Why Dating Is Blind
Gone are the days when courtship was in existence, when love had sensations.
But now its over a different new level. Many have this common believe that love is blinded. As well as not capricious to comprehend that it isn't yet dating is window blind, physically and physiologically.
Unlike courtship, dating across borders. People who date are blind to numerous facts.
When the younger generation fall for one other they lost their mind. Blimey, could be dangerous in some situation.
In our society we experience unusual relationship culture this days, an underage lady eventually fall in love a guy and the next thing is pack straight into stay with him as couple.
They never contemplate the future or ask their self certain questions like what am i doing oh! am i in love?. Has he paid my bride price? I'm only 18.
ALSO READ: Reasons Why People Marries
Many jump into a bullet that wasn't meant for them just in the name of following their their feelings.
I'm never against dating i don't discourage it but as soon as it get beyond the friends zone i dislike.
They are many disadvantage of dating, most of us claim grown and dought it but there is often something in the mirror that our own naked eyes are not able to see clearer.
This so called love isn't just a verb,its mighty powerful. It's power can burn bridges. Never unrate or think that love is a mere words. Oh! should i say fear love? .
Fear what you don't know, beware of things you don't you don' t understand.
Below are reasons while dating is blind and something people who find themselves drunk in love need to know.
The person you think is your everything is probably not your soul mate. Compatibility is far beyond ordinary thoughts it natural and vital.
If you think that you're in heaven simply because things seems up-right, you are completely wrong.Change is a continuous process, it visits you unexpectively.
Those who find themselves dating never realize that nothing remains the same for long, mpeople change love dies, the super power reduces.
You might become pregnant along the line, the spirit referred to as love change men and women, you might say no! to intimate act the first few month but one day 'She Will'.
And since she's not really matured enough to mother a child legally no other choice left than (abortion) the same old thing.
Multiple of this leads to infertility, the male is untouched, if the lights eventually goes off he'll continues flexing and making babies however the daddy's little girl will probably be left with absolutely nothing than regrets along with wishes.
Breakup comes around like a hula hoop, its natural and nothing magically can help erase or quit its divine visitation.
Most of the love we discover at young age are typically ordinary, merely lust and attraction.
That's the main reason why most of our first/high school sweethearts never last.
Cheating is the culture practice in nearly all arenas of the earth. The eyes observe different colors each and the ear hears additional sweet words, The tendency of infidelity is high.
Before you fall in be prepared to face reality.
Heart break is one thing you can never escape. Believe it or not, its right beside you. In the primary phase everything will feel as if you are in the third heavens floating from the cloud.
One day gasoline or the engine will crash, and every thing could possibly get stock. That's the advantage single people have over the daters, they are free of many strings which are attached to :relationships.
Jealousy will often rip out you mindset, many religious books state that love does not jealous but the reverse is the love we are in this days, dater jealous a lot. What a blind practice.
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Does Jealousy Prove Love?
Many daters have this concepts that being jealous is a sign of genuine love but it sad to say it that jealousy doesn’t prove love. It proves insecurity”. Read Dr Cookerly's article on Does Jealousy Proves Love? .
Since you haven't put a ring on it, her/his is like a scheduled event that could be cancelled. He/she will date other people just to get a sense of balance, all this bring about emotional instability.
Dating is game to people that know the rules and the way to play it.
Dating someone doesn't mean you're his truly its only an attachment, I've over heard many calling their boyfriend my husband, 2 years ago she called me that holy name today she's on to the next.
There is a time for everything and the right version of dating is courtship. And its last for like 3 to 4 month or less before marriage not 7years of assures, hope and dreams.
In which the possiblity of the dream coming through is slim.
There are several common misconceptions that love is blind, after thorough research i discovered that love isn't blinded but lack of good understanding along with bad experiences daters experience makes it appear that way.
Dating a damsel or gentleman doesn't mean he/she really , love you . Many use love as a cover to achieve selfish thing but true love never fake feelings.
Dating is blind so, used your sense.
Up to You
I know a lot of you that read this are dating , i have observed alot of younger girl destroying their unripe future, risking it only to prove love. Actually this post was inspired from annoyance and deep love I've got for life, where i live in Nigerian there are a lot of high school dropped out who jeopardize their golden future for love.
I don't knpw if it happens every where though.
Their parents thinks that their child are in school not knowing there are with some guys doing practical biology.
It's hurts me deep inside, i know its their life and so they can to choose right or wrong. They say we learn from mistakes. Wish them well. The only thing i can sat is..... if you're young don't be too outrageous.
Do you think that love is blind or dating? What exactly are you thoughts with regards to teenage marriage or relationship, could it be right or not ?.
I will love hear from you, please use the comments to share your thoughts.
But now its over a different new level. Many have this common believe that love is blinded. As well as not capricious to comprehend that it isn't yet dating is window blind, physically and physiologically.
Unlike courtship, dating across borders. People who date are blind to numerous facts.
When the younger generation fall for one other they lost their mind. Blimey, could be dangerous in some situation.
In our society we experience unusual relationship culture this days, an underage lady eventually fall in love a guy and the next thing is pack straight into stay with him as couple.
They never contemplate the future or ask their self certain questions like what am i doing oh! am i in love?. Has he paid my bride price? I'm only 18.
ALSO READ: Reasons Why People Marries
Many jump into a bullet that wasn't meant for them just in the name of following their their feelings.
I'm never against dating i don't discourage it but as soon as it get beyond the friends zone i dislike.
They are many disadvantage of dating, most of us claim grown and dought it but there is often something in the mirror that our own naked eyes are not able to see clearer.
This so called love isn't just a verb,its mighty powerful. It's power can burn bridges. Never unrate or think that love is a mere words. Oh! should i say fear love? .
Fear what you don't know, beware of things you don't you don' t understand.
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Below are reasons while dating is blind and something people who find themselves drunk in love need to know.
The person you think is your everything is probably not your soul mate. Compatibility is far beyond ordinary thoughts it natural and vital.
If you think that you're in heaven simply because things seems up-right, you are completely wrong.Change is a continuous process, it visits you unexpectively.
Those who find themselves dating never realize that nothing remains the same for long, mpeople change love dies, the super power reduces.
You might become pregnant along the line, the spirit referred to as love change men and women, you might say no! to intimate act the first few month but one day 'She Will'.
And since she's not really matured enough to mother a child legally no other choice left than (abortion) the same old thing.
Multiple of this leads to infertility, the male is untouched, if the lights eventually goes off he'll continues flexing and making babies however the daddy's little girl will probably be left with absolutely nothing than regrets along with wishes.
Breakup comes around like a hula hoop, its natural and nothing magically can help erase or quit its divine visitation.
Most of the love we discover at young age are typically ordinary, merely lust and attraction.
That's the main reason why most of our first/high school sweethearts never last.
Cheating is the culture practice in nearly all arenas of the earth. The eyes observe different colors each and the ear hears additional sweet words, The tendency of infidelity is high.
Before you fall in be prepared to face reality.
Heart break is one thing you can never escape. Believe it or not, its right beside you. In the primary phase everything will feel as if you are in the third heavens floating from the cloud.
One day gasoline or the engine will crash, and every thing could possibly get stock. That's the advantage single people have over the daters, they are free of many strings which are attached to :relationships.
Jealousy will often rip out you mindset, many religious books state that love does not jealous but the reverse is the love we are in this days, dater jealous a lot. What a blind practice.
''
He that is certainly jealous is not really in love.- Saint Augustine.
Does Jealousy Prove Love?
Many daters have this concepts that being jealous is a sign of genuine love but it sad to say it that jealousy doesn’t prove love. It proves insecurity”. Read Dr Cookerly's article on Does Jealousy Proves Love? .
Since you haven't put a ring on it, her/his is like a scheduled event that could be cancelled. He/she will date other people just to get a sense of balance, all this bring about emotional instability.
Dating is game to people that know the rules and the way to play it.
Dating someone doesn't mean you're his truly its only an attachment, I've over heard many calling their boyfriend my husband, 2 years ago she called me that holy name today she's on to the next.
There is a time for everything and the right version of dating is courtship. And its last for like 3 to 4 month or less before marriage not 7years of assures, hope and dreams.
In which the possiblity of the dream coming through is slim.
There are several common misconceptions that love is blind, after thorough research i discovered that love isn't blinded but lack of good understanding along with bad experiences daters experience makes it appear that way.
Dating a damsel or gentleman doesn't mean he/she really , love you . Many use love as a cover to achieve selfish thing but true love never fake feelings.
Dating is blind so, used your sense.
Up to You
I know a lot of you that read this are dating , i have observed alot of younger girl destroying their unripe future, risking it only to prove love. Actually this post was inspired from annoyance and deep love I've got for life, where i live in Nigerian there are a lot of high school dropped out who jeopardize their golden future for love.
I don't knpw if it happens every where though.
Their parents thinks that their child are in school not knowing there are with some guys doing practical biology.
It's hurts me deep inside, i know its their life and so they can to choose right or wrong. They say we learn from mistakes. Wish them well. The only thing i can sat is..... if you're young don't be too outrageous.
Do you think that love is blind or dating? What exactly are you thoughts with regards to teenage marriage or relationship, could it be right or not ?.
I will love hear from you, please use the comments to share your thoughts.
Hi Dan,
ReplyDeleteA well written post i must say, alot of young ladies are infatuated and not in love but they mistake it for love, they still to understand what love is.
Hello Bob, its trendy this days and you can't tell them nothing but one day time will tell, many think that i love you is love not knowing that they are mere words, young people are stubborn naturally.
DeleteHi Daniel,
ReplyDeleteYou know as the saying goes... "love is also blind."
Sometimes we do things for the other gender and not realize what is happening and like you said, dating can be blind and if you are blind just be careful and be aware! Thanks for the great post!
Thanks Nate for your hearty comments, i appreciate your view.
DeleteLove can happen anywhere anyone any place any tym...i dnt preparing mi8 hel that much...but gr8 tips
ReplyDeleteI truly admired you for your writings and this article proved to be. Well, love is a feeling blinded with sudden rush of emotions.
ReplyDeleteI guess when it comes to dating, you should have an open mind and be open to the possibilities and risk.
ReplyDeleteLove is a very confusing feeling. Sometimes, experience is all we in order to really know what love is. Great post and thanks for sharing! :)
ReplyDeleteYou can have jealousy in love - if you don't feel jealous then your feelings are too strong
ReplyDelete