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7 Reasons To Break Up


Love is friendship set on fire and they comes a time when river flows in and the flame disappears, friends stops being friends for  a reason or maybe for reasons. Love bind relationships but a little misunderstanding can make a difference, it can end the world.
Around the world breakup and infidelity rate is high. You may ask why its increasing rapidly but have you ever wondered if its happen for a good reason?.

Love crash every 16hour because of one thing or the other. You broke up with someone just for some worthless reason. There are many reason while you should quit a relationship. Recently a buddy of mine was fighting brake up depression so i ask him why they call it a quit when a put me through it was no good and reasonable reason to end. Relationship isn't a fairy tale as we see in the movie, there is nothing like a perfect relationship.

Below are few good reason to press the red bottom and use the exist.

1.Cheated or Cheated On:

There is nothing that hurt like Infidelity ,maybe you've have been cheated on times without number and you can't just help it no more. Open the door and let him/her step a step.


2. You're Sad all the time:

Relationships isn't all about smiles,its full of torns and beautiful pains but if sadness is the language that you hear more than happiness please turn around and never turn back.


3. You Just Feel Like It's Time to Move On:

At times we just feel like we need to be left alone maybe for some personal reason, or you feel like i want to be single for while. No one owns your life you leave it as you like. Take your luggage and move on.


4. You've got someone else on your mind.

It might your ex or some new guys/girl that's giving you sleepless night. Anytime you lay beside your current lover you picture other, its better you take the last door on the left than to your body to be in one place and mind in other so carry both along and kiss the past bye.



5. Too much Abuse :

Abusive relationships is  a hell on its own and a good to reason to end. Unless you can cope with all the the physical and emotional abuse then good for you but if its out of your control then walk out.



6. Tired Of the Relationship:

Many people get tired in some relationship because its lack all what was expected like care,time,passion e.t.c there is no time to be wasted in a dead relationship take to your hills.



7. You've dating like for a century:

I don't why you will date  someone since 18 and now you 're 35 still dating, no marriage plan his not ready to put a ring on it .Remember time waits for no one.
You can call it a quit for any personal reason, i broke up with a certain girl years back because  i  had weight on my head so my neck was complaining, i had to end it to save my neck. I was younger then though.
There are a good reason to end a worthless companionship and there also thousands of other reason to stick to it despite the  pains and all the suffering. Life is a choice you have to choose wisely and be alert. Break free from any strings attached you deserve to be happy and don't let no one deprive you from that.

How To Be Happy As A Divorced Dad

The tragedy of divorce is heart breaking and it hurts so much, breaking  free is even thouger  than anything else. Moving on after divorce is cumbersome but  impossible. We have to ability to get over it, gradually the sad feel of loneliness.

What Moving On Means

Even though starting dating again and finding a new partner is part of moving on, its  a matter of choice not a compulsive. It always hard to move on when you always regret one so,the guy needs to relax a bit. If the cause of the divorce was from you then you  its not unpleasant seeing someone news.
Moving on means having the ability to treat your ex in a polite manner, if she  stand on being preposterous and starts acting up then take a leave.  Look for a better way to handle the issue at hand like the kids. Ignore wrangling about things that can’t be undone. 

Can You Become Friends With Your Ex?

Divorce doesn’t  create  any room for enemy like, you can be  friends be nice to her, but  don’t be too nice that she’ll think you need her back.

How To Show Her That You Want To Be Friends

You can reconnect with her for the sake of the kids, many father forsake their kids but no matter what divorced parents can still raise their children in harmony  and  give them normal life.

The most complicated side is when you try to reconcile  it can close all open doors, it can misinterpret  as wanting to be married again. Maintaining appropriate and steady  communication is the key. An acknowledgement of mistakes made on both your parts will definitely make things a whole lot easier.
 As you try to set up awareness of normalcy in your life as family but not unite individuals, the possibility of finding joy is might. Pay attention to your kids.
Avoid   getting in intimate condition,  If you and your ex are doing one of “your talks”, keep the kids within earshot.  keep distances  from each other so you won’t be tempted to reminisce and engage in something that will harm your process.


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How To Break Up With Someone

When the relationship is on the roller-coaster everything seems to be swinging on a zigzag lane, you tried the best you could to get it on a balance but the scale keep getting faultier.
The next thing on your mind is using the door but using the key to the exist is not that simple. You think of the best way kick him or her out.

Breaking up with someone could be hard when you love the person and you don't how to tell them that you need to grab the wheels.
Before moving on you have to put few thing to considerations.

Am i ready for this?.

The few days its not going be easy,you will be tempted to call,text or even come back together so you have to be prepare to face the reality. Most people just accept things they don't know better, they makes decisions and later regret why they made such. Be ready and be down for whatever.


Why am i doing this?

Maybe he cheated or you fell out of love better still you don't feel comfortable with them no more, know why you are doing what you're about doing. Don't leave because everybody leaves but do it for you.
(See 7 reason to breakup)

Give it a second thought:

You probably made up your mind to breakup, remember that breakup is hard to do. Think about it if its okay by you then you're half way home to the single and free world.
 Break Up

Turn green snake : Remember you love them so you need to protect your very self from getting hurt. I advice you detach your emotions from them,take your mind away from the relationship while you're planing to breakup.

Action: Take a shot :

How do i tell him/her,via text? maybe i should approach him/her? Hell no, text is easier. Majority of breakups are via text and its a coward move. Oh you still love them and you scared  of hurting them, come one take a shot. Break up doesn't mean you hate but remember you are doing this for you, break hearts not lives.

Don"t  just break up by just ignoring the person that's disrespectful but be honest,
Honesty is the best policy, you came in peace leave in peace too. Tell him/her that you have something to say and its about the relationship. Then they will make out time then you blow it.

I can't tell you the exact line to say just say what's on your mind. Let them know you are sick of the way things are going in the relationship and you want to leave. After spitting those words  nothing will be the same, emotions will get high the heart will bleed. Decision is decisions you don't have to right people all the time.

Don't let words make you think otherwise be prepare because there will be a lot of pleading, crying e.t.c but don't let them touch your heart.