Stop Hating Yourself: Learn How to Love Yourself
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I can recollect back in year 2010 when i was young and wild, i came in
contact with this saying when i read a little book about How to Woo A Lady. At
the end of the book the author wrote in italic! "Love yourself first if
you don't you cant love someone else even the girl you are about to get",
younger me i never understood what the author was talking about.
The mentality i had was trying to feel among by getting myself a girlfriend, i never succeeded despite the books a read. It was because i wasn't bold enough to take such move.
Three years later when i grew up because boys stop being boys when they the cultivate the mindset of men. I succeeded in making my 3 years old dream come through but there was something i never had which is what they author said, i never understood what and how to love myself.
All the time i spent with my beautiful fantasy i thought i had love for myself because i loved and cherished her but still i was still blind to the fact.
The mentality i had was trying to feel among by getting myself a girlfriend, i never succeeded despite the books a read. It was because i wasn't bold enough to take such move.
Three years later when i grew up because boys stop being boys when they the cultivate the mindset of men. I succeeded in making my 3 years old dream come through but there was something i never had which is what they author said, i never understood what and how to love myself.
All the time i spent with my beautiful fantasy i thought i had love for myself because i loved and cherished her but still i was still blind to the fact.
I spent time worrying about her,missing,texting and
calling i didn't even have much time for myself rather i was busy trying to
please someone else when am supposed to comfort myself.
One unfaithful day( i was boxed out of the picture) the future we
had took head shot, all the stars in my sky went off and i was locked out of
heavens gate. That night the trumpet was blown i thought Jesus had returned as
he promised and was a sinner so i thought am complete tarnish. I logged on to
Google to look for how to blackout the breakup depression(hurt myself ). That
was the day i realize i never loved myself why because i didn't have a clear
understanding and the benefit attached to it.
Loving Ones Self: What does it mean.?
Loving yourself goes beyond mere saying,its having control over
yourself, never letting someone to make you unhappy, like Glo you
rule your world making good plans and achieving it. Nothing good comes easy its
take much practise. But we spend our whole life searching for someone who
can love us when the only person that can love us is always right by our side.
Self Love Is Not a Crime:
Loving your self is never a crime but hating ourselves is a
serious crime. Using negative words on our self has a negative effect why
because there is power in spoken words."When you truly love yourself, you
are enough. Your happiness and well-being become a top priority. "
Why Love Myself?
You need to love love yourself because no body will love you for
you and accept you just the way are to the fullest. Loving yourself boost
your ego and it makes life simple and enjoyable.
“ Love yourself enough to take the actions required for
your happiness… Love yourself enough to cut
yourself loose from the ties of the drama-filled past…Love yourself enough to move on!
--Steve Maraboli
yourself loose from the ties of the drama-filled past…Love yourself enough to move on!
--Steve Maraboli
How to Love Yourself
1. Have Enough Time for Yourself, we spend the time of
our-lives chasing
materialism, working hard but we don’t have time for our selves, we don’t take
break like going on
vocations. Take a time out of your busy schedule and have spend a little time
alone or with friends and have fun.
2.Forgive yourself and others who offends you, if you eventually
step on toes or someone gets on your nerves don't take it too personal because
you mistakes don't define you, forgive and move on because life is too shot be
walking around with hatred on our mind.
3.Transform your mind set and put on that successful and positive
mindset if no one thinks you are important prove them wrong. Seek positive
things to yourself because you it worth.
4.View yourself as the most beautiful and important person on
earth. Have seen many girls complaining that they are not cute as their
friends, they ain't got nice curves. Love what you have got and believe that
the beautiful you is deep inside.
5.Treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others.
6.Don't loose yourself trying to become somebody else, why try to
look like celebrities? try to loose weight to be accepted by someone when you
are beautiful just the way you are.
7.Take very good care of your body, time and money. Eat good food
spend quality time doing things that please you and use your cash wisely.
10.Grow and learn how to be comfortable with any situation life
puts you because its just a test.
Love more
give more help others around you if needs arise. Life is all about you after
you are done with you then you will know how to treat others. There are many
ways to love yourself to the fullest so read more and don't forget to add more
in the comments.
Do you love yourself ?
