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Being There For Others

11:13 PM Daniel's Chronicle 8 Comments

Being There For Other

 How will you feel when you wake up in the world that is void and you all alone, no assistant from someone. You hit and gather alone, picture that. It seems boring right?. Be there for other as people are/were present and  supportive when you needed them.

The universe can't without force that keeps it going, humans are helpers of one another. The main purpose while we were made in two's was to be there, assist each other. There is this aphorism my mother always say'' Life is mutualism. We eat each other to grow''.


Encourage one another: People are weak vessels. They feel reluctant, they give up easily when they are left alone, ignored and not cared for. They like this negative thinking of being unimportance.  They lack the active force that pushes some to do something but when someone is right next to them, empathizing and telling them words of encouragement it boost their mindset, lower the laziness and motivate them to vim more.


Empathy: Living is voluminous, life is convolution. Sometimes the emotions that we harbour drives us insane and the world gets heavy to carry. You just wish you're understood but things go sideways. Being there for those that are in such states of mind empathetically.Showing them there are not alone by giving a little sense of understanding.

Rejoice and weep together: Loving someone  implies  sharing all moment together weather it's good or bad. Rejoice with people when they tend to find joy and happiness, weep with them when part or whole of it is taken away.


Build Up One Another:  Somebody backed you up to become who you are today(probably your guardian), you cannot proclaim self made but a half because someone have helped you out during the race.  Someone taught you things you never knew.
Helping is inescapable, it reciprocation of what someone else has done to make you strong. Once in our life we do need someone to look up to, build up others dreams like you do yours. Give them right and reason to exist.

''Treat people as if they were what they out  to be,and you help them to become what they are capable of being'' _ Goethe. 

Recognize Others Existence and do something memorable,.....Do you know that most amazing thing that can happen to someone is being recognized they exist ?. And most of all is bring them to the spotlight. Some famous musicians, actresses  were all discovered and brought to the path of fame by someone like you. Do unto others what you do to yourself.
''A person is a person because he recognizes others as persons''_ Desmond Tutu.
Light Them Up:   Sometimes our light goes out, but is blown again into instant flame by an encounter with another human being. They comes a time when we loose thing we never thought we could . When we fall from the pinnacle we reach. Be there for them by replacing a  part. light, cheer them up, introduce them to new ways of climbing to that perfect high again.

A great man is by deeds not by birth, anyone one that wants to be great stands up for others, a strong man's strength is a waste if he don't use it to defend the weaker once. When we die what matters is not how large we lived but how many people we help to attain the height we obtained.

Be there for others....
Image: Ed Yourdon  

8 comments:

  1. another inspiring article. i really like reading your posts. people should really read your blog because there are many articles that tackle on values worth reflecting on. like this one about inter-relatedness. thanks for sharing.

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  2. Great article truly inspirational thanks for sharing.

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  3. I really enjoy reading your posts. And I agree, we all need other people in our lives, and so it's important that we also make an effort to be there for others.

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  4. The world would be a much easier place to live in if we help each other out.

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  5. I don't think I could live in a world all alone. That would be sad.

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  6. I truly believe that no man is an island. The world would be such a dreary place if there aren't any other people around.

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  7. I totally agree we must be there for others always, we must always ask how can i help, how can i serve, instead of whats in it for me

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