9 absurd Idea That Are Holding You Back

5:05 AM Daniel's Chronicle 7 Comments

Middling notions grasp and fractures many. They develop gradually into a lifestyles , something like addiction.Have you ever come into contact with someone that any words from his mouth is no, i can't, it's impossible?. Some things you sit in your arm chair and produce from your head through thought has an effect on the fast approach of your dreams. Positive ideas boosts our self and attracts good towards our way.

Do you know you're the cause of the limitations and misfortunes around you ?.  ''We are what our thought have made us; so take care about what you think. Words are secondary. Thoughts  live; they travel._ Swami Vivekananda.

Some goofy ideas are holding you down from achieving all you ever wanted.

1.Am Not Like Them, so i can't succeed, even if i try it a waste of time.  Comparing oneself with others is the first step to a man's downfall. Someone whose is exceptional is difference and he does his stuff and also shines different in his own space. The ideal of feeling among is destructive.

People believe that it's impossible to make it unless  you associate with those who have it or the throw away their real identity and look just like them. I believe that being yourself, is like a brand, it's makes it easy to spot out the different.You don't have to be like anyone to attain a high.

2. Am too fat, Slim and people like me are not value./I'm not as lucky as.......
In our society people tend to address people and at times judge the book by it's cover. I read a story of a girl who was born black and he sister white. Her white sister overshadowed her, acquired, meet rich guys, graduated easily and at last got a nice job but for her things never went that way because of her skin colour. She grew up hating her skin. Wishing she weren't black. But hey! As long as you human it matter if you're black or white, fat, slim....... We were made unique and special. Learn how to love your self above all don't let your physical look defines you. Be proud of your body.


3. Others have tried and never succeeded. I don't want to end up just like them. 
Impossible is a disease, it's damn like.It's kills , block possibilities if it's not challenged. Before man was able to travel to space it wasn't easy, before  Roger Bannister ran the 4 minute race others have tried but they never succeeded because the idea of it's impossibility was all they knew. Other might have tried and ended up loser, maybe they never tried enough or you were they awaited one, who knows.

4.Am disable.   Human like excuses, any bad thing that happen to them will be used as a medium to escape  from engagements. Never allow the things you lack set you back. Helen Keller made it and Stevie Wonder did too. These people are famous and great who made history but never opportune d to see how light looks like.

5.Life is unfair to me,everyone hates me.  Stop procrastinating, don't focus on life but on how to remove the prefix and make it fair. Life is a battlefield, buckle up and be ready to conquer. Saying life isn't  good and doing nothing to change that won't take you anywhere but more sorrows.  love yourself or no body will.

6.People will laugh at me/What will my friends say.  Everybody wants to do something unique right? but no one wants to laughed at upon doing it but appreciated. The truth is people will always say thing irritating about  you but it has nothing on you. When all you do is care about what someone at the barber shop will say then you won't grow. What matters is that you do it.  If no one talks about you that means you're nobody. Even if it's lies.

7. I want mine to be like that of Kim-ye:
Some dreams comes through but it all begun from something little before it became big and real. Expanding your version isn't a bad idea. You might have heard of old adage which says''  Cut your coat according to your clothes or size''. Yours can never be like that of Kimye. It can more than or not. The moment you start thinking of being, performing things like someone else, you loose your real self. Life is all bout being oneself and dealing with things differently.


8.Lemme wait, God's time is the best. Procrastination can delay someone, not taking chance is like sleeping on the same bed and on the same bedsheets for years without washing it. The moment you take a positive move you dislocate that spirit of procrastination. They say heaven help those who help themselves not those who waits for manners to fall. Many who succeeded walked towards time and met God's own on the way.


9.My opponents are experts. Fear of the known can be traumatic, maybe you're about to go on debates with Champions and your group never won even amateur debater once. You'll begin to contemplate, i can't win so there is no need  of trying. My opponent won a year ago and are experts in this field, I 'll be crushed.....All that glitters is never Gold, the causation agent of why many never triumph wasn't because they weren't intelligent or smart enough but fear. You opponent are expert and you're about to break the balance and make a new history.