10 Lessons I've Learned in Life
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Life is complicated not Hard
It's no new to your hearing, its one the most aired word, i remember been told times without number but i never own the concept in my younger days , i used to think it was just words said to frighten my little sweetheart. As i grow older i came in contact with that dam, that complicated side of life, all the things they me told replayed like a record. Like a confirmation that truly life ain't fair.
Experience is the Best Teacher
I believe that life is what you go through not necessary what you're told. Like the younger me was told i keep blind ears to that,i wanted it to happen to me like a discovery then i can be an experienced individual. Through much ups and down i came to agree that you survive if experience is made your best teacher.
You can't make it Without Love
Loves is the most important thing i have ever known, loving yourself to the fullest is a must, its primary then loving others wrap it a whole. I never had much for myself at first, i loved people more than i supposed to, i ride and die for others especially the opposite sex. After multiple of breakups and heart breaks i found out that loves hurts and incomplete if i don't begin with myself. So, i began learning and i can tell nothing has been the same.
The world don't Care about me
I used to be superstitious, i grew up believing that world cares about me, that those who controls it can make life and the world at large a comfortable place to breathe but things went sideways. Everyman cares about his self alone. The world needs people that are ready to follow her rules if you go contrary to that she's hates you. Am against her wish and hope you know what that means.
Nothing Last forever
I remember sitting watching my grandma dying, seeing my girlfriend going, saying farewell, losing couple of my property and also seen a lot of dream fade away. Everything in life is temporary and it only last but for a moment.
The Future is the present
It might sound crazy to you, isn't it?, during my stay in this school of life i have alot,i also learnt that invisible thing they called the FUTURE seize to exist at times, with the rate unplanned and sudden deadly things happens this days you can't affirm that it in existence,the future. Somedays i asked myself did those who fail or lose their lives on daily bases knew they'll lose it?. Recently,for the pass month,years natural disaster, bomb blast , kidnappers rate has been on the high. I asked a friend of mine this question 'Have ever thought about losing it? his reply was so affirmative, yes he replied SURELY.
The Future is Bright
Growing up as a man you'll across certain stage that your thought will drive you on a dark horse, when all hope will be gone,when you're fruits of labor stays unripe despite how hard you worked towards it. I learnt that no matter how hard and crooked it seems the Future is and will always be bright.
Relationship is vital.
Life is all about building a strong and beneficial relationship with people around you. Accepting and caring for other, i learnt the importance of building a true Relationship all around the globe, friendship is vital not all though but those that add value and enrich you positively. And have a couple of them i can't start listing their names.
Learnt More about God.
One of most amazing thing that i have grew up to learn in life is the Bible. It's so real,the joy and peace of mind its brought to me makes me feel fulfilled. All thanks to my brother and best friend Arthur Watson his been the one enriching my soul with life changing words of God. Its been a wonderful experience.
Nothing Good Comes Easy
The last but not least i have learnt is that good things comes but its takes time to visualize. Patience with hard work plus prayers is the key. Life is hard, i know contrary to what i said on the beginning of this post, life is and will always be hard.
Seek Happiness, be different,be positive,rise above hates,love more,give and smiles always. Smile without seasoning.
That's some that 've learnt in the high school of life, more to learn as i grow older.
Over to you.
Would you mind sharing the lessons you've from the great teacher of all ages, life.? I will love to read and learn from your own experience too. Thank you. <3
indeed, all of those are true, as for me, dont take things seriously, always have your patience extended some of the things that i learned from my father though he didn't told me those he's action speaks.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the support, they are all true and facts. Nobody told me though i learnt it myself, yours was kinda different because you had a dad that was active in his actions for me i only saw him in a minute.
DeleteThanks for the support, they are all true and facts. Nobody told me though i learnt it myself, yours was kinda different because you had a dad that was active in his actions for me i only saw him in a minute.
DeleteThese are great lessons. One of the most important that I've learned is that a little understanding goes a long way, and that forgiveness is really very important. :)
ReplyDeleteA little understand can do better than being totally blind to it. Yea forgiveness is also vital. Thanks for your amazing comments, hope to see you some other time.
DeleteGreat lessons, I guess life is how we live it today and how we learn and adjust from what's in the moment.
ReplyDeleteLife is a teacher, so we live and we learn and one other thing is that it all revolves around a single sphere called moment.
Deletei love this, am touched
ReplyDeleteReally? thanks but i hope it didn't scare you,:)
DeleteEven in romantic movies, it's being taught to love yourself first before loving others or the opposite sex. These are the overview of lessons in life. There are more to be said.
ReplyDeleteI don't watch movies thought but when i comes to loving ones self it one the most important thing someone could ever do without. Love yourself or nobody will. More are coming as life goes on.
DeleteGreat! Really, there is no future, the future is now.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday pee boy
wow my boss, am over glad to see you here, thanks. About the future it does exist but it started times ago........
DeleteI learned that you can't depend on anyone but yourself..
ReplyDeleteDepending someone makes you look like a toddler, you lose self respect but being totally independent sets you free. Thanks for sharing your own lesson with me.
DeleteGreat post, I agree on everything :) Esp. about experience.
ReplyDeleteYou agreed, that's heart warming. Am glad to have you around;(
DeleteI believe these are all true.
ReplyDeleteYes they are, i can't come here and start saying things i know nothing about, it some of those things life have taught me over the pass years.
DeleteYes they are, i can't come here and start saying things i know nothing about, it some of those things life have taught me over the pass years.
DeleteTrue. Nothing lasts forever and we have to make the best out of every moment in life.
ReplyDeleteSometimes i just think about the days in the pass, but they all bygone, the moment were amazing though but they never lasted.
DeleteGreat points about God!
ReplyDeleteThat particular one is the greatest among all, its a wonder experience i think you should try it.
DeleteI absolutely agree with all the the things you mentioned above. Thanks for sharing these positive insights!
ReplyDeleteThank you too for dropping by, one love.
DeleteI D'accord with you.
ReplyDeleteOhh sister, smiling:} thanks alot.
Deletehey, i must say this is a very nice post. am happy u are getting better, kip it up
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