Never Trade What You Want Most For What You Want Right Now
You might have heard the phrase'' The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want right now''. Certain lifestyle we live today are rather toxic or harmless. It might be fun and worth dying for at first but later on you regret them and the most heart burning side of it is it's irreversible.
Marrying when you're suppose to be building the future: This rate everyone is rushing into marriage this days makes me ask questions like' Is life all about this?. Many don't even have a clue of what it's all about. They lets the falsehood in Nollywood movies deceive them into abandoning want the want most which is maturity and they best way to acquire it is through education and learn from others mistakes and experience. But they lets the almighty world wide alcoholic beverage drunk them into early married. It's never end well.
Relationships instead of developing oneself: In search for temporary happiness and joy, people risk what most important just to please the heart and fleshy. The heart is deceptive that's why it's risky following it's desire. You simply work on making yourself better and smart with a couple of skills rather than seeking happiness that will never last. The happiness we get in relationship are pieces of what we will get if we point our focus on the most important and profitable things, like education instead of love.
Sexual Pleasure instead of a better days ahead: The media sexual everything this days. The youth are made to believe that s*x partners is what make them big boys and complete. No one told them that dark side. S*xual pleasure is a destroyer on the youth. It ruin futures, it brings sorrows and regrets. Have you ever thought about saving the so called enjoyment for tomorrow?.
Money Instead Of building Brand: Being wealthy is all a young boy wishes but trading on the road to success is what he lacks, you don't need money now lil man, all you need is tragedy that will fetch you millions in your twenties to thirties. And they only way to do is is proper used of your time. You could chase education today for the well-being of tomorrow or learn how to use ,or develop the creativity in you instead of dropping out of school to chase money at the age you suppose to use and get hold on things that could makes your future smile.
Looking For Job Instead of Creating One :Work harder in your self than job . Do you know your boss is using you to get millions ? The money you earn a month is not equivalent to the task you do. Why not utilize that time wisely, be your own boss. You might be a boy today but lay the foundation that will make you a boss tomorrow. I had conversions with several civil servant who went from being wealthy to poor years after they retire or loose their job. Is that what you want?.
Making Friends(bad )instead Building(good)Networks: The rich build networks while the poor look for job. Friends are good but a networking with the those that matters is the best. Networking with the right contacts makes prosperity more brilliant, and lightens adversity in the future. Read Are you building the right network?
The very purpose of living is seeking happiness and above all keeping it. For the pleasure of today we can trade it, in-sense of looking for it else where and who to give it to us instead of developing it within. The universe timing can reflect certain influence which might lead us to desire to have things that distance from us all in search of happiness.
They manner time fly s this days, any minute waste is gone for eternity but any one invested in reward-able thoughts and act profits us in the near future. Never Trade What You Want Most For The Pleasure Of Today.
Marrying when you're suppose to be building the future: This rate everyone is rushing into marriage this days makes me ask questions like' Is life all about this?. Many don't even have a clue of what it's all about. They lets the falsehood in Nollywood movies deceive them into abandoning want the want most which is maturity and they best way to acquire it is through education and learn from others mistakes and experience. But they lets the almighty world wide alcoholic beverage drunk them into early married. It's never end well.
Relationships instead of developing oneself: In search for temporary happiness and joy, people risk what most important just to please the heart and fleshy. The heart is deceptive that's why it's risky following it's desire. You simply work on making yourself better and smart with a couple of skills rather than seeking happiness that will never last. The happiness we get in relationship are pieces of what we will get if we point our focus on the most important and profitable things, like education instead of love.
Money Instead Of building Brand: Being wealthy is all a young boy wishes but trading on the road to success is what he lacks, you don't need money now lil man, all you need is tragedy that will fetch you millions in your twenties to thirties. And they only way to do is is proper used of your time. You could chase education today for the well-being of tomorrow or learn how to use ,or develop the creativity in you instead of dropping out of school to chase money at the age you suppose to use and get hold on things that could makes your future smile.
Looking For Job Instead of Creating One :Work harder in your self than job . Do you know your boss is using you to get millions ? The money you earn a month is not equivalent to the task you do. Why not utilize that time wisely, be your own boss. You might be a boy today but lay the foundation that will make you a boss tomorrow. I had conversions with several civil servant who went from being wealthy to poor years after they retire or loose their job. Is that what you want?.
Making Friends(bad )instead Building(good)Networks: The rich build networks while the poor look for job. Friends are good but a networking with the those that matters is the best. Networking with the right contacts makes prosperity more brilliant, and lightens adversity in the future. Read Are you building the right network?
The very purpose of living is seeking happiness and above all keeping it. For the pleasure of today we can trade it, in-sense of looking for it else where and who to give it to us instead of developing it within. The universe timing can reflect certain influence which might lead us to desire to have things that distance from us all in search of happiness.
They manner time fly s this days, any minute waste is gone for eternity but any one invested in reward-able thoughts and act profits us in the near future. Never Trade What You Want Most For The Pleasure Of Today.
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This is amazing because these are also the principles that I live by & there are really no room for compromises.
ReplyDeleteAwesome post that everyone needs to live by
ReplyDeleteThis is so true because there is an easy route but it doesn't always work.
ReplyDeleteOne of the secret to success is learning to delay gratification
ReplyDeleteI love this post and I definitely agree to this. It's really better to put of today's inconvenience for tomorrow's joy :)
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