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Being in your early or mid 20's as a younger adolescence is one of the most crucial moment in life. Its that transitional stage when reality and mistaken certainties paves in simultaneously,maturity and the level of awareness of things of our lives go blurry. You'll be apportioned to make choice for yourself and any mistake affects your future. The madness of that moment  might over take the whole of you when you try  to embrace every things that comes in a bright light. (The urges to satisfy all the wants of the flesh and heart desires),
Life in your 20s is no more the bed of rose as it used to be in your teens but what you make it. Your present life is result of choice your parents made but in your 20s you are responsible for your 30's.

How you want to be treated,where you want to be,the level of happiness,knowledge and  awareness. If you desire to live a different and productive life you must be ready to change your thinking,relationship and start being proactive by taking full responsibility of every single events. And make smart decisions in your 20s to avoid horrendous 30s.

Life Lesson:One Things A Guy In 20's Should Know.

1.Success in life require sacrifice. Your actions  today is has a great effect on your tomorrow .

2.All things in life (whether good or bad)goes to those who increases their level of awareness that all earning in life don't come in a day but with time.

3.Nothing is impossible if you have a positive mindset and invest your energy in achieving something.

4.Life could be simply if you're contained with what you have and the little life opportune you in the moment.

5.Instead of allowing wrong concepts and life style tarnish your positive youthful productive energy think of better things to channel it in.


 6.All the fruit of today where seeds of yesterday,no one becomes rich overnight. Every wealthy man has a broke story.

7.It takes a lot for one to be who he dream to become.You got to have faith,be patience,diligent and be determined.

8.Act you age,don't pretend to older than you"re ,give yourself time to grow.-Nas.

 Majority of all the failure  in life is the result of the choices one make while growing up, instead of building your career you switched lane and jumped marriages. The problem young people have is the lack of the ability to exercise patient, always in a haste to acquire what took Henry Ford years to accomplish in few days.Rushing in life ends up in fetal crash.  Catherine Skroch  wrote a comprehensive list of  Things Every Person in Their 20's Should Totally Avoid. 

Stop ruining your life in your 20s by indulge inappropriate unhealthy lifestyle. Investing in self knowledge , save a little, avoid debt at all cost and Start taking control of everything about you, like taking good care of yourself, loving and caring for yourself and don't base your happiness on things that last a moment. Realize that happiness and love is within not in strangers and in relationships.
 

Always invest more in Self Improvement. Many area of your life needs toughing, improve on them. QUIT feeding on addiction(Ways to Overcome Pornography Addiction) but in ways to overcome each and everyone of it. The biggest mistake you can make is realizing at 40 that you wasted your 20s running around making memories you can barely remember. Living someone else's life instead of utilizing yours lo to the fullest and ending up regretting. And Never Trade What You Want Most For What You Want Right Now

Life according to millions of people based on their experience defines it as unfair and hard,  a whore  with stone minds. All this makes multitude to jump into concluded that life can't never be simplified. Am one those guys ...... who likes to embrace that two headed sword and smiling while i scream like war drums'. Nothing is impossible!!. Life can be fun despite the increased in the rate of uncertainty. There is the micro chip of fear planted in minds of some set of people that further mathematics is totally insane. That fears  grows. Everything is simply but at first it will seems like Nigerian Pastors coming together to war the world terrorist. How impossible but it's very possible?. Think about it, lets talk about 3 things sad but true things to get rid off now.

Things To Get Rid Of To Simplify Your Life.

Fear. fear is unpleasant, unhealthy an imaginable thoughts that breaks minds like earthquakes, produce frights in all path. Terrorizing an individual. A man who permits the holocaust to possess him is bound to have a stagnated growth and complicated life. According to March 4, 1993  FDR ''The only thing we have to fear it's self- nameless, unreasonable, unjustified. Terror which paralyse needed efforts to convert retreat into advance.''The fears of failing, losing of the unknown causes shattering scaring screaming effect in individual who welcome it. One of the concrete and best foundation of living a simplified, successful life is overcoming fear at all cost.

'' Fear is a tyrant and a deposit, more terrible than rack, more potent the the snake''---Edger Wallace-

• Overcoming Fear. To get rid of that double headed thought that trigger the feeling of insecurity. Fear  has the capability of sending in troops of confusion while your building your tower of babel. In order to neutralize the power of fear you first have knowledge it, i mean identified that fear factor. Git it a name ''F''.  As yourself. What makes this ''F'' to become part of my life. What benefit is  this '' F'' doing tome?.  What damage has it done to my life. How can i replace this with other happy feelings?.. Make that change now.[see.33 Ways To Overcome Fear]

Addictions. Is a condition where someone indulges in act that is draining your inner peace, that shift the decent balance through acts that's killing you and you can't conquer. Addictions is common this days as nearly everyone is either addicted to one thing or the other.   It takes  just more courage and determination to cast out that devil in a new dress in alcohol,drugs, nicotine,gambling,internet, smartphone.

• Overcoming Addictions. Is one of the hardest experience ever. It's like battling five lion with cane. Addiction  is a behaviour, a lifestyle. Environmental, social and individual factors can can get someone to get into addictions. I believe nothing is too big or hard to overcome when determinations employed and when our  thoughts is changed [see. Overcoming Addiction]

Anger,  according to the Wikipedia is an emotional response related to one's physical interpretation of having been threaten when one's basic boundaries are violated. Anger can control anybody whose ability to remote it hasn't been established. Anger is normal, everyone gets react when they're pissed off.

• Overcoming Anger. Do you wish to be a smiler when you a colleague scream at you with noisy voice like his battling terrorist in Gaza?.  Getting rid of habitual anger can simplify one's life. Anger can be gotten under control when you fellow this...[Anger management techniques.]

Think before you speak.Only express your anger when you're calm.Recognise your anger, know what trigger this most , breath slowly and calm your mind, Talk about it when possible close friend. Like i said above that we can over anything when our thinking is changed.

Fear, addiction and anger, this trio can be made things of the past. But someone who hasn't been a victim have no glue of how hard it's to get over them. Life it's self was meant to be  lived with dominion over nearly everything.  Living is more than having material things but you still find it hard to get rid of those mountain of  strinaĺg that are attached to your backpack.

Now the ball is your court what's your thoughts above this 30 Things To Get Rid Off To Simplify Your Life?.

 Seated on an wooden bench listening to life's music, rubbing the bears all over my face reminiscing the reply my mom said 15 years ago when i asked her when am going to have side bears hahaha.'' In time'' She replied with an enthusiastic face. Last year i wrote 10 things life I've thought me throughout my 21 years of being on this road. A commentator posted'' That's not all''which in turn means'' You live and learn''.
 This temporary lasting school called life swings. From A1 to nothing. Today am sharing with you few more things I've learnt for the pass few months. Below are true facts about life no one told me until i seek and found.
1. Nothing is ever right as it seems.
2.At times you don't loose to win.
3.You meet your destiny while running from it.
4. The truth don't set you free in all situation.
5. Experience is not always the best teacher.
6. Anybody that was once in your life(ex, friends) automatically becomes part of you.
 7. Success can be LUCK a times not necessary products of handwork.
8. Emotions can be like blind like passion. The heart is deceptive, it's over-shade the subconscious mind.
8. Situations might arise leaving you with no choice and you break that glass you swore never to.
9.True happiness isn't from the material possession. Happiness is a journey-you live and learn and grow more deep.
10.  Certain things are easier said than done.
11.In life the word Happy ending exist not.

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Selena cobrin is a content writer ,  she is Mostly like to write about new thing her experience . 

I remember sitting watching my grandma dying, seeing my girlfriend going, saying farewell, losing couple of my property and also seen a lot of dream fade away. Everything in life is temporary and it only last but for a moment.

The Future is the present

It might sound crazy to you, isn't it?, during my stay in this school of life i have alot,i also learnt that invisible thing they called the FUTURE seize to exist at times, with the rate unplanned and sudden deadly things happens this days you can't affirm that it in existence,the future. Somedays i asked myself did those who fail or lose their lives on daily bases knew they'll lose it?. Recently,for the pass month,years natural disaster, bomb blast , kidnappers rate has been on the high. I asked a friend of mine this question 'Have ever thought about losing it? his reply was so affirmative, yes he replied SURELY.

The Future is Bright

Growing up as a man you'll across certain stage that your thought will drive you on a dark horse, when all hope will be gone,when you're fruits of labor stays unripe despite how hard you worked towards it. I learnt that no matter how hard and crooked it seems the Future is and will always be bright.

Relationship is vital.

Life is all about building a strong and beneficial  relationship with people around you. Accepting and caring for other, i learnt the importance of building a true Relationship all around the globe, friendship is vital not all though but those that add value and enrich you positively. And have a couple of them i can't start listing their names.

Learnt More about God.

One of most amazing thing that i have grew up to learn in life is the Bible. It's so real,the joy and peace of mind its brought to me makes me feel fulfilled. All thanks to my brother and best friend Arthur Watson his been the one enriching my soul with life changing words of God. Its been a wonderful experience.

Nothing Good Comes Easy

The last but not least i have learnt is that good things comes but its takes time to visualize. Patience with hard work plus prayers is the key. Life is hard, i know contrary to what i said on the beginning of this post, life is and will always be hard.

Seek Happiness, be different,be positive,rise above hates,love more,give  and smiles always. Smile without seasoning.
That's some that 've learnt in the high school of life, more to learn as i grow older.


Over to you.

Would you mind sharing the lessons you've from the great teacher of all ages, life.? I will love to read and learn from your own experience too. Thank you. <3

	“Live today. Not yesterday. Not tomorrow. Just today. Inhabit your moments. Don’t rent them out to tomorrow. Do you know what you’re doing when you spend a moment wondering how things are going to turn out with Perry?		You’re cheating yourself out of today. Today is calling to you, trying to get your attention, but you’re stuck on tomorrow, and today trickles away like water down a drain. You wake up the next morning and that today you wasted is gone forever. It’s now yesterday. Some of those moments may have had wonderful things in store for you , but now you’ll never know.”	― Jerry Spinelli, Love, Stargirl

What's your definition of life? A temporary sphere we reside that circles around and around?. Life is an uncertain, unwarranted future.  And the only way to live is to live in the moment, most people say like tomorrow don't exist. The idea of happy ending might be a total misconception, someone asked sometimes ago if the any possibility of someone living for today. My replied was' I belong to that insane asylum. I've experienced so many things and people pass by right before my eyes which makes me to buy that idea that any opportunity missed is dead and gone.

Living or focusing in the present is living for today is involving you self in stuffs not necessary for tomorrow satisfaction and being concious,accepting and getting over quilt when you go wrong. Doing what bring you joy, building better relationship with people.

Getting over the habit of procrastination, don't waste time on unprofitable things or negative people. Many your time effectively. Learn new things, focusing on making everyday pass by with something new added to your world.

10 Ways To Live In The Moment

 1. Focus on the present
2. Don't procrastinate, live for today.
3. Learn something new everyday
4.Play your path and play it well
5. Recognize and show respect to the secular authorities, religion amd peole.
5. Make the most off everyday
6. Smile
7.Travel if possible around the world and meet different people and thier culture
8.Stop worrying about not being perfect
9.Once in a while reach out for the needy
10. Fall in love

Be born  again as you wake, what you do today matters most'

A neighbor of mine bought new cloths months ago, expecting to put them the next sunday, she never had the opportunity to wear them the next day. She lost her life that night. Do you procrastinate or do let todays duty for tomorrow?. All you have is now not tomorrow.

You concern, you future and everything is today, can you tell if tomorrow exist?. Something you no control over can change or cease to exist any moment, unexpectedly. Get the most out of today and make it exist.

Don't Procrastinate.The more you wait for something miraculous to happen, the farther time flies. Are you with the believe that God's time is the best?, you have to grow up and realize that God's time will never from the sky or split out from heaven's.  God's time is today and it's the best only if you discover what work for you best and improve on them, gather the most important particle to help materialize them.


Make the most of yourself

Get busy, pick up something you have passion for, let the enthusiastic for it runs through you. Pick a career and do your best to be the best at it. In this life, things works the way you programme them to work, any mistake you make now can affect your entire life.  Improve yourself,pick up something that will never leave you. A local proverb says'' What you eat is all you'll die with''.

Lets take for instance you have a pair of shoes and you also know how to make them, and suddenly it got stolen, you'll be let empty but the knowledge of making them will forever be in you.

'' Make the most of yourself.......for that is all there for you.''_ Ralph Waldo Emerson. 

 Every Morning you wake to same world but to different occurrence and lifestyles, Life's changes and it's inevitable. Be worry free. They're like storm they comes and go.  Everyone wants a better life.Be open to change but don't let go you're worth. And if it don't fit you change it and it you  change yourself(attitudes).

Love yourself. What you do, achieve all you ever wanted.  Help others get through life. Smile, be happy, be friendly, eat good, exercise, Stop accepting things you cannot change, learn how to manage time effectively .Tommorrow may never come what you do today matter most.