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5 Destructive Habits of Negative and Unhappy People

6:45 AM Daniel's Chronicle 12 Comments

5  Destructive Habits of Negative and Unhappy  People



5 Habit, Lifestyle a Positive Person Should Never Indulge  in.


Negative Thoughts. A clean morals and healthy habits makes a positive somebody.  A healthy individual who stand  far from whatever is chaste. Not pretending, living a two faced life. Certain practice distinct us from the claim'' Positive thinker''.  The other side of life and things can shift our thinking but we have the power to reject them. For the past days i fell a victim. It only come to my understanding after i publish a post 15 facts about life. The article was mixture and a products of negative thought. A positive person exclude anything that has connection with negativity.(read:How to get over Negative thought)

Smoking is another habit that defiles the body. A positive people don't indulge in any act that has been tagged bad.  Certain component in cigarette are harmful. And second hand smoking causes several heart disease. Some substances like Marijuana when smoke swings the mood of the smoke. It's effects the brain at times stimulate violence and other social vice.(read: Tips On How To Stop Smoking )

Drinking excessive alcohol has been the lifestyle of many. Drinking itself isn't bad or wrong but some liquids are power, it's has the power to change mood. When it;s becomes a habit it bring shames and disrespect not only to the victim but his family and friend and his community. Positive thinker is respected because of his high minded and ideal.

Drugs Abuse and addictive.  The rate of which people misuse drugs this days is increasing rapidly among young people. Most of this drugs are  addictive. And one thing about addictive is that its never easy to give up.  Drugs like Cracks..... They are expensive-- When an addicts can't  afford it he does whatever just to please the desire. He might steal or sell his property and hurt people around him. Positivity is a characteristics of peace maker not thugs and drugs sniffer.

Masturbation. Many somewhat doctors claims it's a healthy practice. Many jumps into it because they say it's save but i totally disagree. Even  the water we drink when taken in large amount it makes uncomfortable. People who masturbate will have a problem of premature ejaculation which is the problem of most men today. Apart from the health effect, Physiological,religiously its dirty practice that stimulate negative thought.(Read: How to Break Free from Porno Addiction)

How to get over the above isn't what baffles everyone. As a purpose driven someone i believe nothing is impossible to quit.  Sitting at the sideline blaming yourself and thinking you're not good enough won't change a thing. Something is killing but you find it difficult to conquer. You can suppress that, eliminate it.

 Determination:


  • Realize the bad side. Does it has one? What benefit will it be to be excluded among those that will suffer such consequences?. Do you smoke? Do you know if you put all the money spent on Indian ERM into a crap by you have been famous and rich? healthy and free from lungs disease?. Make up your mind. You can do it. Change your mind, picture the bright side.

Effort and Support

  • Many habits isn't easy to give up alone except smoking but others are more complicated. But seeking for support. Encouragement and attention. Joining a support group and getting knowledge from former addicts can make a big different. To drop any habit it's must be replaced. Involve in healthy practice. And with the help from family members,support group, religious leaders and prayers.



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12 comments:

  1. I think everybody will be unhappy at some point in their lives and we can't completely ignore negative thoughts. I think it all boils down to how we handle them. We can't let these thoughts consume us.

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    1. I agree with Janice. There will come a day that we will feel unhappy, it's inevitable. This reminds me that I feel a bit depressed right now so I posted it on my blog, to rant on those things and now I feel a lot better. I guess I'm not the type of person who goes to smoking or drinking or self-hurt when I'm depressed. I'm glad that I don't have that behavior but other people aren't as lucky as me. Being unhappy can lead to depression and this is where it started to be more complicated.

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  2. Thank you for sharing this. I am expecting to see the same list from the other articles I have read, but the last one on the list is really interesting :) I think that is especially true for couples trying to have a baby :)

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  3. this things are tolerable for me, i know each and everyone has its own vices or what so ever, but if your mature enough to know what is good and not for you then theres nothin to worry.

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  4. I agree that these habits can be destructive, but they aren't necessarily indicators of unhappiness in people. I guess some really just fall into the trap of these vices.

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  5. Glad to know this things, The only thing I know to be positive is Eat right, Sleep in time and workout. Those steps help to stop those negatives habits.

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  6. I guess negativism can really bring you down and make you unhappy.

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  7. Negative people brings it down for everyone thats why I stay away from negative people.

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  8. As Janice said, thinking negatively is inevitable but -- we can choose as well to see the brighter side of things here on Earth. Personally, I also want to be a positive thinker but I don't close my mind to some negative vibes as I think it is somewhat healthy to know something is not right. :)

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  9. Hello Daniel,
    You've just said it all, and above all what I hate most is masturbatiin. I have a friend who does that, and when ever I try to talk to him about it, he say's it's biologically approved for those who don't have sex to masturbate one in a while. I guess he has to read this.
    Thanks for sharing, and do have a wonderful day ahead.

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  10. Well moderation is always a good thing right

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  11. People really do not truly realize how little things can affect their overall demeanor.

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