What Women Want From a Man in a Relationship
On the other a man is busy looking for ways to please a woman, he tried Lady A but along the way he realized it's isn't as he expected so he diverted to Lady B he couldn't find anything in common. He will be like What does a lady really need from men, what do they want in us?. Men get lost when it's comes to understanding a lady's wants and needs.
All around the universe there is a common believe that a woman is only after a man's pocket, it's accepted by many woman so it's gives man a wrong insight. Men now work around with it that a woman basic need from a man is money but in this article you realize how wrong and why it's improper to buy that idea.
Women Needs Love : Taking full responsibility of her involves loving and caring for her, making her to believe she's beautiful and that she's cherished.
A Woman Needs Trust : every relationship trust is a foundation, it's vital. She's need a man who is trustworthy that she can believe his words.
A Woman Needs a Respectful Man:
Respect is reciprocal though, she's expect you to have respect for yourself and she'll return it in abundance, without it trust can't work effectively.
A Woman Needs Security: She needs someone she can feel safe with, someone who is capable of protecting her if needs arises.
Women Needs Affection:
They love it passion really boost relationships by keeping the feminine connected to her man, holding hands, hugging e.t.c Affections isn't xxx.
Now you have known some of the basic things your woman require, I know no matter what my fellow Nigerian boy's won't agree with my point because the craze of the era is is tagged ONE GIRL TWENTY BOYFRIENDS and nearly every girl is living the dream, screaming to the Holy Trinity Money Love(pretends ), Party and i don't blame them boys for acting that way. I just thank God I am grown kid. This article is basically for people who are married or courting. There is a different between what a girl wants and what a woman want.
It's now in your hands share your thoughts by using the comments.
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Hello Daniel,
ReplyDeleteThis was a lovely article and it's really impressive how you when so deep. Indeed, relationship is a complex issue altogether,but with time and understanding, one gets better.
I agree that there is a general misconception that a lady's interest lies in the pockets of a man. You made it easy understand why those theories are not valid and I agree with you. Atleast, I was able to have a nice conversation with a lady earlier this year, and she said; all she needs from a man was "Quality Time". I was shocked because that's the first time I heard such coming from a Lady. That's how is generally, for most lady.
It's not really about the money, it become our duty to decipher what she really needs.
Have a nice day buddy.
I am more than happy to see your comments boss Nosa. Yes relationships requires a lot of work and patients, lack of proper understanding is the major cause of the hula hoop. It's naturally normal for a relationship to be going up and down. Understanding is a vital tool.
DeleteYou are really on point the general concept of every young man is that all women are the same even women too think the same way but i took time to look at the concept I observed that there's something that the eye can't see. Not all women get into relationships just to get a penny from the man.
And I also think men might be the cause of this madness because anything you believe is what that will work for you and if you don't buy the concept it won't.
Check out the beautiful girl you had an encounter with she's was so natural and real, she knows what she wants from a man and why. She's understand life in a different view unlike the one I met some days back only her dress code explains the category she belongs. Different people have different things they need but some basic things every woman Needs is still the basic no matter what.
Sorry for my typos in my last comment.
ReplyDeleteFor me relationship is all abt understanding....... U hav a good writeup also........I got so many dere......thanks nd kip it up
ReplyDeleteYou're right. Thanks for the comment.
DeleteThe listed above are true, but some ladies don't really know what they want. So they let go not realising theyve gotten it already. Most likely, money goes as the first priority.
ReplyDeleteMoney over everything, sometimes I just don't blame them. I just stay away from them.
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