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How To Break Up With Someone

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When the relationship is on the roller-coaster everything seems to be swinging on a zigzag lane, you tried the best you could to get it on a balance but the scale keep getting faultier.
The next thing on your mind is using the door but using the key to the exist is not that simple. You think of the best way kick him or her out.

Breaking up with someone could be hard when you love the person and you don't how to tell them that you need to grab the wheels.
Before moving on you have to put few thing to considerations.

Am i ready for this?.

The few days its not going be easy,you will be tempted to call,text or even come back together so you have to be prepare to face the reality. Most people just accept things they don't know better, they makes decisions and later regret why they made such. Be ready and be down for whatever.


Why am i doing this?

Maybe he cheated or you fell out of love better still you don't feel comfortable with them no more, know why you are doing what you're about doing. Don't leave because everybody leaves but do it for you.
(See 7 reason to breakup)

Give it a second thought:

You probably made up your mind to breakup, remember that breakup is hard to do. Think about it if its okay by you then you're half way home to the single and free world.
 Break Up

Turn green snake : Remember you love them so you need to protect your very self from getting hurt. I advice you detach your emotions from them,take your mind away from the relationship while you're planing to breakup.

Action: Take a shot :

How do i tell him/her,via text? maybe i should approach him/her? Hell no, text is easier. Majority of breakups are via text and its a coward move. Oh you still love them and you scared  of hurting them, come one take a shot. Break up doesn't mean you hate but remember you are doing this for you, break hearts not lives.

Don"t  just break up by just ignoring the person that's disrespectful but be honest,
Honesty is the best policy, you came in peace leave in peace too. Tell him/her that you have something to say and its about the relationship. Then they will make out time then you blow it.

I can't tell you the exact line to say just say what's on your mind. Let them know you are sick of the way things are going in the relationship and you want to leave. After spitting those words  nothing will be the same, emotions will get high the heart will bleed. Decision is decisions you don't have to right people all the time.

Don't let words make you think otherwise be prepare because there will be a lot of pleading, crying e.t.c but don't let them touch your heart.

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