Middling notions grasp and fractures many. They develop gradually into a lifestyles , something like addiction.Have you ever come into contact with someone that any words from his mouth is no, i can't, it's impossible?. Some things you sit in your arm chair and produce from your head through thought has an effect on the fast approach of your dreams. Positive ideas boosts our self and attracts good towards our way.

Do you know you're the cause of the limitations and misfortunes around you ?.  ''We are what our thought have made us; so take care about what you think. Words are secondary. Thoughts  live; they travel._ Swami Vivekananda.

Some goofy ideas are holding you down from achieving all you ever wanted.

1.Am Not Like Them, so i can't succeed, even if i try it a waste of time.  Comparing oneself with others is the first step to a man's downfall. Someone whose is exceptional is difference and he does his stuff and also shines different in his own space. The ideal of feeling among is destructive.

People believe that it's impossible to make it unless  you associate with those who have it or the throw away their real identity and look just like them. I believe that being yourself, is like a brand, it's makes it easy to spot out the different.You don't have to be like anyone to attain a high.

2. Am too fat, Slim and people like me are not value./I'm not as lucky as.......
In our society people tend to address people and at times judge the book by it's cover. I read a story of a girl who was born black and he sister white. Her white sister overshadowed her, acquired, meet rich guys, graduated easily and at last got a nice job but for her things never went that way because of her skin colour. She grew up hating her skin. Wishing she weren't black. But hey! As long as you human it matter if you're black or white, fat, slim....... We were made unique and special. Learn how to love your self above all don't let your physical look defines you. Be proud of your body.


3. Others have tried and never succeeded. I don't want to end up just like them. 
Impossible is a disease, it's damn like.It's kills , block possibilities if it's not challenged. Before man was able to travel to space it wasn't easy, before  Roger Bannister ran the 4 minute race others have tried but they never succeeded because the idea of it's impossibility was all they knew. Other might have tried and ended up loser, maybe they never tried enough or you were they awaited one, who knows.

4.Am disable.   Human like excuses, any bad thing that happen to them will be used as a medium to escape  from engagements. Never allow the things you lack set you back. Helen Keller made it and Stevie Wonder did too. These people are famous and great who made history but never opportune d to see how light looks like.

5.Life is unfair to me,everyone hates me.  Stop procrastinating, don't focus on life but on how to remove the prefix and make it fair. Life is a battlefield, buckle up and be ready to conquer. Saying life isn't  good and doing nothing to change that won't take you anywhere but more sorrows.  love yourself or no body will.

6.People will laugh at me/What will my friends say.  Everybody wants to do something unique right? but no one wants to laughed at upon doing it but appreciated. The truth is people will always say thing irritating about  you but it has nothing on you. When all you do is care about what someone at the barber shop will say then you won't grow. What matters is that you do it.  If no one talks about you that means you're nobody. Even if it's lies.

7. I want mine to be like that of Kim-ye:
Some dreams comes through but it all begun from something little before it became big and real. Expanding your version isn't a bad idea. You might have heard of old adage which says''  Cut your coat according to your clothes or size''. Yours can never be like that of Kimye. It can more than or not. The moment you start thinking of being, performing things like someone else, you loose your real self. Life is all bout being oneself and dealing with things differently.


8.Lemme wait, God's time is the best. Procrastination can delay someone, not taking chance is like sleeping on the same bed and on the same bedsheets for years without washing it. The moment you take a positive move you dislocate that spirit of procrastination. They say heaven help those who help themselves not those who waits for manners to fall. Many who succeeded walked towards time and met God's own on the way.


9.My opponents are experts. Fear of the known can be traumatic, maybe you're about to go on debates with Champions and your group never won even amateur debater once. You'll begin to contemplate, i can't win so there is no need  of trying. My opponent won a year ago and are experts in this field, I 'll be crushed.....All that glitters is never Gold, the causation agent of why many never triumph wasn't because they weren't intelligent or smart enough but fear. You opponent are expert and you're about to break the balance and make a new history.

Have you ever thought about doing something extraordinary once in your life, the type no one has ever done and when you air it out people will say impossible?. You fell like giving up on it. It just like chasing shadow to everyone around you.  Being the very first people trying to set a standard,accomplishing impossible.

Since the beginning of athlete, this same weak and stagnation mindset was planted in their the mind of legends and expert and other officials in the field that it's impossible for a man to complete 4 minute mile. One day a man proved it wrong by breaking the barrier, Roger Bannister was the name and after him hundreds of athlete have done just like him.

On May 6, 1954, Roger Bannister broke the 4-minute barrier, running the distance in 3:59.4 .
The exact distance that no one has ever accomplish, i think those who never made it allowed the impossible, the failure and you can't thought ruin their chances and the most funny thing is that no one ever say i can do it because everyone has it at heart that it's never possible.

See Beyond Limit.

The mind of people has been occupied with, it's never and have not been done since creation, others have and fails, yours wont be an exception.  A loser at mind is a loser deeds. Things work the way you programme your mind and the side you point you focus on.

Take for instance....
The children of Egypt spent times stranded in the wilderness, on a marry- go -round, around the mountain without having a sight of the promised land. Because they had weak and childish mentality.

Roger Bannister did it, he never pay attention to those setback routine, he saw ' No One Can, Will'' as words,he saw beyond normality and took a decision of putting and end and recreating a new record and opening for the upcoming wish he did.

Only Hunger Minds Can Grow.


Many live  life spinning around a particular circle,doing one thing, living the same old life with the same old dreams. The largest room is that of improvement. Some decide never to live and learn instead freeze and burn. It impossible to change your actions not until your mind is programme towards it.
You know how it feels like when you're really hungry? Be hunger to know more, hunger for change. Expand our version beyond what someone else's past record or the impossible.


Make Your Mark
Are that that broke records and changed the impossible two headed or most creative that you?, you might confuse yourself with words like ''Luck''. But i tell you luck don't exist in certain corners of life. Those men took fantasy and made it exist. You, too, can be whatever you dream to be. Expand your version, exceed the past limit. Chase the dreams, without hard work nothings grows but weed.

You might have heard the phrase'' The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want right now''. Certain lifestyle we live today are rather toxic or harmless. It might be fun and worth dying for at first but later on you regret them and the most heart burning side of it is it's irreversible.



Marrying when you're suppose to be building the future: This rate everyone is rushing into marriage this days makes me ask questions like' Is life all about this?. Many don't even have a clue of what it's all about. They lets the falsehood in Nollywood movies deceive them into abandoning want the want most which is maturity and they best way to acquire it is through education and learn from others mistakes and experience. But they lets the almighty world wide alcoholic beverage drunk them into early married. It's never end well.


Relationships instead of developing oneself: In search for temporary happiness and joy, people risk what most important just to please the heart and fleshy. The heart is deceptive that's why it's risky following it's desire. You simply work on making yourself better and smart with a couple of skills rather than seeking happiness that will never last. The happiness we get in relationship are pieces of what we will get if we point our focus on the most important and profitable things, like education instead of love.


Sexual Pleasure instead of a better days ahead: The media sexual everything this days. The youth are made to believe that s*x  partners is what make them big boys and complete. No one told them that dark side. S*xual pleasure is a destroyer on the youth. It  ruin futures, it brings sorrows and regrets. Have you ever thought about saving the so called enjoyment for tomorrow?.


Money Instead Of building Brand: Being wealthy is all a young boy wishes but trading on the road to success is what he lacks, you don't need money now lil man, all you need is tragedy that will fetch you millions in your twenties to thirties. And they only way to  do is is proper used of your time. You could chase education today for the well-being of tomorrow or learn how to use ,or develop the creativity in you instead of dropping out of school  to chase money at  the age you suppose to use and get hold on things that could makes your future smile.



Looking For Job Instead of Creating One :Work harder in your self than job  . Do you know your boss is using you to get millions ? The money you earn a month is not equivalent to the task you do. Why not utilize that time wisely, be your own boss. You might be a boy today but lay the foundation that will make you a boss tomorrow. I had  conversions with several civil servant who went from being wealthy to poor years after they retire or loose their job. Is that what you want?.


Making Friends(bad )instead Building(good)Networks: The rich build networks while the poor look for job. Friends are good but a networking with the those that matters is the best. Networking with the right contacts makes prosperity more brilliant, and lightens adversity in the future. Read Are you building the right network?

The very purpose of living is seeking happiness and above all keeping it. For the pleasure of today we can trade it, in-sense of looking for it else where and who to give it to us instead of developing it within.  The universe timing can reflect certain influence which might lead us to desire to have things that distance from us all in search of happiness.

They manner time fly s this days, any minute waste is gone for eternity but any one invested in reward-able thoughts and act profits us in the near future. Never Trade What You Want Most For The Pleasure Of Today.

Build a quality relationship  with everyone , family, friends and co worker, they can effect or be a helper someday but if you where rocky around them when needs or lack arises and they are position to help you out, they might now so,Invest in your future by  investing in yourself .Change Your Thinking and Associate.The kind of company you keep has a huge effect on your future, positive associate and network keeps motivates your eagerness. 

The mind is a powerful tool, it can be of more important if use effectively and pointed towards attracting positive things and wealth. The road to success starts with mere words, the tongue is sharper than two edged sword. It can clear the bushy and narrow path to riches only if it used in a way, there powers in it. The whole world and things therein are products of spoken words. God made everything through words. That's set an example that we can do anything if our confessions are positive.

Somewhere between i want it and i get it, it all root from the desire to have it, recently a close friend of mine invited me to his new business venture, gotten there i discovered he pin photos of writings on the wall. I looked closely what i saw written on them made me smile. He wrote in blue ink'' I want to be a millionaire'' it might look headless and weak to his customers but to him it mean a world. To him it was writing i saw, i read them in art, it was the future and possibilities i saw. I told him you're getting there if you're success conscious.

Desire does it own but can't make you rich , so you take a step further. You put yourself in the shoes of success. You can simply do this by visualizing it. Seeing yourself as someone who is a fulfilled factor already.

Yes you can is another important tool, being positive about it can help you visualize what success meant , how it looks like and what it feels like being successful.

Talk that success language, like my friend painted a picture, he communicated with his inner force, his inner voice connected the cable to more powerful source which increased the voltage of his desire that transform into writings which i called pictures.

Believe in possibility even if you're not that of that type that believes in faith, the truth is prayer works. And lastly step into success, take sip from the holy grail which is action. Desire gets weaker when it lack or when it's not back up with corresponding actions.

Success will never fall from heaven or come to you by accident, you use your mind to attract it. The starting point to being successful is you mind, develop it and they sky will be a starting not your limit.

 Walking across the street everyone is busy doing variety of thing, something comes into my head, i frequently question myself what the whole inhabitant of the world is chasing. Many says the are after achieving or fulfilling their destiny, what is this almighty destiny, is it a golden salvation of the soul?. No, it's simply somewhat material things that we all after, a better life.

Different people view a better life based on religious and cultural point but the true meaning we're kinda blind to it unless you seek to discover the hidden truth, which is the focus of all human.

A child grows up with one thing on his pretty innocent heart, to be a lived hero, wealthy and change his immediate world. People do anything humanly possible to excel, student work not for passion or to learn to know it but all are preparation for the what we all call the future.
Human are naturally materialistic, we want all, life to us  is all about the money, due to religious settings and believes everyone seems  to hide it, pretend as we are immaterial but the truth the say can't hide itself because rocks do crack and its butt exposed.

People no longer do things because of the passion of pleasure derived , the outcome is what matters most and if it won't have a cash full end then its abandoned.

At my younger age i was told times without number  that life is not all about the money, that being contented and happy is living life to it fullest. But i grew up to witness totally a different scene on the flat screen that not having money can be the root of all evil. Biblical the love for it is.

If you don't love something you hates it and if you do hate you distance yourself from it and anything related to it. The facts is......we all chasing money but they say it don't make you rich and i wonder if the world billionaires aren't rich, maybe they are broke.

Money ,the answer to all things can be devilish when you focus on getting it Asap ,through any means, its don't grow on trees  so in order you to be  plugged to the power source bills needs to be paid in form of sacrifice. You work hard  and watch it multiply gradually or you get it fast or die trying,

Why is everyone chasing money? that's the question here, the same way success mean a whole lot of things to different people, same the reason why people chase mula differs.

Money can do a couple of unimagined things, it mighty powerful,it controls rulers and disintegrate the strongest, it turns people into freaks. It can buy dreams, changes you and also makes you rich.

There is this concept about it, that can buy the best things in life but i can make them worthwhile.And it doesn't change you, i think if you haven't gotten enough, too much might kill you which i ask is Bill Gate still the same as he was when i started Programming?. Just saying, the change they mean is not the physical one , you know there is a fine line between having abundance and you still feel bored and being happy with little you have. Money don't buy happiness is just a microchip planted on the mind of the poor, the only thing it can't buy is inner peace.

There is one other thing that still make me wanna murder, with all this concepts about how money sucks peoples life, how it makes people empty, how it can't buy health......no one has stop chasing it, the more the concept the greater the chase.

Over To You.

Why Is Everyone Chasing Money?.