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How to Get People to Like You?

How to Get People to Like You

Building great connections with people you just came in contact with in few minute is like mastering a couple new dialect it's all about sensibility and knowing the exact tools to employ. I just moved into a totally different environment with differs believes and people and we happened to work togethers in a tight box. Building a concrete network with them, getting to know them and getting people to like you was kinda weird at first. I used certain strategies to connect effectively.

Confident and Courage:

Getting people to like you, the level of confident embed in you and courage is required. Having the the mind to speak up, interact can be ill. People are naturally shy and all their imagination is fear. Can you walk to your boss, a pretty lady confidentiality and express yourself?. The might of  fearlessness confines that confidence and courage in you.

Using Communication: 

The ability to develop relationship is one's mental skill and making the efficient use or communication, verbal and nonverbal. It's often said that communication is a key, it's like a entrace.It enrich the bond between two set of people. When you meet someone you get to know him/her through the act of communicating. It might verbal, through body languages.

  • Ask questions. In Order to get used or have knowledge of certain people through positive conversation,questions need to asked. Their names, your tell them yours too, where you reside and state of origin.
  • Compliment them.People like being complimented especially ladies. And ones of the easiest way of getting liked is through this.Compliment isn't saying ohh nice curves, you look hot. Compliment what they're wearing,handwriting, smiles.
  • Be positive and non filthy. First impressions matters, being positive,using the appropriate language, abstaining from dirty talking while trying to get people to like you sets your bar high. It makes a good impression that you're good.
  • Smiles. Personally i dislike frowny faces, a smile can mean the world even if it's faked. Smiles are inviting and makes someone look friendly, beautiful and fun. Use the power of smile, laugh if something fun caves in and put one that smiles always.


Help Them Out:

Friends are helper and the most easiest way to get someone to admire you is through your works. This end people buy things they know nothing about, smartphones, Laptops. Mathematics, Many are not to expose on How To solve certain issues. Get them to like you being their iPhone doctor and teacher.

Dress Appropriately:

You're whom you dress like. First impression is judgemental which includes the way you dress.  A lady with long legged clothes will be viewed different with those on Shots. Dress cooperates and decent. People tend to attract to those whose mode of dressing is sensible and smart.

Talkless and Wisely:

They say you know a wise man through his speech and that's better to say nothing than empty all. Know your limits and ignore them.


  • Be funny. One of those ways to make someone comfortable around is do interesting and funny stuffs. Saying words that triggers smiles and laughter. Don't try to be funny be yourself.

Maintain the balance throughout, never get of track by adopting feeling, actions that aren't appropriate. One other thing is self control. If your opponent happens to be a female know those rules, never try to be too emotional or holding of the sensitive parts or look.  Above all show respect to people, like them and they will reciprocate.

How Friendship Can Help Improve Your life


How Friendship Can Help Improve Your life

 Friendship has a huge impact on your life, they are are like dirt. They nourish or stunt your growth .Friends are heaven sent ( the right ones), and  living hell if you didn't choose wisely. They can influence you, change and make life fun and worthwhile in times of need.

 Nature gave us them as an assistant to virtue. They are manifestation of moral excellency.
 Everyone has, makes friends but not all benefits from them, recently i shared a post, a question i emphasized on networking effectively,  the effect it  has on us. Iron sharpen iron, friends can be off huge importance to our life , health and well-being.

Friends Can Help Improve Your Life


Share Every Moment With You.  True friends are  like Air they are always around in good times to celebrate with you and also in hard times  to comfort you. Baltasar Gracian said'' Friendship multiplies the good of life and divides the evil''. Indeed they do, some can be caring like our mothers, nurture and smile with us in the day and comfort and stay wide awake at night.



Boost Your Happiness.To  Throw a way a honest friend is throwing away a world, Life is lived a half if happiness is not in existence and happiness is incomplete if it's kept without sharing.

Friends can be a source of joy, any time i meet or see my old friends and we get into conversation it brings my joy and i feel content. Friends can mean happiness it varieties of unimagined ways, take your girlfriend/boyfriend, (family) for instants, when you first fell in love, you smiled and feel complete any-time you spent a moment together. Compare it to when you first got you heart broken,  spot the difference.



They Make Life Easy. There is this concept that life is not easy but i think it can be simplified through genuine connections with the right set of people who gives you right to it.
Albert Schweitzer said, '' You don't live in a world all alone. Your brother are here too''. Brothers are outstanding version of friends, they are the only cement that will ever hold the world(you) and make it a better place,(they are pillars, they strengthens , hold you firm.).



Put You on the Right track When You Fall Out. When life seems uncertain and you  lose the religion and morals, you loose your focus by associating with negative people, develop unhealthy and unwholesome habits, friends will do all they can to get on back on track  through constants warning and encourage to see why it important to part away  from unhealthy lifestyles like excessive intake of alcohol or exercise that are harmful.'' Misfortune shows those who are not really friends''( Aristotle).



Friendships Encourages Success. ''True friends......faces in the same direction, toward common project, interest, goals.'' To succeed in life you build network with those of the same goal and interest. You can't pointing your focus on success while your surround yourself with looser,people with no dreams.
 I made this terrible mistake way-back while in high school, when i was about to write my final exams(Waec,Neco), like 3 months to i realized my whole year were waste so i had to switch lane and sit up, associate with those that  can help me grow more in understanding. And i can tell that nothing was the same, few months later i became a success factor like my new friends.

 Good friends are fertilizer of life, they add nutrient to your well-being and growth, some  are like water they makes you grow greener and fresher or flood and wash away life's manure totally.



  • True friends supports and makes your dreams come through.


Friends shows you the better view of life and things therein, they bring out the best of you, walk with you in the dark. They have health and financial benefit. Personal growth require learning, challenge and most of all positive influence. Good and well connected companion with positive influence is a key to personal self improvement and growths.

Why You Should Accept People The Way They Are

Love is accepting someone they way they are; for both good and bad times :)

- Felicia Anjani


Why You Should Accept Someone They Way They Are

Accepting someone with  flaws seems like a hard decision , everybody seek for a particular traits,
physical quality mostly. Loving and accepting people the way there are is never in existence but for who and what the have. Maybe for money or because of how attractive their figure is, how brilliant and smart they are .Others shift it to religious belief,culture e.t.c ,So if you ain't got the particular quality in you certain people will find it hard to accepts you.


As real as they come, its unfathomable the reason behind their enrollment as your buddy. They say the best love is when nothing is needed in return.

Different people have different behaviours, our way of dealing with things and interacting differs. And we tend to dig deep,trying to see beneath the beautiful so that mistakes can be avoided totally when accepting people rather than admitting someone the way the are.


Human are naturally weird, they can be so annoying at times but you can't judge a book by it's cover but the content. Somebody 's attitude or first impression  might be sick but they still got some sweetness, good manners.

The major reason you shouldn't limit anybody from the freedom association is...we are all imperfect, if you are to be dissected some filthy and annoying behaviors that no one even you can tolerate can be found in you,you harbor disgusting habit, you don't murder it but you conceal it. What makes you think you're better than the person you despise?.

Let love lead, never hate any being because they were all beautifully made. Love and accept people for them.


Over to You

What's your thought on this, have ever reject or been reject by someone just because you're not they person you were expected to be? How was the experience like?.




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How to Love Unconditionally: 2 Simple Steps

Love isn't complete till its reciprocated genuinely, we all hear people airing it frequently. And even advised someone to applied this almighty law and principle of living but we come short of it. In this short article i will shared with you how you can effectively share love and balanced it equally.

Life is so simple and complicated, no matter how it must always be that way,why because love  has lost it value.

We are  not seldomly told to love our self first, we tend to focus on our self alone and intentional forget everyone Else's.
Love is :
- An intense feeling of affection and care towards another person,
- A profound and caring attraction towards someone.
Loving means:
- To have a strong affection for.
- To care deeply about, to be dedicated to.

Why Love Others?

You might start compromising, since you value yourself to an entend why love others? maybe some hurted you sometimes ago and you lock your heart , send the keys into extinctions. Showing love to people around is totally crap to you.

Love is reciprocal simply implies it's needs to be balance on both side, its not all about yourself alone but the manner you have for the next man shows how deeply you value yourself.
Love inequality is self cheating and greediness, to balance the equation you need to do unto others what you do to yourself.
Learn to be cheerful giver, help the needy by sharing some of your belonging.

Doing nothing for others is the undoing of ourselves.
― Horace Mann

There is one thing i have discovered, negative thoughts is a cause of hatred,people whose thinking is crooked will always display side effects towards others.

What does it means by Loving yourself?

Selfish persons are incapable of loving others, but they are not capable of loving themselves either. Since you were taught to cherish yourself , this idea of others will escape your memory only if you're so selfish. When you focus on yourself all you do is;

-Care about yourself feeling, protect yourself from any harmful object can come inform of intruder.  You seek happiness and embrace it with the whole of you.

-learn never to criticize or judge yourself even when you indulge in something inappropriate. You don't kill yourself trying to be perfect but accept it the way it's ,you do more to yourself.

This routine lifestyle keep eating the 'Others' world out of you because the sphere you think rotates around you and its all about you. You maybe feel like ' i am living life to it's fullest but it's so sad to say it, you are but only living half of it.

They say money don't make you rich, 50 percent love don't complete you, you might be happy but a peak not a whole.

Those who are happiest are those who do the most for others.”
― Booker T. Washington, Up from Slavery.

Shift Your Thoughts


Never underestimate or underate people because no man is a desert on his own, the world and life will be boring without other people, have you ever wondered why everything was created in two's? male and female. For a purpose  the next person was created, to help  each other out when matter arises. Shift your negative thought today. If you are capable of shifting your thoughts , you can change the way you feel and respond to a situation of others.
Loving Otthers
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How to love Others

You can simply adopt the way you treat yourself, thats the best approach and the only effective way to true love for people.

Treat others with respect: The more happiness you bring to others the more happiers you feel.

“The truest form of love is how you behave toward someone, not how you feel about them.
― Steve Hall

Put the needs of others before your's: If someone needs something and it happens you have it and it something you seek to, put the needs of others into consideration.
The most sublime act is to set another before you.
― William Blake
Treating people with kindness and gentleness.

There is no better way to love others as i said above thaN doing unto them the same thing you do to your self, don't eat and watch others starve, life isn't complicated but people forget to paint a vivid picture of her.



6 Signs He Wants to be Just Friends

Hello hope you guys had a nice day.  Today I will be sharing with you 6 Signs he only want to be a friend