, I've over heard many calling their boyfriend my husband, 2 years ago she called me that holy name today she's on to the next.

There is a time for everything and the right version of dating is courtship. And its last for like 3 to 4 month or less before marriage not 7years of assures, hope and dreams.
In which the possiblity of the dream coming through is slim.

There are several common misconceptions that  love is blind, after thorough research  i discovered that love isn't blinded but lack of good understanding along with bad experiences daters experience makes it appear that way.
Dating a  damsel or gentleman doesn't mean he/she really ,  love you  . Many use love as a cover to achieve selfish thing but true love never fake feelings.
Dating is  blind so, used your sense.


Up to You


I know a lot of you that read this are dating , i have observed alot of younger girl destroying their unripe future, risking it only to prove love. Actually this post was inspired from annoyance and deep love I've got for life, where i live in Nigerian there are a lot of high school dropped out who jeopardize their golden future for  love.


I don't knpw if it happens every where though.
Their parents thinks that their child are in school not knowing there are with some guys doing practical biology.
It's hurts me deep inside, i know its  their life and so they  can to choose right or wrong. They say we learn from mistakes. Wish them well. The only thing i can sat is..... if you're young don't be too outrageous.
Do you think that love is  blind or dating? What exactly are you thoughts with regards to teenage marriage or relationship, could it be right or not ?.

I will love hear from you, please use the comments to share your thoughts.

Love on fire kindly don't get blazed by sweet adoring blazes , valentine day is quick approaching and lovers are get ready holding up for that day i wish them well. I needed to writes on valentine's dates ideas yet when i saw the photograph beneath on my friend 's Facebook timetable my contemplations and focused changed.
Beware of February 14Th, the say picture talks a thousand words and they don't lie so investigate the picture, by insignificant looking the message is black and white. I will return to the picture. Lets talk more on valentine's day.

February  14Th is the date in which the inhabitant of the love sphere shows how they adore their mates.
Am letting you know to beware of that day, aint that insane?.A friend  of mine  painted a vivid picture to his girlfriend" Fuck Valentine Day i love you Everyday, would you be able to do the same?.

Lets look at 3 Miserable Facts About St Valentine's Day.

1.Valentine's Day follow its roots to an aged agnostic occasion called Lupercalia, in which men stripped
bare, snatched whips, and hit adolescent ladies with expectations of  expanding their fruitfulness.

2. The Christian saint St. Valentine was beheaded on February 14 for performing relational unions in mystery.

3. Research infers that 75 percent of suicide endeavors are attributable to relationship issues.

Alot of unpredicted and senseless things happens that day, it should be loaded with intemperate satisfaction and love yet it end up being the inverse. See more miserable facts about valentine's day.
Abominable things happens that day leaving individuals with no choice than would it be a good idea for us to truly be observing Valentine's Day? but  its  generally checked by extravagant suppers, endowments, and subordinate troupe dramedies. At that point why do hilarious things appears to happen more that day?.

I can recall a year ago two individuals i know experienced trouble that day her alleged darling put molly in her drink and enjoyed  she aint even know it, hey! that's the line that made Robert Williams to lose his deal with Reebok, i am simply utilizing it to illustrate what happened to my female friend  on val's day'.
(she's a big fan of this blog so i can't say much)
Another buddy of mine almost got carried away by so much excitement so they drove in high speed and their vehicle got plunged in a nearby  swamp, that's romantic isn't it?.

A day that expected to an indication of what amount of individuals love and treasure their partner has transformed into saddest day in alot of relationships.

A 2004 study examining how Valentine's Day influences relationships indicated that couples were 2.55 times more inclined to split throughout the weeks heading up to and after Valentine's Day contrasted and any possible month.

Numerous horrible occasions happens on valentines day , read frightening accurate story biography from individuals who were once practitioner of valentine's day before they turned anti- valentine.(valentine's day horror stories: The bad,the ugly and plain old scary).

Lets return to the picture above that inspired me to composing this article. As should be obvious in the picture the male is seen pursuing the female yet when the Valentines date tree prove to be fruitful the male took to his hill and the female excessively wasn't
dulling.
Really its happens youngsters utilized Val's day to do entertaining and insane things. Haven't you became aware of valentine's babies? ,where in live its not a new thing.
So assuming that you're an a believer be careful play safe, recollect beware of February 14th and be yourself. Is it true that you are a practitioner am not requesting that you turn anti-valentine like me, i simply need you to take alerts. Beware of Valentine day's madness.

After the starting dating stage, where everything about your newly married partner appears lined in a brilliant sheen, my friends call it' Love is the air' you end up losing some of that sparkle. Everything seems boring unlike the first few weeks when romance was hot. It's characteristic, and all enduring couples face this issue. The ones who survive are the ones who resolve how to infuse more enthusiasm into their relationship, before its past the point of no return. Don't let your relationship fail and burn out. Utilize these  tips to infuse more energy into your relationship now.

Continue Dating

Numerous couples overlook what made them pulled in to their mates in any case. Now and then work or kids abandon them with minimal opportunity to develop as a couple and they move far from dating.
This can represent a genuine issue for couples. It's significant to keep that start vivified by pressing on to date. If it is at one time a week or once a month, its vital to get only some opportunity with one another. This may mean getting a babysitter for a nighttime or putting extra time at the plant on hold. In the event that your darling is worth the trouble, don't let the relationship develop stagnant and kick the bucket.

Make Love In Weird Places

One extraordinary approach to infuse more ardor into your relationship is to take your fondness making outside the pad. Make cherish in diverse rooms, openly puts or places that you'd never ordinarily consider a problem area. Numerous couples fall into routine lovemaking. While there's nothing the issue with schedule, its generally an exceptional thing to add some spontaneity to the relationship.


Recollect when you first met, and couldn't keep your distant of one another? That is the sort of ardor you need to recover. Your partner needs to realize that they're still alluring, attractive and you can't get enough of them. They need to feel like they still have it in them to make you insane with desire, with a look or a touch. Play with one another and fabricate the suspicion.


For most couples, its not difficult to succumb to a trench. Underestimating one another and doing the same thing again and again, will lead most couples down the weariness interstate. Now and then (however much as could be expected!) you have to hit the gas and swerve off that interstate assuming that you need your relationship to last. It's not frightfully troublesome to infuse more enthusiasm into your relationship and it could be a ton of fun.

The point when trust is double-crossed in a committed relationship its damages more than the way a hot surface interacts with the skin, the point when undermined it appears as though somebody dear to you is been take from the surface of earth. Cheating in relationship is something that has been in presence for quite a while and the odd of it event in every relationship is 50/50.

The inquiries continue popping out from edge why do individuals cheat in relationship?. A companion of mine asked me on Facebook she composed " Hello Daniel, would you be able to please demonstrate to me why you all cheat? . A considerable lot of you have asked such before,the female focus at male and the male excessively think female cheat all the more however imputations cant purpose resolve the issue.


Also Read: REASON WHY PEOPLE CHEAT IN RELATIONSHIP

Cheating according to a close pal is a culture that the whole world should eradicate with mediate effect but it not that simple.Many don't really understand or know the full meaning of cheating ,they will say i never cheated i just kissed her or stirred at her ass blah blah.
Different people defines it in numerous way, you have cheat when you involve yourself in an intimacy with someone who is not your hubby acts like  kissing , feeling each other up, vaginal,annal, oral sex and any other contact that involves the lips, hands, and genitals ,stirring at another lustfully. Exchanging erotic messages with a girl on the social networking sites.


Your partner might be unaware of it but natural you have broken the trust of his or her  by getting
physically or emotionally involved with another person.
Now the question arises why do people go this extent by cheating in a committed relationship?. The are several cause of infidelity.
I have heard people saying they did it to revenge while others fall out of love or the find someone they love more, insufficient sxx or sxx starvation. Some people just do it for no good reason.

Below are Top 6: Reasons Why Men Cheat



Fall Out Of Love:
Love is a feeling and it can die off when one person eventually find something exceptional in another attractive guy or a hot sharmy damsel. Many partner don't have ideas on how to bring back the flame into the relationship like when they started dating so it gets boring along the line one person falls out and search for it in another person.



Sex Starved:
People think sex is overrated in a relationship, while others think there are many reasons why sex is important with your spouse. When you are in love, it can connect the two of you in a way unlike any other.But when you deprive your partner from have it to their satisfaction they look for alternate partner outside.



Falling In With Someone Else:
Men fall for what they see and woman fall for words, human naturally are attracted to beautiful people. The hearth can over shade our conscience easily a girl of this era can make faithful man get out of control. You have to do any anything possible to prevent infidelity,  make yourself sexy and attractive always.



Lack Of Respect:
I strongly believe people cheating because of lack of respect for their spouse so they betray the trust they had.



Peer Pressure:
He spent most of his time with buddies who cheat the tendency of infidelity is high,bad company corrupts good ones.



Revenge:
SHe cheated on me and i want to pay him back, its happens in alot of relationship where one person betrayed the trust of the other.



Cultural Reason:
Maybe his from certain part of the country  that believes in polygamy have many Columbine's and wives runs in his vein.



Sex Addiction :
According to Psychcentral., “Sexual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts. Like all addictions, its negative impact on the addict and on family members increases as the disorder progresses. Over time, the addict usually has to intensify the addictive behavior to achieve the same results.” Many uses this opportunity to cheat on their partner but it is not an excuse to cheat on your spouse and it is no reason to remain in a relationship.

Majority of the infidelity are done intentionally while other do it because every seem to be doing it but for what is the cause the point is still that Cheating is a sin in relationship. A perfect relationship is worth having

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The pointed am trying to bring out when i took shot at parent and i also used myself as an example is that our parents need to bring us up in the way we should go, they need to restrict young people from using or involving themselves from certain act. And children too need to learn how to choose what and who they keep company with and the type of company to keep.
Guardians cant walk around with them all, they or know what they are doing outside. But the craze of the moment seems to be on the wrong side.




Why Do People Take Oaths In Relationships?



People risk life some numerous of priceless reason in the name of being crazy and drunk in love.
One the reason why people take oath is the fear of losing one person so they think blood covenant bond is the strongest and it can make them stand a test of time but they forgot that nothing  with bad foundation last.
There is only one reason though it can split into many but if you look at it closely they all fall in the line.
Insecurity ,lack of trust, greed.

What Young People in Love Need to Know about  Blood Oath.



Exchanging blood oath is like putting a price on your head,selling your soul to the devil of by force faithfulness to each, its usually done by cutting both lovers fingers then words are commanded inform of swearing to any thing they wish and later the blood is mixed and drink or sucked
( vampire things) .Blood is life and its meant to respected. We show respect for blood by not eating it. (Genesis 1:29 ; 9:3,4. Leviticus 17:13, 14 ).

There are side effects of blood covenant, being attached and committed to one person is not an easy task.  Even relationship bond by mere love is full with alot of complications then the one bind by spiritual entity. Breaking free isn't that easy.

What To Do To Avoid Being Deceived into  Blood Oath.

• Abstain from relationships until you are matured enough to deal with it.
• Beware of any negative partner who ask for blood covenant or suggest such bond.
• Be a man or a woman with a mind of your own, lets your no be no don't allow people control you.

Love is a feeling they say, but this issue of Love at First Sight makes me stuck my head in the pillow how can you tell that a girl you just saw is really her that you are saying i fell in love with her the first time i saw her. To me like i said in one of my articles love at first sight is lust, such isn't in existence.

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Love at First Sight - Can it Really Happen?.

Well,in a world that nothing is  impossible anything is possible,it can happen meeting is the first step to any relationship and physical features attracts most of the time even though love don't just begins but nature design us in a way that it irresistible to the eye.Lust ooh love at first sight may lead to real real relationship though but we cant say lasting because physical qualities is never a good tool that will make a relationship stand a test of time. Those natural attractive force can fade any day. Many believe it exist but for me it only in the movies and books.

Over to you.

Do you believe that love at first sight is for real or its just a cover word ?.

Age is nothing but just numbers attached to every being Love conquers all. One man's meal is another man's poison.They were times when relationship involved people of the same age but now a days its the opposite.

Young girls prefer the older men not the handsome young boys, you might be wondering what is happening. I have been picturing a lot of these for the past weeks so i decided to dig deep into it along the i discovered few reasons why Young Girls are Dating  Older Guys.
Its not new though but it seems that the population is increasing and it wont ever drop because the world is beginning to embrace it.

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• Older guys shows how strong they are, they can protect well so younger girls feel saver in their arm. Strength is not necessary the physical one but the power to understand and stand for the girl, so younger girls prefer them to age grade boyfriend that might get lost in the crowd easily.

• The second reason why ladies die for older guys is because of their strength and stability. When a girl know the man has money so they jump into just to take advantage of the opportunity. Since they are older younger girls think they are matured enough. Most of the guys are daddies so the know what a daughter(in love) needs and how to live up to it. One other reason is that older men are caring.

• Older guys make them enjoy xxx. Admit or not but its the naked truth,i don't want to talk more on this reason the ladies knows what i mean.

Finally,younger girls sees dating older men as an opportunity to have more fun. Older men are well established and they have time for vocations.Have more money to spend.
What do you think?

Breakups depressive disorder are generally agonizing, it is just a injury in which is painful individual's sensations, a new injury in which heals after a while. That is painful a lot, when you remember the promises, the excellent moment spent. Getting over it is the challenging component, but not difficult.
Accepting the point that is finished, this relationship you contributed is usually broken-down, you decide on your parts as well as move ahead.