Love season is here once again, this is a new year so, nothing will be the same. The old and famous way that couples celebrate valentine is usually the  'movie and dinner pattern. Have you ever thought about changing the generic setting ? Come on, stop boring your partner each year the same routine, make this valentine different.


Keep it simple.and sexy, if your are a regular reader you probably have our dates ideas rules, for the sake of the new reader I'll state it once more. You must, it's mustn't be expensive but worthily and memorable.

1.Do strip teases for each other.

No body hates to watch a half naked woman doing those amazing and warning tease. Rock his world let never before , strip tease each other till the sky turn blue.

    There's a fine line between erotica and p*Rn*graph.

Relax and watch erotica together then conclude the valentine with a sexy massage.


2. Surprise him with some sexy Victoria's Secret lingerie, the-top, cutesy, and subtly sexy, turn yourself into a model and make him watch a private fashion show.

3.Have a romantic/sexy photo session done together or have
sexy pictures taken of yourself and make a private album for him.

4.Bring back that old school love.
Couple who married long ago along the way lost those  dating days spark, when love was in the air. Make valentine refreshing, recreate the first date you ever had together. Be chivalry once again.
Vamp it up with hand written note, or a love letter if possible drop it on their bed.

5.Exchange Sexy Gifts .
Every human loves receiving gifts, it could be anything but thoughtful.

6. Do something nice for others.
Give back some love by volunteering at a local charity. Love is complete when its shared and extended to others.

7 Propose
Still dating?  Put a ring on it.

8.Go stargazing: 
the universe is full of wonders.  Get outside the city, bring a blanket, snuggle, drink hot chocolate, and behold the beauty of the stars.

9.Go to the beach: 
let’s face it, on a hot summer day, escaping to the beach is one of life’s simple pleasures.

Gone are the days when courtship was in existence, when love had sensations.
But now its over a different new level. Many have this common believe that love is blinded. As well as not capricious to comprehend that it isn't yet dating is window blind, physically and physiologically.
Unlike courtship, dating  across borders. People who date are blind to numerous facts.
When the younger generation fall for one other they lost their mind. Blimey, could be dangerous in some situation.


In our society we experience unusual relationship culture this days, an underage lady eventually fall in love a guy and the next thing is pack straight into stay with him  as couple.
They never  contemplate the future or ask their self certain questions like what am i doing oh! am i  in love?. Has he paid my bride price? I'm only 18.
       
  ALSO READ:      Reasons Why  People Marries

Many jump into a bullet that wasn't meant for them just in the name of following their  their feelings.
I'm never against dating i don't discourage it but as soon as it get beyond the friends zone i dislike.
They are many disadvantage of dating, most of us claim grown and dought it but there is often something in the mirror that our own naked eyes are not able to see clearer.
This so called love isn't just a verb,its mighty powerful. It's  power can burn bridges. Never unrate or think that love is a mere words. Oh! should i say fear love? .
Fear what you don't know, beware of things you don't you don' t understand.

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Below are reasons while dating is blind and something people who find themselves drunk in love need to know.


The person you think is your everything is probably not your soul mate. Compatibility is far beyond ordinary thoughts it natural and vital.
If you think that you're in heaven simply because things seems up-right, you are completely wrong.Change is a continuous process, it visits you unexpectively.
Those who find themselves dating never realize that nothing remains the same for long, mpeople change love dies, the super power  reduces.


You might become pregnant along the line, the spirit referred to as love change men and women, you might say  no! to intimate act the first few month but one day 'She Will'.
And since she's not really matured enough to mother a child legally no other choice left than (abortion) the same old thing.


Multiple of this leads to infertility, the male is untouched, if the lights eventually goes off he'll continues flexing and making babies however the daddy's little girl will probably be left with absolutely nothing than regrets along with wishes.
Breakup comes around like a hula hoop, its natural and nothing magically can help erase or quit its divine visitation.

Most of the love we discover at young age are typically ordinary, merely lust and attraction.

That's the main reason why most of our first/high school sweethearts never last.
Cheating is the culture practice in nearly all arenas of the earth. The eyes observe different colors each and the ear hears additional sweet words, The tendency of infidelity is high.
Before you fall in be prepared to face reality.


Heart break is one thing you can never escape. Believe it or not, its right beside you. In the primary phase everything will feel as if you are in the third heavens floating from the cloud.
One day gasoline or the engine will crash, and every thing could possibly get stock. That's the advantage single people have over the daters, they are free of many strings which are attached to :relationships.
Jealousy will often rip out you mindset, many religious books state that love does not jealous but the reverse is the love we are in this days, dater jealous a lot. What a blind practice.
''

He that is certainly jealous is not really in love. 

    - Saint Augustine.

Does Jealousy Prove Love?

Many daters have this concepts that being jealous is a sign of genuine love but it sad to say it that jealousy doesn’t prove love. It proves insecurity”.  Read Dr Cookerly's article on Does Jealousy  Proves Love? .



Since you haven't put a ring on it, her/his is like a scheduled event that could be cancelled. He/she will date other people just to get a sense of balance, all this bring about emotional instability.
Dating is game to people that know the rules and the way to play it.

Dating someone doesn't mean you're his truly its only an attachment, I've over heard many calling their boyfriend my husband, 2 years ago she called me that holy name today she's on to the next.

There is a time for everything and the right version of dating is courtship. And its last for like 3 to 4 month or less before marriage not 7years of assures, hope and dreams.
In which the possiblity of the dream coming through is slim.

There are several common misconceptions that  love is blind, after thorough research  i discovered that love isn't blinded but lack of good understanding along with bad experiences daters experience makes it appear that way.
Dating a  damsel or gentleman doesn't mean he/she really ,  love you  . Many use love as a cover to achieve selfish thing but true love never fake feelings.
Dating is  blind so, used your sense.


Up to You


I know a lot of you that read this are dating , i have observed alot of younger girl destroying their unripe future, risking it only to prove love. Actually this post was inspired from annoyance and deep love I've got for life, where i live in Nigerian there are a lot of high school dropped out who jeopardize their golden future for  love.


I don't knpw if it happens every where though.
Their parents thinks that their child are in school not knowing there are with some guys doing practical biology.
It's hurts me deep inside, i know its  their life and so they  can to choose right or wrong. They say we learn from mistakes. Wish them well. The only thing i can sat is..... if you're young don't be too outrageous.
Do you think that love is  blind or dating? What exactly are you thoughts with regards to teenage marriage or relationship, could it be right or not ?.

I will love hear from you, please use the comments to share your thoughts.

They are usually gorgeous, their feet is clean no dirt, some of them are hard to resist but they are like green snake  in green grass.


1. Your Neighbor : This might sound heart breaking maybe you might been have admiring a certain girl in the neighborhood. It will be cool and fun at first but there's a lot to consider before going down that road. Think about what t will happen if you break up, you'll still be together and it will also jeopardize your chances with other girls in the neighborhood.(see Nothing Last Forever )


2.The No Money No Love Type : These are the high maintenance type, guys are scare of taking  so much responsibility than they can. She's so expensive to manage, she do everything possible to satisfy her love for expensive things. (See No Money No Love )


3.The Gold Digger: She'll compliment your gesture and every material things you've got, she'll like to know what kinda car you drive and other expensive things you own, all she's thinking is what she'll get as soon as her plan is accomplish she's gone. Like the high maintenance type , a Gold Digger is basically looking for  sugar daddies, she loves shopping and showing up.(See Love Doesn't Cost a Thing )


4.The ex-obsessed type: These are the type of girls that still find it hard to leave the past behind them, they can't get over their ex's they compare you to their ex's. They complain so much that it can get any happy man unhappy, red card is the only option left .


5.The gossips girls type : This category of girls are like hell, they add 1 to your 99 problem. They are always breaking news about people. She never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe.
(see: Is Disclosing Relationships Problem Proper? )


6.The baby mama type : She's pretty and hot but her brain is nut, she makes you play a daddy to another man's children. She has 5 children for 5 different guys. These kinda girl are the only in the world that thinks polyandry is a good practice.


7.The Club Girl type : This breed of girls come alive in the night time and sleep all day, they love partying more than anything else, She dips and sip, her dress code is usually seductive, she prefer hanging around with girl that are just like her and horny man every night. She's pretty and hot, it hard for the eye to resist but not good to date.


I know you're probably not smiling if you are a girl and you're reading this article in my future article I'll be writing on the kinda guys you shouldn't date or marry.
Your comments  is welcome so don't forget to write your thoughts
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