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Single and Free:How To Be Alone And Love Every Seconds Of It

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Single and Free:How To Be Alone And Love Every Seconds Of It
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The single sphere is one moment one should be thankful of, it's the most important moment of life. When to fix all the broken links and the balance. This century relationships between  the opposite sex has made it to the mainstream. In the secular world being isn't right, and if someone makes such decision it base on a particular reason. But along the line the individual fails keeping to his decisions.

One being in relationship does not guarantee happiness and peace of mind, the entire image is so vivid but never right as it seems. A single person can be more happier and successful in his works. Being single was never a crime, it's naturally we were all born that way. So, what's so special about it?. It's just s microchip that was stuck in our minds by nature and decorated by human.

A single man can enjoy this privilege , he was made to live that way,make the most out of every single sec and live happily like it's his last. The mentality of being bored makes it seems impossible and a dumb moves. Well not trying to hate on natural chemistry though am trying to break that mental bondage of impossibility.

The first step to every successful journey usually begins with making of minds, maybe everyone around be fronting, showing up their romance mate and you feel inferior. Taking a bold step is all about turning blind eyes to all those things. You will come in contact with several of such occasions. People everywhere walking in two's. Cuddling and holding hands. You might feel like a loser. Determination and sticking to your decisions will empower and motivate you to feel comfortable even in the worst situation.

Loving your self more than you used to is another step to a happy living. Loving every single things and making the most out of every moment gives life a definition. True loves is hidden somewhere beneath your innermost. It can't be explored by anyone else but discovered by your when your personal interest and wants is in accordance.

Manage your times effectively,idleness gives room  to loneliness and thoughts that trigger feelings of boredom. Which invites negative feelings of living in a different world. A busy person has little or no time for anything pertaining relationship that will distract you.
Keeping company with negative people can get you off deck. Making effective use of the power in NO. and detaching from anything that will shift your decisions.
 Single and Free:How To Be Alone And Love Every Seconds Of It
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1.Know why you made this decision. Everything happens for a reason. Declaring to remain single wasn't decisions someone made for you. You choose  this, remind yourself why you did this, the important and the benefits it comes with. Being single means no breakups, no heartbreaks, no emotional abuse,no feeling lonely and missing anyone.

2.Get Serious in a anything you're involved in. Are you that religious type, it's time to exercise your faith fully. work hard in your day to day job. As a student read more. You're free from those emotional adversity of life. Acquire all you can.

3.Travel around. All your favourite cities you wish you could see,pay a visit to historical scenes, museum and have fun.

4.Listen to music while you relax after a hard day, eat good,read journals, blogs and enjoy every minute alone.

5. Learn something new. You can find yourself new activities to replace the time people spend in relationship. Go for  course on self improvement,  attain yoga classes, exercise. learn things you never knew.

6.Get yourself a pet.  You needs something lively to connect with, not necessarily the opposite sex but pets can be fun.

7.Dress,act different. Now you don't need all eyes to be on you, enjoying that single life is more than saying, it requires action. Act differently dress to unimpress people.

8.Be confident and ccourageous Without courage no task can be completed. Something it will be complicated. You will feel weak and negative.  Remember it's won't last forever. The right person will always come when you've made yourself a better person. A better and independent lover.

9.Enjoy the ride. Any activity you don't enjoy doing won't last. Enjoying the ride is all about being comfortable with your new lifestyle. Smiles, sing, dance when you feel like.

10. know your limit. You're living a single and free life doesn't mean you won't makes male and female  friends. You can go out and mix with people. Discuss relationship matters with others but above all know your limit and avoid them. There are boundaries, make them and never cross the line.

One can still be alone but feel happy like never before,relationships this days merely bring happiness, instead some turn to a living hell. Being alone is a choice made upon a reason but not rejection by the opposite sex, not in anyway mean you're scared of getting hurt.The best period to have a close relationship with yourself and get to know the real you better. Never see it as lack of opportunity.Be alone and feel happier than ever.


5 comments:

  1. Love yourself and everything will follow. Nice post! :)

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  2. Of course, this is the first step in putting forward with your journey in life. And loving yourself is a character.

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  3. I guess you can enjoy your life whatever status you are if you know how to keep yourself occupied.

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  4. Being alone doesn't mean that you are lonely anyway.

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  5. Not that i am complaining , but given a second chance i would have prolong the time the I am single, if only i knew better

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