How to Ask a Girl out

7:23 AM Daniel's Chronicle 11 Comments

The first attempt in asking any girl you like out is usually challenging. Most guys wonder why other guys manage to get the  hottest girl in just a blink. It's no rocket science. It all
depends on how you play your card right. Girls are unpredictable. Just like art, it takes plan and action to achieve this.


Asking a girl out isn't just about going straight to Her and yell "want to take you out ,I love you bla bla bla ' it could work for some guys  though but it could be a total turn off expressing your feeling to a lady as soon as you develop the feeling. Women are like art you take time to craft a perfect piece. If you really want to capture her heart ,you need to work for it, she's got a price. You make things go your way. Every guy has the potential of asking a girl out . You can't succeed if you don't realize it.

Shy?
Shyness is natural but never an excuse.

Dressing? Dress to impress her? Don't just be real,your dress code speaks on your behalf but it's won't ask a girl out. Remember, dress the way you want to be addressed. This is due to the fact that the first thing a girl look when you approach her for the first time is your appearance. Just be neat and smart.

But never pester her. Never worry! Soon enough she will get to build interest in you. You could get her number and call her, but not too Often, girls hate disturbance. But note: never pester her for her number. If she refuses, it's OK! But you could get her other details if she's willing to give it.
In fact, with the improvement in technology and manner of approach by most guys lately, I would suggest you simply get other social details and leave the phone number until you're familiar with her just to avoid stories that touch the heart

Complement her: The journey of a thousand mile starts with a step. Girls like being called sweet names,tickle her with words. Never compliment her curves, it might ruin the whole thing. Her dress and hair is enough for a complement.

NB: Avoid intimidating hugs,cares and cuddling and unnecessary body contact. It could be annoying. Try to control your emotions. You could ruin a whole deal. This is a message that you're a flirt.
Build a friend zone, ( a platonic relationship wherein one person wishes to enter into a relationship, while the other does not). A friend zone is a happy place for a girl. It’s a place where she and a guy can sit together and talk about anything and get real friendly with each other.

Be Courteous and brave:

Ask her questions. Ask her about herself, what she’s interested in, what she likes, Listen to her while she's replying and don't cut her half ways. Keep the conversation light-hearted and interesting.
Flirt with her : Communicate in a charming way. Always put on smiles. A perfect smile is more appealing. Make her blush. Flatter her, yes they Call it flattering even they know you're right. Don't tell her you want to be her boyfriend yet the probability of her letting your hands down and accepting you Is 50/50. Work your way deep into her heart. As soon as you gain access you will realize she's getting attached to you.

Wait!!.
Always look into her pretty little eyes while talking to her even though you feel she will turn down the request.

REMEMBER:

Ask her questions. Ask her about herself, what she’s interested in,she likes, Listen to her while she's replying and don't cut her half ways. Keep the conversation light-hearted and interesting and you should know your boundaries.

Escape The Friend Zone.  An unpredictable circumstances a guy is being  romantic attracted towards a young lady who just sees him as a good friend. Many men are presumably mindful or are into this sort of circumstance wherein they met a young lady, got to be companions and get pulled in to that young lady in the long run. There are even occasions that some men are either placed in a feared and disappointing friend zone. Its time to Escape the friend zone.





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