Love isn't complete till its reciprocated genuinely, we all hear people airing it frequently. And even advised someone to applied this almighty law and principle of living but we come short of it. In this short article i will shared with you how you can effectively share love and balanced it equally.

Life is so simple and complicated, no matter how it must always be that way,why because love  has lost it value.

We are  not seldomly told to love our self first, we tend to focus on our self alone and intentional forget everyone Else's.
Love is :
- An intense feeling of affection and care towards another person,
- A profound and caring attraction towards someone.
Loving means:
- To have a strong affection for.
- To care deeply about, to be dedicated to.

Why Love Others?

You might start compromising, since you value yourself to an entend why love others? maybe some hurted you sometimes ago and you lock your heart , send the keys into extinctions. Showing love to people around is totally crap to you.

Love is reciprocal simply implies it's needs to be balance on both side, its not all about yourself alone but the manner you have for the next man shows how deeply you value yourself.
Love inequality is self cheating and greediness, to balance the equation you need to do unto others what you do to yourself.
Learn to be cheerful giver, help the needy by sharing some of your belonging.

“Doing nothing for others is the undoing of ourselves.”
― Horace Mann

There is one thing i have discovered, negative thoughts is a cause of hatred,people whose thinking is crooked will always display side effects towards others.

What does it means by Loving yourself?

Selfish persons are incapable of loving others, but they are not capable of loving themselves either. Since you were taught to cherish yourself , this idea of others will escape your memory only if you're so selfish. When you focus on yourself all you do is;

-Care about yourself feeling, protect yourself from any harmful object can come inform of intruder.  You seek happiness and embrace it with the whole of you.

-learn never to criticize or judge yourself even when you indulge in something inappropriate. You don't kill yourself trying to be perfect but accept it the way it's ,you do more to yourself.

This routine lifestyle keep eating the 'Others' world out of you because the sphere you think rotates around you and its all about you. You maybe feel like ' i am living life to it's fullest but it's so sad to say it, you are but only living half of it.

They say money don't make you rich, 50 percent love don't complete you, you might be happy but a peak not a whole.

“Those who are happiest are those who do the most for others.”
― Booker T. Washington, Up from Slavery.

Shift Your Thoughts


Never underestimate or underate people because no man is a desert on his own, the world and life will be boring without other people, have you ever wondered why everything was created in two's? male and female. For a purpose  the next person was created, to help  each other out when matter arises. Shift your negative thought today. If you are capable of shifting your thoughts , you can change the way you feel and respond to a situation of others.

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How to love Others

You can simply adopt the way you treat yourself, thats the best approach and the only effective way to true love for people.

Treat others with respect: The more happiness you bring to others the more happiers you feel.

“The truest form of love is how you behave toward someone, not how you feel about them.”
― Steve Hall

Put the needs of others before your's: If someone needs something and it happens you have it and it something you seek to, put the needs of others into consideration.
“The most sublime act is to set another before you.”
― William Blake
Treating people with kindness and gentleness.

There is no better way to love others as i said above thaN doing unto them the same thing you do to your self, don't eat and watch others starve, life isn't complicated but people forget to paint a vivid picture of her.