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Love Doesn't Cost A Thing

4:48 PM Daniel's Chronicle 12 Comments

I was surfing the net yesterday and I stumbled upon a thread on the Nigerian popular forum Nairaland. Someone asked ask this question, Love Doesn't Cost A Thing (it's a lie). The question is not just a question but an answer too but does really cost a thing?  If am asked I'll reply yes , everything is not always right as it seems.
Some months ago i was battling the meaning of this same phrase, I never understood that it's the opposite so i decided to try and see if it really Priceless, I came to understand that that it's like a two side coin. Am going to analyze both side, the positive and negative.


Love Doesn't Cost A Thing ;What does it mean?.



It's an idiomatic expression which means it's priceless, it's a free gift, it's something every one can feel without having to pay an amount as large as one might have to pay to get back a king held for ransom. Even the common man can get love because it never expensive  to be loved. You love your friends, family and it's cost you nothing to have that feeling, it's just like the air we breath, you don't pay before you can breathe so it's doesn't cost a thing in that case, love don't cost a thing.


When Love Cost A Thing.



Yeah! like i said earlier, it's two side, love is a little bit expensive it's requires a lot of things like sacrificial giving. Loving someone requires actions and these actions stands inform of a prove that you really care. The creator of the universe Jehovah God is an example of love, he loves us and he showed it, he gave us only begotten son, Jesus to die for our sins. What is love without sacrificial giving, No one has a greater love than that which he or she would willingly die for their friend. ” Can you lay down your life for someone you love?. This just remind me of the soldiers that lost their lives every year just to protect others.

When you love someone so much you care about them, you will be pushed to go extra mile just to see the person happy. It's natural, you just can't help it. You sacrifice things like your time and money.


#1.Time: Spending time with your partner is a huge and compulsion. Your abandon everything else just to be with your lover just to keep your relationship alive and refreshing.


#2.Money: Love makes you sacrifice even your hard earned money, money can't buy love but money spices up the relationship “Love to be real, it must cost—it must hurt—it must empty us of self.” .


Relationship whose focus is on what they will gain in return is not classified as love , True love begins when nothing is looked for in return. The cost of love is not as important as the value.

12 comments:

  1. Nice post. Love is expensive ooo. Especially as regards 'Time' which I cherish most. And when u add the 'Naija Gals factor ' into it, then Love becomes almost too expensive

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    1. I still believe that Love isn't expensive. Why Naija girls? I don't blame them.

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  2. Mr Daniel, just as the internet business hype is~ the information marketers will promise all said and done such as "start internet business without initial capital" this is stupid.
    Am sure you're gonna buy PC, wireless dongle and make subscribe internet data plan. still, buy their info products? all these worth a lot of money.

    A-no-brainer to your blog topic; "LOVE DOESN'T COST A THING" is just a controversial 'phrase' on pages of love novels and movie jackets, which doesn't comply to real life.

    Though, a no curious mind is devoid of thinking. really writings on this issue, I guess if you're living in Nigeria like me, of course you should no ' there's no way a Nigerian will fall in love with you just like that without the juicy part of your pocket. huh?

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  3. True words, but pretty hard to find this love. The love of God and that of parents are proofs it exist. Somehow, noone can love you like yourself!!

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    1. Thanks Grace, parental love is the best but one day you'll find the love of your life.

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  4. Wow....nice one.....but quiet different from what I had in mind....I am a victim of love and I have seen up n down of love.... nice o...thank you

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    1. You are very welcome,you must be an experienced lover.

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  5. Hmm! this is a post many guys and girls out there need to read. especially this phrase "Love is a little bit expensive it's requires a lot of things like sacrificial giving" That quote really nailed me up with strong belief. Nice one bro!

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  6. Really nice i think it will be nice if all nigerian youths would see this.

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