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I found his bewildering infographic , its  an eminent approach to manage get you into the right perspective to get you to the destinations you are orchestrated to fulfil: It goes more than 10 convincing slants for ultra profitable individuals and solidify some confirmed circumstances where popular individuals have utilized them to make progress. So, i decided to share it

Being in your early or mid 20's as a younger adolescence is one of the most crucial moment in life. Its that transitional stage when reality and mistaken certainties paves in simultaneously,maturity and the level of awareness of things of our lives go blurry. You'll be apportioned to make choice for yourself and any mistake affects your future. The madness of that moment  might over take the whole of you when you try  to embrace every things that comes in a bright light. (The urges to satisfy all the wants of the flesh and heart desires),
Life in your 20s is no more the bed of rose as it used to be in your teens but what you make it. Your present life is result of choice your parents made but in your 20s you are responsible for your 30's.

How you want to be treated,where you want to be,the level of happiness,knowledge and  awareness. If you desire to live a different and productive life you must be ready to change your thinking,relationship and start being proactive by taking full responsibility of every single events. And make smart decisions in your 20s to avoid horrendous 30s.

Life Lesson:One Things A Guy In 20's Should Know.

1.Success in life require sacrifice. Your actions  today is has a great effect on your tomorrow .

2.All things in life (whether good or bad)goes to those who increases their level of awareness that all earning in life don't come in a day but with time.

3.Nothing is impossible if you have a positive mindset and invest your energy in achieving something.

4.Life could be simply if you're contained with what you have and the little life opportune you in the moment.

5.Instead of allowing wrong concepts and life style tarnish your positive youthful productive energy think of better things to channel it in.


 6.All the fruit of today where seeds of yesterday,no one becomes rich overnight. Every wealthy man has a broke story.

7.It takes a lot for one to be who he dream to become.You got to have faith,be patience,diligent and be determined.

8.Act you age,don't pretend to older than you"re ,give yourself time to grow.-Nas.

 Majority of all the failure  in life is the result of the choices one make while growing up, instead of building your career you switched lane and jumped marriages. The problem young people have is the lack of the ability to exercise patient, always in a haste to acquire what took Henry Ford years to accomplish in few days.Rushing in life ends up in fetal crash.  Catherine Skroch  wrote a comprehensive list of  Things Every Person in Their 20's Should Totally Avoid. 

Stop ruining your life in your 20s by indulge inappropriate unhealthy lifestyle. Investing in self knowledge , save a little, avoid debt at all cost and Start taking control of everything about you, like taking good care of yourself, loving and caring for yourself and don't base your happiness on things that last a moment. Realize that happiness and love is within not in strangers and in relationships.
 

Always invest more in Self Improvement. Many area of your life needs toughing, improve on them. QUIT feeding on addiction(Ways to Overcome Pornography Addiction) but in ways to overcome each and everyone of it. The biggest mistake you can make is realizing at 40 that you wasted your 20s running around making memories you can barely remember. Living someone else's life instead of utilizing yours lo to the fullest and ending up regretting. And Never Trade What You Want Most For What You Want Right Now

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Life according to millions of people based on their experience defines it as unfair and hard,  a whore  with stone minds. All this makes multitude to jump into concluded that life can't never be simplified. Am one those guys ...... who likes to embrace that two headed sword and smiling while i scream like war drums'. Nothing is impossible!!. Life can be fun despite the increased in the rate of uncertainty. There is the micro chip of fear planted in minds of some set of people that further mathematics is totally insane. That fears  grows. Everything is simply but at first it will seems like Nigerian Pastors coming together to war the world terrorist. How impossible but it's very possible?. Think about it, lets talk about 3 things sad but true things to get rid off now.

Things To Get Rid Of To Simplify Your Life.

Fear. fear is unpleasant, unhealthy an imaginable thoughts that breaks minds like earthquakes, produce frights in all path. Terrorizing an individual. A man who permits the holocaust to possess him is bound to have a stagnated growth and complicated life. According to March 4, 1993  FDR ''The only thing we have to fear it's self- nameless, unreasonable, unjustified. Terror which paralyse needed efforts to convert retreat into advance.''The fears of failing, losing of the unknown causes shattering scaring screaming effect in individual who welcome it. One of the concrete and best foundation of living a simplified, successful life is overcoming fear at all cost.

'' Fear is a tyrant and a deposit, more terrible than rack, more potent the the snake''---Edger Wallace-

• Overcoming Fear. To get rid of that double headed thought that trigger the feeling of insecurity. Fear  has the capability of sending in troops of confusion while your building your tower of babel. In order to neutralize the power of fear you first have knowledge it, i mean identified that fear factor. Git it a name ''F''.  As yourself. What makes this ''F'' to become part of my life. What benefit is  this '' F'' doing tome?.  What damage has it done to my life. How can i replace this with other happy feelings?.. Make that change now.[see.33 Ways To Overcome Fear]

Addictions. Is a condition where someone indulges in act that is draining your inner peace, that shift the decent balance through acts that's killing you and you can't conquer. Addictions is common this days as nearly everyone is either addicted to one thing or the other.   It takes  just more courage and determination to cast out that devil in a new dress in alcohol,drugs, nicotine,gambling,internet, smartphone.

• Overcoming Addictions. Is one of the hardest experience ever. It's like battling five lion with cane. Addiction  is a behaviour, a lifestyle. Environmental, social and individual factors can can get someone to get into addictions. I believe nothing is too big or hard to overcome when determinations employed and when our  thoughts is changed [see. Overcoming Addiction]

Anger,  according to the Wikipedia is an emotional response related to one's physical interpretation of having been threaten when one's basic boundaries are violated. Anger can control anybody whose ability to remote it hasn't been established. Anger is normal, everyone gets react when they're pissed off.

• Overcoming Anger. Do you wish to be a smiler when you a colleague scream at you with noisy voice like his battling terrorist in Gaza?.  Getting rid of habitual anger can simplify one's life. Anger can be gotten under control when you fellow this...[Anger management techniques.]

Think before you speak.Only express your anger when you're calm.Recognise your anger, know what trigger this most , breath slowly and calm your mind, Talk about it when possible close friend. Like i said above that we can over anything when our thinking is changed.

Fear, addiction and anger, this trio can be made things of the past. But someone who hasn't been a victim have no glue of how hard it's to get over them. Life it's self was meant to be  lived with dominion over nearly everything.  Living is more than having material things but you still find it hard to get rid of those mountain of  strinaĺg that are attached to your backpack.

Now the ball is your court what's your thoughts above this 30 Things To Get Rid Off To Simplify Your Life?.

The idea the media is impacting on viewer is increasing rapidly and nothing will ever get better but more worst. It's has in existence for decade though but the rebirth is crazily out of bond. It beyond borders.
The media xxualise nearly everything they put out there. Over the time its uncleanness has been privacy.  This days even advertisers add a piece to attract customers. How awful.

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Do they thing of the effect the imagery has on the society mentally .?.

When i was much younger i hadn't no access to the media, so the TV was our only media but this days the friendly TV is now the source of explicitly, nearly everything they show is s*xualize.

Does it mean if s*# in not in the program won't be interested or loved by viewers?. Maybe they won't.

Is the media to be blamed for such indecent act?


Personally,i can't put the blame on the media, generally we all know the media not only controls our world, but it controls individuals. So the blame should be shared.
Yes individual gives the media the go ahead use me as a s** symbol. It common, women are mostly taken as X** object. "The media doesn't s*xualise women. Women s*xualise themselves in the media for money.
We have been made to believe that every young girl out there that exposes her skin is nothing but a s*x tool and the bartender at the nightclub is every body's own.

Woman were meant to be a symbol of honour, respected and nurtured but all we see is the opposite.
The most ignoring medium is through music videos, i love music and i watch music channels all day i can boldly say it that its not music but semi-p*rn that has been mixed with incantations of the devil. We hardly see love songs this days but  p*rn  transformed into what we all call music video.

Some days ago i was watching MTV Base when they started playing Blurred Line by Robin Thicke, my mom screamed !!why this? i quickly changed the channel to Christian channel.

The media is teacher, ohh  bad teacher, they influence teenagers giving them the wrong impression , that everyone out there is having s** but them.

Do you think the media should be blamed or individuals?. 

Greatness  is having or doing extraordinary  things that mediocre people can't never attempt to. Not necessary the state of superiority. Everyone wants to be like Michael Jackson  doing the mood work and like the rest of the genius that ever lived and get their name written in ink on the page of history book. The road to greatness  is full of failure and fright. It's like you're running for your life on a camel back, its fury,a process, a goal aim with patience and confident with energetic enthusiasm back up with passion and determination.  Powerful motivational words of greatness provokes the lying spirit in us, it caffeine our soul boost  and strengthens our mind.

1.Desire To Be Great:  '' There are many wonderful things that will never be done if you don't do them  said Charles D.Gill. You have to desire things before you can have them. The only big things on earth is desire, it's grows. The greater your desire the farther your growth extends. What you desire is seeking you.

'' A desire is anything but frivolous. It is the interface between you and that which is greater than you. No desire is meaningless or inconsequential. If it pull you. Even a little bit, it will take everyone higher. Desire Desire is where the divine lives, inside the inspiration of your desire. Every desire is of profound importance with huge consequences, and deserve your attention._Mama Gena.

2.Burn that motto'' IMPOSSIBLE'':  The greatest people  who once lived in the face of this earth  faced this insane powerless word. Impossible.  They proved it wrong, Helen Keller did, she told her disabilities..'' Impossible is just a word''.  Impossibilities are optional.  '' Often what seems impossible climb is just a staircase without the step drawn in.

Greatness is not measured by what a man or woman accomplishes, but by the opposition he or she has overcome to reach his goals._Dorothy Height

3.Eliminate Fear Of Failing: Fear is very wonder imaginations that throw minds on a step slope. Nothing that leads to greatness is ever straight, tiger and holocaust comes into the scene just to knock you off. Failure is colleague, never be afraid of it rather dare to.

“I was never afraid of failure; for I would sooner fail than not be among the greatest.”― John Keats

4.Be Open To Change: Greatness is in stages, one step to the other and each one is change it'self. Many people don't get the desire things just because they are dam to changes.  New ideas are really vital to great people. Its a doorways to growing bigger.

It is a rough road that leads to the heights of greatness._Lucius Annaeus Seneca

5.Create The Future:  Anyone who fail to draw the plan for his life and set gaols, picture his position in next 5 years is worthless  and a lost man. Great people created their future, makes decision and also recreated an unforgettable past all together. In order to design a black and white future all you have to do is Wake-up and start where are. ''ACTION'', The most important goal first.

''The mark of a great man is one who knows when to set aside the important things in order to accomplish the vital ones.”― Brandon Sanderson, The Alloy of Law

6.Be Courageous: Success and greatness can never comes into existence when courages isn't the lead. Many human have showed courage as an important key to greatness.  Don't allow the fear of attaining a greater height scare you.

'' Be not afraid of greatness. Some are born great, some achieve greatness, and others have greatness thrust upon them_ William Shakespeare,twelve Night.

7.Be Your Self: The road to fames, great achievements in life's seems to change number of people. They lost that realness spirit.  One must maintain the natural balance by not permit the interference of the toughness on the path  to drag out the real version of them.  Judy Garland said'' Always be the first rate version of you.

 ''Wherever you go, no matter what weather, always bring your sunshine'' _Anthony J.

8.Simplicity, Love and Treat Others Equally.“A great man is always willing to be little.” said Ralph Waldo Emerson. There is nothing to be feeling too high about.  Simplicity to me is being humble,, Coco Chanel defined as “Simplicity a the keynote of all true elegance.” .  Truly there is no greatness where there is no simplicity, goodness and truth. Many well people today are just so arrogant and hard. Love your fellow human. Its the only thing that show the level of your greatness. The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively._Bob Marley. Anyone can be whatever they want to be, great people don't have two heads and thousands life. Nothing can limit you unless you permit it. And when you achieve it don't get shallowed by the new flames.

We all hope to improve some area of our lives in the New Year. Thousands make resolutions to quit smoking, weights loss, achieve success, and a stay healthy. But only 1 percent tend to achieve the goal.

I could recall a year ago, I made resolutions. Which later became unrealistic. That's the common culture around the world, people trying to change things without knowing what it takes to actually make it a success. There are techniques to set smart goals and achieve remarkable resolutions. These techniques could include:

1. Make the resolutions: Make a list of bad habit you want to break, things you want to accomplish. Convert them to goals. Resolution are vows while goals are results.

2. Make Realistic and Specific goals: why most people fail to achieve is failing to realize what
exactly they want. Paint a vivid picture of what you want. (You want to achieve success in life or business )

3. Time: Give it a lifespan. Ask your self: "is my goal attainable-accomplished within a reasonable period? Hence, map out this period. Say 366day (1year), I will accomplish my goals successfully.

4. Be Ready to Strive: Know your strength and weakness. Am I fit for this? What distracts my focus? Ok it's my friends!  I vow never to make. the same mistakes again.

5. Seek for knowledge and skills: master your ideas. For example, to become a successful lawyer you most spend a year in Law school. The needed information prepares you for obstacles and all the things ahead.

6. Team Up: Build a network. To achieve your resolution, You have to start networking with people with similar interest. Is it weight loss? You need people that will make motivate you,give you reasons to loss more pounds. Start with the little things. don't underrate yours little beginning. Above all be optimistic build your confidence. When it's get going remember to measure the progress.

Bottom line.
==> Make a list of your goals.
==> Be specific.
==> Make it realistic.
==> Should be attainable
==> Timely .
==> Get the needed knowledge.
==> Build a good network.
==> Make progress and measure how far you have gone.

Smart Goal. This year I will be successful, I have to start a little business, the one I know best and i can do well. In the time frame of 64 days I will extend it and before the end of this year i Will be employing more people.

Life at times could be like harmattan, the wind gets dry and dusty . That atmosphere of quilt and self-worthlessness caves in. Depression,Negative thoughts and that  of not being perfect or good enough. Recently i felt so worthless, imperfect and not good enough. I got stuck in my moment, my fears, i compare myself with others.  I felt so sad , i couldn't continue harbouring that so i applied some techniques.

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Things to Remember When You Think You’re Not Good Enough

1.Think  Of The Brighter, Positive  Side.. I've grown to discover happiness and positivity as the greatest choice someone could ever make. It's simplifies ones life and lift burdens. The more you continue to accept negative things will grow which can lead  to greater problem. The best alternative is to get out it as soon as possible.

2.Quit Pursuing Perfection: They told me to abstain from crooked and unwholesome routes but at the end i find myself on the old row even when i have repented. Will i ever reach the height called Perfection?. I compared myself with people who tends to be doing better in abstaining from going against all what they told them not to do. One day i questioned my self,, Why am i even bordered about somewhere i will never reach? Has anyone ever attain perfection before.?. I rather focus of the progress than perfection.

3.It's Not Easy for Everyone/No one is Doing It Better:  A man  entertain multiple thoughts a day.  The life we live isn't a bed of roses. I wonder  a times how Helen Keller felt.  So why lets the spirit of not doing it better stand as a barrier? .

4.The Thoughts Of Not Being Good Enough Is Totally False: Our mind sometimes can drives us nut by manipulating deceptive thinking. I look at my self in the mirror i saw the more right version of me, the right side of me is more compare to what my thought cooked up.

5.Stop Trying Harder, I Live in the Now': When the fire we make don't keep us worn in cold time, we procrastinate. When we fail we regrets, when perfection can't be reach we feel worthless. Why embrace all this negativism that hinder  growth ?. I just hold on to'' Time to appreciate the Now and make best out of it. Life will be balance but it time  but for now am better and good enough.

6.Many Things Are Working For My Favour: At least i got life, good heath and some basic needs that makes life worthwhile. Probably doing better than anybody. But i still see no good in me. All i do is think of things that are good about me as a person and be thankful for it.

7.Everyone Makes Mistakes: One great thing about mistake is that it educate us on path never to step on again. They are part of everyday lives process. Success and mistakes are birds of the same feather, we learn from mistakes.

8.Love and Forgive Your Self Unconditionally: Forgive yourself when you go wrong. Accept and see it as a treasure with worth. The little light of yours is shining bright in  flames. It's affecting others life indirectly.Don't bite your tongue and beat up your self but  be kind and gentle nobody can do it better.

9.Some Thing Are  Not  as They Appears: Everyone seems to see the outer side of everything. But are blind to the real side of it. Picture the love movies you watch, those fantasies are so real but never in reality. Some times that person you think is doing fine might be dying in silence. That girl that just got Iphone 6 might have connections but you don't. So why think she's better than you?.

10.The point is focus on changing those you can, Life was never fair no matter how successful you become along the line. You'll still live in one house, stay in one room, sleep in one bed and on one corner. Who told you're never good enough?. Don't get killed by own thought, you're the most important thing that ever lived.

 Seated on an wooden bench listening to life's music, rubbing the bears all over my face reminiscing the reply my mom said 15 years ago when i asked her when am going to have side bears hahaha.'' In time'' She replied with an enthusiastic face. Last year i wrote 10 things life I've thought me throughout my 21 years of being on this road. A commentator posted'' That's not all''which in turn means'' You live and learn''.
 This temporary lasting school called life swings. From A1 to nothing. Today am sharing with you few more things I've learnt for the pass few months. Below are true facts about life no one told me until i seek and found.
1. Nothing is ever right as it seems.
2.At times you don't loose to win.
3.You meet your destiny while running from it.
4. The truth don't set you free in all situation.
5. Experience is not always the best teacher.
6. Anybody that was once in your life(ex, friends) automatically becomes part of you.
 7. Success can be LUCK a times not necessary products of handwork.
8. Emotions can be like blind like passion. The heart is deceptive, it's over-shade the subconscious mind.
8. Situations might arise leaving you with no choice and you break that glass you swore never to.
9.True happiness isn't from the material possession. Happiness is a journey-you live and learn and grow more deep.
10.  Certain things are easier said than done.
11.In life the word Happy ending exist not.

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''If you're humble nothing will tough you, neither praise nor disgrace, because you know what you are''__ Mother Teresa.

Whatever happened to humility must be spiritually.Humility, an attribute of real and great-men. The heat of the moment, massive achievement and fame has lowered and left that superb policy underrated. PRIDE  has been on the elbow of many.  Cultivating and maintaining humility is expensive and people regard useless. Bragging right, showing of among famous people like a trend and it sending a signal that power is pride which is totally wrong. I define humility is be lowly, having self respect and control over npraise and material possessions without let it effect your ego. But this century if someone is honest it's a sign of weakness.

Qualities Of Humble People


IDEALISTIC: Most of the humbles we have left are made of believes that instead of pursuing materialism elevated ideal or conduct is better off. And it should be pursued with high mindness, noble-minded, magnanimousness, nobleness- Which are the qualities of(matured minds) elevated minded and exaltation of character or conducts.

ALLEGIANCE:  Another character humble people exhibit is loyalty to the authority, religious laws and observe the principles. Like a little child they're loyal to certain cause-- beyond  of selfish ends. Humility, allegiance simply means recognizing, believing that something greater than thy exist. The awareness which alter the common misconception that loyal people lacks confident.

Have Concrete Relationship: Humble people's relationship seems to past a test of time, due to their range of understanding of the vital principle that bonds every strong companionship and holds life firm while roller-coasting on it's axis of change and uncertainty. Someone with elevated mindset and loyalty to the core and also forgives enjoys better public relationships.

THANKFUL for any given opportunity and situation. since most of them are positive minded driven make use of the power of desire through presented opportunities. Naturally humble people gets more help and in turn help others out. The good Samaritan spirits glows in them. That thankful attitude makes people picture them as being over submissive and lower.

FORGIVE QUICKLY. On the other hand, the humble understands the weakness of others. Never expect perfection of his associates. They're readily to pardon something that the egotistical can't do.

PATIENCE and strong desire to achieve whatever they seeks. A humble person don't mind being the servant in order to get something.

PEACEFUL, respectful and don't boost of their achievement. Whatever is violence are chaste. Respect and high integrity. Whenever greater things are achieved they picture as nothing too special about to be boosting cause nothing is too important like his manners.

HAPPINESS as i great choice. Whatever brings joys makes them unique and strong. They don't base their happiness on things that money can buy. Unlike the proud who lives on the screen and headlines.'' Pride comes before a fall. a humble child becomes a successful adult.(7 Keys to Unlocking Your Inner Greatness And Happiness)

“Humility is the mother of all virtues; purity, charity and obedience. It is in being humble that our love becomes real, devoted and ardent. If you are humble nothing will touch you, neither praise nor disgrace, because you know what you are. If you are blamed you will not be discouraged. If they call you a saint you will not put yourself on a pedestal.”― Mother Teresa, In the Heart of the World: Thoughts, Stories and Prayers

I see humility be erased totally from the society. Nobody want to be humble no more everybody wants  to be the one that trends for purchasing a couple of precious stones and material possessions. It's a personal something. Like happiness, it's a choice. If humility is good then you cultivate it. But the truth can never be covered. Humility is a quality of a better leadership. A citizen that values the ideal of humility grows up to a better leader who seek the interest of his follower first. There's n two ways ....the main reason why our religious and political leader act this days is because they were never product of humility. 

The Negative Effect of The Social media.

The bad effect on teenagers is not rare, the first is the addiction.The internet can be really addictive which triggers the frequent uses. Several surveys have proven that high percentage of youth around the world are suffering from what is termed as internet addiction otherwise known as computer addiction, online addiction, or Internet addiction disorder (IAD). Which in turn results in unhealthy behaviour and lifestyle that has a huge effect. Personally, I found out few facts. I have been on the internet for years and from experience, the internet can be addictive and it can disrupt a clean soul into indulging in unhealthy behaviour .

The most common of these Internet addictions are cyber sex, online gambling, and cyber- relationship addiction.

1.Cyber Relationship: Online dating has grown to mainstream in the past years via the addiction to chat rooms and social networking sites like Facebook. Online Friendship has replaced family as people tend to spend more time chatting with online friends.

According to Underwood and Findlay (2004), online relationships adversely affect existing face-to-face relationships as much as traditional affairs. Their study explored the dynamics of relationship formation of the internet. A research of 75 adults who were in face-to-face and online relationships was carried out. Most reported more satisfaction with their online relationship than with their face-to-face one although few said that it was more important to them than their primary relationship.

Although only a quarter of the sample admitted that their online relationship had affected their primary one. Those participants, reported concealing the truth about the time or nature of their online activities. That they neglected everyday tasks, and that levels of sexual intimacy with their primary partner had dropped. This conclusion therefore brought about the next point- cyber sex addiction.

2.CyberSex Addiction: People who are in cyber relationships might be tempted to keep it real. They indulge in online sex via chats, pictures, videos to mention a few. On the other hand, exploring the net expose alot of serialize advert which might trigger the urge to pay visit to pornographic sites which might be implicating. In reality cybersex is exchanging erotic message ,picture, voices on chats room with someone else via the computer . At times masturbating.{See. How to Overcoming Porn Addiction}

People Who are addicted to the internet may also experience other side effects apart from listed above. Those effort could include: Depression and anxiety. People who use the internet mainly for
gaming or relationship because Of depressing nature of the real world are at high risk of being depressed more when they log out .They fail to acknowledge that the problem in the real world doesn't revolve by escaping from it.

• Time Killer. Unpurposeful frequent surfing the net or playing video games melt time that should have been used for better things. Therefore, Addicts fail to know the value of time.

• Low Productivity: Time management is something internet addict find hard to do. Maintaining the balance seems hard so they end up losing track of time online. Low productivity in theirs lives due to lack of focus and trouble completing tasks.

Smartphone which is the most used to access the internet is not 100% safe. It has several social, physical and healthy side effects.

In a survey conducted by Leslie Perlow, PhD, the Konosuke Matsushita professor of leadership at the Harvard Business School, smartphone phone seems to aid internet addiction. According to her,70% said they check their smartphone within an hour of getting up .56% check their phone within an hour of going to sleep . 48% check over the weekend, including on Friday and Saturday nights. 51% check continuously during vacation. 44% said they would experience "a great deal of anxiety" if they lost their phone and couldn't replace it for a week.


The question is What exactly do these percentage of people do with
their smartphone?.

Positive Effect Of The Social media /Internet.

Rather than being addictive there still exist a positive effect. Just like knives in the kitchen which can be used to get things done which at the same time can be used to stab. Same Way the internet when not put in to good used can be dangerous but when put in good used can be advantageous.

1.The social media has ease the opportunity of making friends, networking among people from different countries unlike when the internet and smartphone, social networking sites weren't in existence. Hence, nothing was the same since the birth of technology.

2.Speed Communication: In matter of seconds information can be passed out to family members who are not closer. Unlike the pen and paper days, the letter writing era when you have to wait a whole month for a reply. The telephone, Facebook, Whatsapp ..make information transmission speedy.

3.Spice Up Relationship: The rate of infidelity caused by social media is incredibly increasing but social media like Facebook and Skype keeps long distance relationships closer. Its no doubt that it connects loved ones and keep them in touch from time to time.

4.Connects you with people of the same interest: on twitter you can decide who you follow. It makes life worth living. A football lover can connect with other football lovers.

                                    The Internet is Important to Everyone

Source Social media isn't that bad for kids, in fact its more of important , it contribute a lot to the development of their confident. Also positive comments on Instagram photos makes them feel good. Report I found on CNN  says: One in five teens says social media makes them feel more confident 52% of teens also say social media helps their relationships with friends Media outlets tend to focus on the negatives of social media, such as cyberbullying. Teens are also using social media for social good, experts say. Like i illustrated above ''A knives in the kitchen  can be used to get things done which at the same time can be used to for injure people. Same Way the internet is when not put in to good used , it could be dangerous but when put in good used can be advantageous.''.

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What is the purpose of life? What's mine all about?. Those are few of numerous questions that babbles in our heads. Many of us are not happy  where we are or what we do just because we never wanted that but we were given or we chosed it because our friends did. It affects your life in a long run, at your place of work if purpose didn't drives you the joy of being there won't overtake you.

Buddha says '' Your purpose in life is to find your purpose and give your whole heart and soul to it". A lot of  people are not happy where they are. Put their whole hearth and soul to it seems suffocating. I think  they weren't purpose driven and tactic while choosing career. Being purposed driven--- know the mission- the task that fulfil a purpose- Live it a vision-be positive in thoughts and focus on achieving all that.

 5 Things Purpose Driven People do Differently

1.Live With A Vision: Living with perception is one vital tool great and successful  people make use of . I read stories of many great men and how they went through many vision killer circumstances but they still kept  it alive. They all came to conscious understanding of certain things. Using the power of desire they all become a success and made history. I can recollect years ago my life cycled around the TV and my vision was blurred. The kind of person I'll become in 5 years  time i couldn't visualized. 3 years later i came to knowledge that there's a world out there the brighter than the fantasies i see on the TV screen. And also that you never be great when the basics and aspiration is lacked. One must find his own purpose for life.

2.Determination and Focus: A purposeful driven individual makes up their mind to be focus and pay no attention to fantasies,pleasure that are dis-tractive.. These days Smartphone and the internet can be one of those. They have a negative spirit. I challenge you to identify your weakness, do away with your time killer. and then put your camera at whatever is your purpose.

Determination changes your view,--- an active force that keeps you motivated. Strengthen your will power and restructure your desire. Energies that purposefulness in you and make you embrace chance and embarrassment.

4.Dream Little: We are constantly informed that dreams comes through and that impossibility is a mere word accepted by mediocre who don't think outside the box. Making many to shoot for the stars hastily and aim at nothing.I believe that success is a deck, steps takes you there. Like the popular adage'' Rome was not built in a day'' Every purpose after realization materialize gradually. Dream little and grow bigger in no time.

5.Follow Your Bliss and find Happiness. Most people claim to learn to love something with times while others fell even before they understood better. Whatever which is not your bliss can never be, it will be impossible to find joy being a nurse when you never liked sick people. But you decided to chose the career because your friend Alicia did. Happiness lies in doing what you love.

5.Sacrifice for that Purpose: Sacrifice is the price you pay to fulfil a purpose. Nothing parachute itself in to space. Someone must have made it happened. ''Dictionary is the only place that success comes before work. Hard work is the price we must pay for success. I think you can accomplish anything if you're willing to pay the price.''-- Vince Lombardi

Lastly, put your whole soul to it. A passionate nurse put her soul to the profession. She sacrifice her life into it like in the recent Ebola cases. She find great joy because her purpose for life has been found. Everyone has been made for some particular work, and the desire for that work has been put in every heart.-- Jalal ad-Din Rumi

Over to You

As for me my purposed for life seems many right now. I see myself and this blog changing lives, bringing joy to people and re-framing the mindset of people all around the world that Happiness can be attained. And also see myself one day being there for others and whole a lot of things no one has ever dreamt off, i guess i have to be specific, but does it really matters?.

Now I'll like you to ponder over these questions. What is your mission on earth?, What's is your purpose for life, have your find it yet or still searching?. For those of you that are presently living it how does it feel doing what makes you always wanted, what you love and are you actually putting your whole soul to it?. 

Questions inons That Will Change Your Life 

 Sometimes thoughtful questions trigger the successful change factor in us. The world and things we all carry drops us in strange land full of questions marks.  In life, when it comes to setting of goals  marking them turnt out, mindful questions that moves power need to asked, examine and put into considerations. I discover that everybody needs to be motivated at least once a day. Motivational words awakens the sleep weak inner person. It's energize and provoke that successful humanity. It might be any form. Written or verbally. '' Someone who ask questions never gets lost in strangeland.''  Some area in your life might be stagnant and you don't need a fortune teller. All you need is reasoning, self examination, self searching. Trying to locate the particular area that needs improvements.  Questions, life changing questions need to asked.


At times i sit and put my heart upon my selves , i ask my self the below questions when i get off track.

1. Who Am i and Where am i?.
2. Where will i be in the next 5 years to come.?
3. Am i the real version of me?
4.  What does success mean to me?
5. What are you passionate about?
6. What are your values? What do you represent? What do you want to embody?
7. Do you love yourself?
8. Can i win?
9. What kind of seed am i planting?
10. What will happen to me, my family and belongings when i die?
11. If you were to die three hours from now, what would you regret most?
12. What is holding me back?
13. Who are the 3 people who had most powerful influence on you?
14. What’s your deepest secret?
15. What is happiness for you?
16. How can you love yourself more today?
17. What would you do today if there is no more tomorrow?
18. For every experience you get: What are the biggest things you have learned?
19. How can you do this better the next time?
20. When was the last time you did something spontaneously?
21. Which are the most memorable moments from your past?
22.  Are you making the same mistakes over and over again?
23.  Forget your real age for a second – now tell yourself how old are you?
24. How important is social approval for you?
25. Do you live for others or for yourself?
26. What was the last life lesson you learnt?
27. Do you love your job?
28. What is your ideal career?
29. How can you start creating your ideal career starting today?
30. What is your ideal home like?
31. When was the last time you helped someone?
32. What’s your life’s biggest achievement?
33. Do I seize opportunities?
34. What can you do to start living your ideal life?
35. What do you fear most in life?
36. How can I bring more joy into my life?
37. Who do I want to meet?
38. What adventures do I want to go on?
39. What is your ideal physical look?
40. What do you need to do to achieve your ideal physical look?
41. What is your ideal life?
42. What do I want more of in my life?
43. Am I open-minded? Am I flexible?
44. Am I quick to judge others?
45. Do I take calculated risks?
46. Do I give others sincere compliments?
47. Do I appreciate what others do for me?
48. Where do I want to go?
49. Do I care too much about what others think of me?
50. When was the last time you were proud of yourself?
51. If everything was possible where would you live?
52. What are the achievements you are most proud of?
53. What are you most grateful for in life?
54. What are the most important things to you in life?
55. How would you describe yourself?
56.  What stops you from making the first step towards your dream?
57. When was the last time you took a risk?
58. Did you ever help complete stranger?
59. What is your greatest fear?
60. Which word describes your personality best?
61. What inspires you?
62. What was the biggest change initiated by you in the past 5 years?
63. If you have  10 thousand dollars, what would you do with it?
64. What do you need to do to achieve your ideal home?
65. What do I want less of in my life?
66. Am I on the look out for opportunities?
67. Am i making the right memories?
68. How many people have i help to reach their full potential?
69. Are my friends improving or damaging my life?
70. Is experience truly my best teacher?

 Who am i? Where am i? Where will i be in the next 5 years to come?: I combined these three because i think the trio is a must asked. I stood in front of the mirror, i saw someone,the reflection of me. Bright faced but deep inside it's color riot. I ponder about this times without number.Who i'm i? is that boy in the mirror the real me or something like Mona Lisa. ? . Where am i ?comes to  my mind  often. The world and the life we lived is evil and uncertainty is the order of the day. Unplanned things happens everyday and am left with questions. Sometimes i ask why was  i born at first place.  Does the future really exist if it does then Where will  i be in the next years to come?. Will i still be at my mamas house or on my own or probably be the man my dad was'nt.?

 Do really love myself? ,What's love?: Anytimes i break any of my personal 10 commandments i get this feeling, the sensational kind you get when you turn tables and burn bridges. That quilt, i end up saying i don't love myself. I think if do love i wont hurt him. I came to conclusion that experience was never the best teacher and loving my self is far beyond lay blames when i go wrong.