Dating Must Stop
I don't support teenage Relationship though and i have been an Anti-Dating blogger according to some feedback i have been getting. Ha-ha, I'm back again. Lets get started.
At one stage of ones life,probably adolescence, we start developing certain traits, we start advancing. Emotion starts running through our hormones and we found ourself being attracted to the opposite sex.
Blind and uninformed, we cultivate this boldness of going after our feelings. When the timid side holds you back the world jumps in painting a vivid picture, encouraging you, showing you how right it is and that everyone is practising it so your's shouldn't be an exception.
I've been there before, maybe am talking from experience. No body unenvied to me the dark-side if it, read my article on nothing last forever.
In that post i shared my personally experience on why dating is blind for teenagers.
Unaware, untold and scary things happens along the line. Before you skydive into the sphere there are few things you to be aware of.
First and foremost i will like you to have this quotes by Zig Ziglar at the back of your mind.
"The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want right now".Dating leads to....premarital sex in most cases, 85% of people who dates, date for one common reason, the desire to satisfy the lust of the flesh, the desire of pleasing the urge.
You know what am referring to, i chose to be shallow, use your imagination.
This thing called Love is mighty powerful, the force that back it is mightier that anything you could ever think of.
As going keep going, the young love bird will start the practical part of Dating, passion get higher, they tasted the forbidden fruits( fornication is a sin according the teachings of Christians). Their eyes get wider, multiple practices mights lead to something many tag as unwanted (unplanned) pregnancy.
The fear of the unknown which is their parents reaction will leave the young love bird with nothing but a option. Abortion, three thing are involve if these option is chosen, successful,unsuccessful and successful but, If it went well, only one thing is involve, you......showed disrespect for blood and life. If it wasn't a success ,you're life is gone. And lastly if it went well and if BUT is in it, that means you might not be able reproduce no more.
Not my wish for anyone,just a warning. That's when this quotes comes in.,
"The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want right now".
You traded your entire life and happiness for 5 minutes of copulation.
None of us thought about this because we let the desire of the heart to control us and we easily get carried away. The heart is deceitful.
My advice: Hold on until he walks down the aisle with you then the world and your guardian will be proud. The best way to stay safe is to avoid anything pertaining to harm.
STD is everywhere, you can't truly trust people this days. The guy you dream about might wake up with a another girl, a carrier and you know what that means. The possibility of being affected is on the high. Read my article on why you should be single in 2014, in that article i talked more about benefit attached to single people that Daters lacks.
Recently i publish an article here about my Friend that nearly took blood oath to prove his love for his girlfriend, the pressure dating has on teenage this days is getting out of hand.
When i was a boy i think like a boy, but kids now drink grown man poison, everybody want to feel among. Is it lust or love?.
Over To You.
What's your thoughts on Teenage Relationship, do you think it leads to the wrong path or not?
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Same with me here, i don't personally encourage dating between teenagers... Unless they are both old enough to know what is right for them and know the meaning of marriage :D
ReplyDeleteThank you for this tips.
Nice one but this days its the craze of the moments, i pray my kids grow safe.
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