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How To Live In The Moment

How To Live In The Moment
Live today. Not yesterday. Not tomorrow. Just today. Inhabit your moments. Don’t rent them out to tomorrow. Do you know what you’re doing when you spend a moment wondering how things are going to turn out with Perry?
You’re cheating yourself out of today. Today is calling to you, trying to get your attention, but you’re stuck on tomorrow, and today trickles away like water down a drain. You wake up the next morning and that today you wasted is gone forever. It’s now yesterday. Some of those moments may have had wonderful things in store for you , but now you’ll never know.”  Jerry Spinelli, Love, Stargirl
What's your definition of life? A temporary sphere we reside that circles around and around?. Life is an uncertain, unwarranted future.  And the only way to live is to live in the moment, most people say like tomorrow don't exist. The idea of happy ending might be a total misconception, someone asked sometimes ago if the any possibility of someone living for today. My replied was' I belong to that insane asylum. I've experienced so many things and people pass by right before my eyes which makes me to buy that idea that any opportunity missed is dead and gone.

Living or focusing in the present is living for today is involving you self in stuffs not necessary for tomorrow satisfaction and being concious,accepting and getting over quilt when you go wrong. Doing what bring you joy, building better relationship with people.

Getting over the habit of procrastination, don't waste time on unprofitable things or negative people. Many your time effectively. Learn new things, focusing on making everyday pass by with something new added to your world.

10 Ways To Live In The Moment

 1. Focus on the present
2. Don't procrastinate, live for today.
3. Learn something new everyday
4.Play your path and play it well
5. Recognize and show respect to the secular authorities, religion amd peole.
5. Make the most off everyday
6. Smile
7.Travel if possible around the world and meet different people and thier culture
8.Stop worrying about not being perfect
9.Once in a while reach out for the needy
10. Fall in love

5 Destructive Habits of Negative and Unhappy People

5  Destructive Habits of Negative and Unhappy  People



5 Habit, Lifestyle a Positive Person Should Never Indulge  in.


Negative Thoughts. A clean morals and healthy habits makes a positive somebody.  A healthy individual who stand  far from whatever is chaste. Not pretending, living a two faced life. Certain practice distinct us from the claim'' Positive thinker''.  The other side of life and things can shift our thinking but we have the power to reject them. For the past days i fell a victim. It only come to my understanding after i publish a post 15 facts about life. The article was mixture and a products of negative thought. A positive person exclude anything that has connection with negativity.(read:How to get over Negative thought)

Smoking is another habit that defiles the body. A positive people don't indulge in any act that has been tagged bad.  Certain component in cigarette are harmful. And second hand smoking causes several heart disease. Some substances like Marijuana when smoke swings the mood of the smoke. It's effects the brain at times stimulate violence and other social vice.(read: Tips On How To Stop Smoking )

Drinking excessive alcohol has been the lifestyle of many. Drinking itself isn't bad or wrong but some liquids are power, it's has the power to change mood. When it;s becomes a habit it bring shames and disrespect not only to the victim but his family and friend and his community. Positive thinker is respected because of his high minded and ideal.

Drugs Abuse and addictive.  The rate of which people misuse drugs this days is increasing rapidly among young people. Most of this drugs are  addictive. And one thing about addictive is that its never easy to give up.  Drugs like Cracks..... They are expensive-- When an addicts can't  afford it he does whatever just to please the desire. He might steal or sell his property and hurt people around him. Positivity is a characteristics of peace maker not thugs and drugs sniffer.

Masturbation. Many somewhat doctors claims it's a healthy practice. Many jumps into it because they say it's save but i totally disagree. Even  the water we drink when taken in large amount it makes uncomfortable. People who masturbate will have a problem of premature ejaculation which is the problem of most men today. Apart from the health effect, Physiological,religiously its dirty practice that stimulate negative thought.(Read: How to Break Free from Porno Addiction)

How to get over the above isn't what baffles everyone. As a purpose driven someone i believe nothing is impossible to quit.  Sitting at the sideline blaming yourself and thinking you're not good enough won't change a thing. Something is killing but you find it difficult to conquer. You can suppress that, eliminate it.

 Determination:


  • Realize the bad side. Does it has one? What benefit will it be to be excluded among those that will suffer such consequences?. Do you smoke? Do you know if you put all the money spent on Indian ERM into a crap by you have been famous and rich? healthy and free from lungs disease?. Make up your mind. You can do it. Change your mind, picture the bright side.

Effort and Support

  • Many habits isn't easy to give up alone except smoking but others are more complicated. But seeking for support. Encouragement and attention. Joining a support group and getting knowledge from former addicts can make a big different. To drop any habit it's must be replaced. Involve in healthy practice. And with the help from family members,support group, religious leaders and prayers.



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4 Hack To Make People Like You

Do you find it difficult to attract or  flow well with people around you or those you come in contact with? Nothing could be more sweet like getting a long with new people and prolonging the friendship. Today i bring you 4 hack than will make people like you.

MAKE THEM FEEL VALUE



















SMILE













LISTEN














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