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Single and Free:How To Be Alone And Love Every Seconds Of It

The single sphere is one moment one should be thankful of, it's the most important moment of life. When to fix all the broken links and the balance. This century relationships between the opposite sex has made it to the mainstream. In the secular world being isn't right, and if someone makes such decision it base on a particular reason. But along the line the individual fails keeping to his decisions.

One being in relationship does not guarantee happiness and peace of mind, the entire image is so vivid but never right as it seems. A single person can be more happier and successful in his works. Being single was never a crime, it's naturally we were all born that way. So, what's so special about it?. It's just s microchip that was stuck in our minds by nature and decorated by human.

A single man can enjoy this privilege , he was made to live that way,make the most out of every single sec and live happily like it's his last. The mentality of being bored makes it seems impossible and a dumb moves. Well not trying to hate on natural chemistry though am trying to break that mental bondage of impossibility.

The first step to every successful journey usually begins with making of minds, maybe everyone around be fronting, showing up their romance mate and you feel inferior. Taking a bold step is all about turning blind eyes to all those things. You will come in contact with several of such occasions. People everywhere walking in two's. Cuddling and holding hands. You might feel like a loser. Determination and sticking to your decisions will empower and motivate you to feel comfortable even in the worst situation.

Loving your self more than you used to is another step to a happy living. Loving every single things and making the most out of every moment gives life a definition. True loves is hidden somewhere beneath your innermost. It can't be explored by anyone else but discovered by your when your personal interest and wants is in accordance.

Manage your times effectively,idleness gives room to loneliness and thoughts that trigger feelings of boredom. Which invites negative feelings of living in a different world. A busy person has little or no time for anything pertaining relationship that will distract you.
Keeping company with negative people can get you off deck. Making effective use of the power in NO. and detaching from anything that will shift your decisions.

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1.Know why you made this decision. Everything happens for a reason. Declaring to remain single wasn't decisions someone made for you. You choose this, remind yourself why you did this, the important and the benefits it comes with. Being single means no breakups, no heartbreaks, no emotional abuse,no feeling lonely and missing anyone.

2.Get Serious in a anything you're involved in. Are you that religious type, it's time to exercise your faith fully. work hard in your day to day job. As a student read more. You're free from those emotional adversity of life. Acquire all you can.

3.Travel around. All your favourite cities you wish you could see,pay a visit to historical scenes, museum and have fun.

4.Listen to music while you relax after a hard day, eat good,read journals, blogs and enjoy every minute alone.

5. Learn something new. You can find yourself new activities to replace the time people spend in relationship. Go for course on self improvement, attain yoga classes, exercise. learn things you never knew.

6.Get yourself a pet. You needs something lively to connect with, not necessarily the opposite sex but pets can be fun.

7.Dress,act different. Now you don't need all eyes to be on you, enjoying that single life is more than saying, it requires action. Act differently dress to unimpress people.

8.Be confident and ccourageous Without courage no task can be completed. Something it will be complicated. You will feel weak and negative. Remember it's won't last forever. The right person will always come when you've made yourself a better person. A better and independent lover.

9.Enjoy the ride. Any activity you don't enjoy doing won't last. Enjoying the ride is all about being comfortable with your new lifestyle. Smiles, sing, dance when you feel like.

10. know your limit. You're living a single and free life doesn't mean you won't makes male and female friends. You can go out and mix with people. Discuss relationship matters with others but above all know your limit and avoid them. There are boundaries, make them and never cross the line.

One can still be alone but feel happy like never before,relationships this days merely bring happiness, instead some turn to a living hell. Being alone is a choice made upon a reason but not rejection by the opposite sex, not in anyway mean you're scared of getting hurt.The best period to have a close relationship with yourself and get to know the real you better. Never see it as lack of opportunity.Be alone and feel happier than ever.

Bobby Womack

♫I like to see it when people can grow up but not grow out.

♫I started with Sam Cooke when I was 6 or 7 years old.

♫I was talking to Ronald Isley and I was telling him they'll eat till they make themselves sick. Man, he takes requests and stays on stage for four hours.

♫I will play my part by singing the spirit into every open heart.

♫I'll tell you a big secret. I used to be paranoid about everything, but especially about my voice.
I'm not going to go out there weighing 900 pounds.

♫I've had a pretty good career but I can't get a record company now. I don't see too much money from any of the records. I was very angry about that but I couldn't carry the anger around-it was killing me. Everybody has to reach their own destiny and I don't waste no time on negative energy.

♫If anybody rap, I did. I used to talk on all of my records; I didn't used to call it anything but telling people how I felt before I start singing. It's like in the doo-wop days; I came up through that. What if this generation heard that? They would think it was crazy.
If I didn't love it, I wouldn't do it, because the business side of it is so crazy. One minute they want you, next they don't.

♫If you think things are going great and you say, man I gotta great job, you just gotta raise. The next minute, your momma dies. Life plays games with you.

♫If you're singing gospel and you didn't do good by the people, you didn't get the next date.
It is my fondest wish that the gift of song that God has given me will flow from my soul to yours and help ease any burden that might weigh upon you.

♫It's a sad thing but I haven't heard from Sly in many years.

♫It's not just that the singers don't know how to do it any more; sometimes I feel like the audience don't know either. I mean, I want them to make me feel a part of it.

♫Leave them wanting more and you know they'll call you back.

♫Me being from the old school, I would not say bitch on a record. I couldn't face my mother if I did.

♫Mick and Keith write such great songs now. They were learning then. They couldn't have been who they are today if they didn't start speakin' out about their life and what they had to say about it. You can sing somebody else's story, but you can't live nobody else's story as well as they live it.

♫ Ain't it weird how a person's life is so boring they gotta wait on you to get up to call you and then hang up? Well, I got my day goin' on now. I said, damn I wouldn't mind if they at least said hello, but just to call me at four in the morning to breathe down the phone.

♫But people's always callin' me crazy, so I'm gonna go with my people.

♫Don't let the business side, which is the cold side, dictate all your God-given talents for a dollar. It ain't worth it.

♫Everybody was trying to outdo each other. When you got on stage, they would literally tell you, I'm kicking your ass tonight. Even now I carry that with me.

♫Gospel was so small. You couldn't think about buying houses or doing anything for your parents.

♫He changed his name, but Sam Cooke's voice was so noticeable that as soon as he sung the first note, you knew it was him. But when the gospel people said, We're through with Sam, you know you couldn't come back.

♫I hope that one day, and I pray it will be in my lifetime, people of all colors can learn to truly live in peace; and that children can have the opportunity to know the innocence of youth and the joy of a limitless and bountiful future.

♫I keep living life as it's dealt to me. Sometimes, it's not dealt 100 percent. Sometimes it's dealt on the low '30s.

♫I like it more when an artist take my song and don't try to do me. When they just take it to a whole 'nother level.

♫My father had seven brothers and eight sisters, and they all had weird names. One's name was West, and another was East.

♫My father had seven brothers and sisters. They had a group called the Womack Family. My father waited a long time to see if there was any signs of his sons singing.

♫My father used to rehearse us so much, he just became the boss. Now I can see I was blessed. He would be so tired from working in that steel mill that we kids knew we only had a couple of hours to hang with him before he fell asleep.

♫To make a little extra money, my father cut hair. One day, a guy came to him with a guitar and said, If you give me free haircuts, I'll give you this guitar.

♫We came up very poor. My kids have had a much better life than I'd ever thought of livin'.

♫We started singing around all the churches. Sam Cooke had just joined a group called the Soul Stirrers. We opened up his show, and from there we just kept going singing.

♫We would do a thing where we would put the radio on and take turns seeing who could play whatever song came on.

♫We'd sit four in the back, three in the front, or four in the front. Man, I don't know how we could even do it, traveling from one city to another!
When I played with Sam Cooke, all you needed was a big, full, clean sound.

♫Wilson Pickett said he wanted me to play on his album. So I went to Memphis. Coming up with intros would make the song happen.

♫You can't go on stage loaded and then stand backstage and get loaded again. The best way to do it is not to do it at all.

♫You gotta know when it's time to hang up. But when I finally go, let me go out on stage, my perfect ending. Don't let me go when I'm sick or asleep. Let me be in motion.

♫You know you always need a spark in life and in music, period.

♫Nobody could understand why a guy would love his guitar, then all of a sudden turn around and try to destroy it. Jimi was just different.

♫People shout out for songs and I don't even remember writing them.

♫Sometimes when you're down for the count and don't really feel like getting' up, you have to stay around your peers and the people who love your music or you feel like you're thrown out.

♫The best thing you could do is learn how to read music.

♫The gospel world was waiting on something to happen bad to Sam Cooke, because they felt he betrayed God. This was very serious. And Sam didn't live a long time. Sam was about 30 when he was killed.

♫The record that took off was, You Send Me. That sold about 3 million copies. That was what you would call an impact record. Everybody knew the song.

♫There would be loads and loads of young pretty women, all there to see Sam Cooke. It was like a rock 'n' roll show. The preachers didn't like it, but they liked the fact that he was able to draw the younger generation in.

♫These days, I don't say anything to other performers because I don't want to get cussed out.
They would dress in silk suits. Everybody would dress alike, but very sharp. Anything that was real flash and sharp. It brought a new style to gospel.

Busy schedule most at times and laziness tempers with our well being.Having full control of your self is far beyond eating good and dressing nice. Love is care and care is of different stages, it's proper balance of ones physical,spiritual,emotional stage. Maintaining a good hygiene,health to self improvement. Many procrastinate, other lets others decide for them while other save for tomorrow and limit their self from certain right and privilege now.

Note that there is fine line between making most out of today and trading what you desire most all for the pleasure of today. Life and things goes sideways this end and it's advisable to secure the future and enjoy the present still.

Are you still a slave to your own self? Then who's the boss. Never limit yourself. Starting taking control of your life and acquire all the necessary things that you ought to obtain. Being now, start doing the below thing to your self.

1. Take Good Care Of Yourself

A healthy lifestyles and practice improves one's self, it's easy to have a pure mind and be a good shape when you eating good, stop eating junk foods and managing when you know the it not advancing your physical health. Exercise daily, making all those joint and the whole of your body system vibrant. And never forget to have enough rest after a hard day at work, never try to cheat sleep because you can't. An individual who takes good care of his self is a happy,positive minded man.

2.Flee Away From Negative Thoughts

No amount of negative conversion has the power to triumph over any discomfort the only out of it is apply techniques, to get rid of them when it comes to your nothing that negative self talk is within, detach it and don't gives room for it.

3.Stop Making Assumption

Self judgemental without proof of being guilty or of what other thought about you, the imagination of not being accepted like everybody that surrounds you when you have no proof that it's truth. Assuming that people are pissed of because you mistake A for B or little bird is probably gossiping about you as you walked by is of no important. Instead approach the little bird but why worrying thing without proof, thing you're not actually sure about? Look for proof instead of making assumptions.

4. Remind Yourself of the Things You Are Thankful For

There are 24 hours in a day, you spent nearly all on jobs,in the office all in the names of making money. Taking few seconds off to appreciate life and things therein won't have any negative effect on you and your business.

5.Worry Less

If you found yourself being dealt with by excessive worries the best thing to do is interrupt such unpleasant feeling with something totally different. You can match Mr. Ben or listen to songs and if it's still persist then get out your comfort zone. Mingle with happy people who makes you smile.

6. Refrain from Trying to be Perfect

Everyone get piss off, you yelled at someone or say provocative words to people. No one is totally clean, have no fear of perfection because you'll never reach there.

7. Learn Loving, Yourself and Others

Nothing is so sweet like a kiss from a friend, and nothing is so romantic than giving out love unconditionally. No certificate or practice is required to care and be there for others around you. And most of all treating yourself the exact way you do others.

8. Be There For Others, Help Others Out

It's brings joy while helping someone out of situations. Volunteer to build churches, school. You can involve in community development or humanitarian service. Volunteer your precious busy time to reach out for someone or your money. The more you care for others the more your blessing doubles.

9.Increase Your Social Activity

By doing this you boast yourself. Negative thinking comes to lonely minds, social interactions increases your happiness. Networking with fun loving and positive person, positive energy will influence you. You can use the social media ,social gathering. Go outdoors and interact with people with differ believes.

10. Life Happily Everyday

The very purpose of live is to seek happiness. Seek not happiness too greedily. Change your thought because it depend on your thoughts. Eat when you feel hungry,sleep, interact with people and never hurt someone. Smile even in worst situations.

Life is too short to be lacking behind. Live life to it's fullest, explore. Make a different, leave legacy behind. Many believes will always come around to swing the balance. Start taking control now or never.

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Everyone everywhere is either chasing money or nothing at all. Money seems to ruining away from certain people and to others. No.things don't work that way. Everything goes to those who seeks it's face. When i tell people that money is everywhere it sounds funny and headless. You can get all only if you understand the principle of how this rules that controls money works. Nothings goes for nothing, in order to win something as they say you got to lose. You give up (sacrifices) one thing to gain abundance.

Change Your Mind

Failure starts at times with abrupt thoughts. A mind with strong will attracts wonders. Desire to have money in the worst place, in an environment that everything seems impossible. If no one in your linage have ever achieved such before that doesn't stand as a dam. You can be whoever only if you believe, use positive words and change your mind. How will money come your way when you view it as something devilish.?

Use Your Talent

Money won't ever come unless you work for it. Money is everywhere but it won't come until you b plant seeds that we grow it. All the famous people in the world are products of their talents. Using your talent carves an opportunity and control over what you earn. Your naturally God's given talenti is one tool that could push you places. Talent is only chapter but a lot of hard working makes it's shine.

Don't Wait for A Cheerful Giver

Many believe that they can't make it all alone. Well that true so sit and wait for manner to fall from heaven. Good samaritans do exist but pursuing the things you love instead of the goal and can attract someone who can't take his eye off you. You are responsible for your life stop being influence by peoples opinion. Accumulate wealth and be that cheerful giver.

Be Hard Woking

You have probably heard of the saying that without hard work that nothing grows but weed. That true, hard work doesn't mean hard manual labour, many get this wrong, you don't have to dig graves, carry the whole world on your head,break rocks in other to certified as hard working.
That's totally stress, people still get the real meaning of hard work in our society today. According to Vince Lombardi he defines hard work as the price we pay for success. It might be times you spent trying to conquer,the quality time you spent trying, putting you focus,practicing determines how hardworking you is floating in the air, it now left for you to grow them. You could work under someone and still live a better life. Nothing is free, to get rich you have to make a concrete

Money Is Everywhere

The games is your court now, money is watching you now go and get it, use your credit card, go to the bank. Even online here there is more money. Just go for it and believe you can make it and the sky will be your limit.

Wrong career, marrying the wrong person,spending no saving,messing up your reputation,making bad investment, following friends, wild.We all makes mistakes once in our life, at certain ages of our life we tend to go wild, we involve yourself in some cases. To err is human, some of the mistakes contribute to our growth in life while others makes us regrets. But we can never right our wrong.

You might have made decisions, choose wrong carrier, you spend your little earning necessarily. They are inevitable, we learn from them. The earlier you makes some this mistakes the earlier you realize it and amend them and the least they affect your life negatively.

Making Bad Investment. When you invest your time and cash on thing you're not passionate about it. Bad investment can be paying attentions on wrong things. You invest in profitable business. It might be stock or real estate. The earlier you invest the strong you get, the more experience, the more you get used to risk taking and fluctuations.

Following Wrong Friends: As we grow we begin developing different lifestyle at some stages, you makes friends, out of 4 there will be some bad seed. The one that will tell you about the other side of life, the negative, the bad. They influence you to smoke weed, get drunk and go after the opposite sex. It's something we all experience at young age and as we advance we get the light and everything becomes clearer in our eyes. Then you distance yourself from them gradually, even though it won't be simple.

Messing Up: Painting bad image of yourself can never be good, it ruins your reputation. Anything little err you err today can affect your future. You might think you were being tough, rough or hard then. It never too late to start over again, you might have loose credibility at tender ages.

Marrying The Wrong Person: More people are getting divorce this days, the number is increasing tremendously. Marriage don't end in death this century. The earlier couples realize the fault or the other they more the tear apart. Love can mislead, people cover up when the know it's beneficial until marriage then they unveil the real them some others choose the wrong person. I believe through thorough examination one can find out if they are right or wrong for them.

Choosing a Wrong Career: Doing something you chose because your friends did can turn your life into a living hell in oldest age. You might have seen people who complain they don't find happiness in the present job. Bouncing back will seems suicidal because of their age. A Lot couple of job don't pay well, you'll be thinking about retirement, family bills and a whole lot of things to live up to with limited capital.

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Middling notions grasp and fractures many. They develop gradually into a lifestyles , something like addiction.Have you ever come into contact with someone that any words from his mouth is no, i can't, it's impossible?. Some things you sit in your arm chair and produce from your head through thought has an effect on the fast approach of your dreams. Positive ideas boosts our self and attracts good towards our way.

Do you know you're the cause of the limitations and misfortunes around you ?. ''We are what our thought have made us; so take care about what you think. Words are secondary. Thoughts live; they travel._ Swami Vivekananda.

Some goofy ideas are holding you down from achieving all you ever wanted.

1.Am Not Like Them, so i can't succeed, even if i try it a waste of time. Comparing oneself with others is the first step to a man's downfall. Someone whose is exceptional is difference and he does his stuff and also shines different in his own space. The ideal of feeling among is destructive.

People believe that it's impossible to make it unless you associate with those who have it or the throw away their real identity and look just like them. I believe that being yourself, is like a brand, it's makes it easy to spot out the different.You don't have to be like anyone to attain a high.

2. Am too fat, Slim and people like me are not value./I'm not as lucky as.......
In our society people tend to address people and at times judge the book by it's cover. I read a story of a girl who was born black and he sister white. Her white sister overshadowed her, acquired, meet rich guys, graduated easily and at last got a nice job but for her things never went that way because of her skin colour. She grew up hating her skin. Wishing she weren't black. But hey! As long as you human it matter if you're black or white, fat, slim....... We were made unique and special. Learn how to love your self above all don't let your physical look defines you. Be proud of your body.

3. Others have tried and never succeeded. I don't want to end up just like them.
Impossible is a disease, it's damn like.It's kills , block possibilities if it's not challenged. Before man was able to travel to space it wasn't easy, before Roger Bannister ran the 4 minute race others have tried but they never succeeded because the idea of it's impossibility was all they knew. Other might have tried and ended up loser, maybe they never tried enough or you were they awaited one, who knows.

4.Am disable. Human like excuses, any bad thing that happen to them will be used as a medium to escape from engagements. Never allow the things you lack set you back. Helen Keller made it and Stevie Wonder did too. These people are famous and great who made history but never opportune d to see how light looks like.

5.Life is unfair to me,everyone hates me. Stop procrastinating, don't focus on life but on how to remove the prefix and make it fair. Life is a battlefield, buckle up and be ready to conquer. Saying life isn't good and doing nothing to change that won't take you anywhere but more sorrows. love yourself or no body will.

6.People will laugh at me/What will my friends say. Everybody wants to do something unique right? but no one wants to laughed at upon doing it but appreciated. The truth is people will always say thing irritating about you but it has nothing on you. When all you do is care about what someone at the barber shop will say then you won't grow. What matters is that you do it. If no one talks about you that means you're nobody. Even if it's lies.

7. I want mine to be like that of Kim-ye:
Some dreams comes through but it all begun from something little before it became big and real. Expanding your version isn't a bad idea. You might have heard of old adage which says'' Cut your coat according to your clothes or size''. Yours can never be like that of Kimye. It can more than or not. The moment you start thinking of being, performing things like someone else, you loose your real self. Life is all bout being oneself and dealing with things differently.

8.Lemme wait, God's time is the best. Procrastination can delay someone, not taking chance is like sleeping on the same bed and on the same bedsheets for years without washing it. The moment you take a positive move you dislocate that spirit of procrastination. They say heaven help those who help themselves not those who waits for manners to fall. Many who succeeded walked towards time and met God's own on the way.

9.My opponents are experts. Fear of the known can be traumatic, maybe you're about to go on debates with Champions and your group never won even amateur debater once. You'll begin to contemplate, i can't win so there is no need of trying. My opponent won a year ago and are experts in this field, I 'll be crushed.....All that glitters is never Gold, the causation agent of why many never triumph wasn't because they weren't intelligent or smart enough but fear. You opponent are expert and you're about to break the balance and make a new history.

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Have you ever thought about doing something extraordinary once in your life, the type no one has ever done and when you air it out people will say impossible?. You fell like giving up on it. It just like chasing shadow to everyone around you. Being the very first people trying to set a standard,accomplishing impossible.

Since the beginning of athlete, this same weak and stagnation mindset was planted in their the mind of legends and expert and other officials in the field that it's impossible for a man to complete 4 minute mile. One day a man proved it wrong by breaking the barrier, Roger Bannister was the name and after him hundreds of athlete have done just like him.

On May 6, 1954, Roger Bannister broke the 4-minute barrier, running the distance in 3:59.4 .
The exact distance that no one has ever accomplish, i think those who never made it allowed the impossible, the failure and you can't thought ruin their chances and the most funny thing is that no one ever say i can do it because everyone has it at heart that it's never possible.

See Beyond Limit.

The mind of people has been occupied with, it's never and have not been done since creation, others have and fails, yours wont be an exception. A loser at mind is a loser deeds. Things work the way you programme your mind and the side you point you focus on.

Take for instance....
The children of Egypt spent times stranded in the wilderness, on a marry- go -round, around the mountain without having a sight of the promised land. Because they had weak and childish mentality.

Roger Bannister did it, he never pay attention to those setback routine, he saw ' No One Can, Will'' as words,he saw beyond normality and took a decision of putting and end and recreating a new record and opening for the upcoming wish he did.

Only Hunger Minds Can Grow.

Many live life spinning around a particular circle,doing one thing, living the same old life with the same old dreams. The largest room is that of improvement. Some decide never to live and learn instead freeze and burn. It impossible to change your actions not until your mind is programme towards it.
You know how it feels like when you're really hungry? Be hunger to know more, hunger for change. Expand our version beyond what someone else's past record or the impossible.

Make Your Mark
Are that that broke records and changed the impossible two headed or most creative that you?, you might confuse yourself with words like ''Luck''. But i tell you luck don't exist in certain corners of life. Those men took fantasy and made it exist. You, too, can be whatever you dream to be. Expand your version, exceed the past limit. Chase the dreams, without hard work nothings grows but weed.

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You might have heard the phrase'' The chief cause of failure and unhappiness is trading what you want most for what you want right now''. Certain lifestyle we live today are rather toxic or harmless. It might be fun and worth dying for at first but later on you regret them and the most heart burning side of it is it's irreversible.

Never Trade What You Want Most For What You Want Right Now

Marrying when you're suppose to be building the future: This rate everyone is rushing into marriage this days makes me ask questions like' Is life all about this?. Many don't even have a clue of what it's all about. They lets the falsehood in Nollywood movies deceive them into abandoning want the want most which is maturity and they best way to acquire it is through education and learn from others mistakes and experience. But they lets the almighty world wide alcoholic beverage drunk them into early married. It's never end well.

Relationships instead of developing oneself: In search for temporary happiness and joy, people risk what most important just to please the heart and fleshy. The heart is deceptive that's why it's risky following it's desire. You simply work on making yourself better and smart with a couple of skills rather than seeking happiness that will never last. The happiness we get in relationship are pieces of what we will get if we point our focus on the most important and profitable things, like education instead of love.

~~Sexual~~ Pleasure instead of a better days ahead: The media ~~sexual~~ everything this days. The youth are made to believe that s*x partners is what make them big boys and complete. No one told them that dark side. ~~S*xua~~l pleasure is a destroyer on the youth. It ruin futures, it brings sorrows and regrets. Have you ever thought about saving the so called enjoyment for tomorrow?.

Money Instead Of building Brand: Being wealthy is all a young boy wishes but trading on the road to success is what he lacks, you don't need money now lil man, all you need is tragedy that will fetch you millions in your twenties to thirties. And they only way to do is is proper used of your time. You could chase education today for the well-being of tomorrow or learn how to use ,or develop the creativity in you instead of dropping out of school to chase money at the age you suppose to use and get hold on things that could makes your future smile.

Looking For Job Instead of Creating One :Work harder in your self than job . Do you know your boss is using you to get millions ? The money you earn a month is not equivalent to the task you do. Why not utilize that time wisely, be your own boss. You might be a boy today but lay the foundation that will make you a boss tomorrow. I had conversions with several civil servant who went from being wealthy to poor years after they retire or loose their job. Is that what you want?.

Making Friends(bad )instead Building(good)Networks: The rich build networks while the poor look for job. Friends are good but a networking with the those that matters is the best. Networking with the right contacts makes prosperity more brilliant, and lightens adversity in the future. Read Are you building the right network?

The very purpose of living is seeking happiness and above all keeping it. For the pleasure of today we can trade it, in-sense of looking for it else where and who to give it to us instead of developing it within. The universe timing can reflect certain influence which might lead us to desire to have things that distance from us all in search of happiness.

They manner time fly s this days, any minute waste is gone for eternity but any one invested in reward-able thoughts and act profits us in the near future. Never Trade What You Want Most For The Pleasure Of Today.

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The easiest way to get ahead quickly is to walk with those that has similar gaol, the most quickly ways to get something is to build relationship with people. One of the ways to be successful is to associate or network, not just network but build a quality one with the right people.

The low life people in our society never thought of associating with the successful ones, they spent their whole time with those who are downward in all corners of life and still desire to be upward.

When you make friends with those that are connected, you connect your cable to the socket that has power.The mentality of a poor man is filled with poverty and hope while that of the rich is full of strategies and how to build quality relationship.

You can have a lot of potential, idea but lack the right link or connections but an individual who have got the strong networks it's easy to move the idea to the next level.

They say show me your friends and i'll tell you who you're, and you have probably heard the phrase, it not what you know but who.

A friend and a co-blogger posted on his Facebook timeline..

And i agree with him, his right, he said that fact that ''The richest people in the world look for and build networks. Everyone else looks for work.''

“Research has found that in most companies managers who get promoted rapidly spend most of their time networking and politicking, while their more effective colleagues spent their time building their units and developing their people.”
― Alan G. Robinson

The best way to judge the worth of a person’s wealth is to count the number of genuine people he has got in his network. What question now is what kind of networks are you building, How strong are your links?.

“Networking is not about just connecting people. It’s about connecting people with people, people with ideas, and people with opportunities.”
― Michele Jennae

You may think when i say network i mean that amount of friends you have on social networking site or the heavy bodied buddies you keep, No but those who knows people, you idea and talent can't go places unless it's someone sees them, not just someone but people with opportunities, the right connections.

Being financially stable today doesn't guarantee the same years to come, the money tree you grow to might get finish if not well managed. Being financially wise can be of more important in years when you no longer superman.

In my whole life i have come across people i knew when i was much younger as well-to-do turn out to be like young boys with big dreams and empty jean. I thought about what exactly made this categories of people went from being more wealthy to poor, i did i little research and i came to realize they weren't smart enough with money. And they leaved the moment only so, all they did was eat and let tomorrow worry about it self.

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That is the root of failure, wise invest in their future as the enjoy the present. Is your future secured in case earthquakes occur so you can breath again?.

Invest: An individual who fails to spend time,energy into something for a purpose of gaining in the future as good as a lifeless corpse. Investing in your future mean planting a seed today that you'll reap later in years to come or simply making certain sacrifices now to have a better tomorrow.

The way things are uncertain you never can tell when you'll lose your current job, i have seen a couple of workers complain of being issued sack letters unexpectedly so, they ended up frustrated just because they failed to invest.

Opening a saving account today, save at least $10 a month, with no withdrawal for like 3 to 5 years. Calculate that, it worth something.

Build a quality relationship with everyone , family, friends and co worker, they can effect or be a helper someday but if you where rocky around them when needs or lack arises and they are position to help you out, they might now so,Invest in your future by investing in yourself .Change Your Thinking and Associate.The kind of company you keep has a huge effect on your future, positive associate and network keeps motivates your eagerness.

There millions of benefit attached to an individual whose future is secure, his insured. Are you investing in your future or just living life on a daily bases? if yes then how are you going about it.

The mind is a powerful tool, it can be of more important if use effectively and pointed towards attracting positive things and wealth. The road to success starts with mere words, the tongue is sharper than two edged sword. It can clear the bushy and narrow path to riches only if it used in a way, there powers in it. The whole world and things therein are products of spoken words. God made everything through words. That's set an example that we can do anything if our confessions are positive.

Somewhere between i want it and i get it, it all root from the desire to have it, recently a close friend of mine invited me to his new business venture, gotten there i discovered he pin photos of writings on the wall. I looked closely what i saw written on them made me smile. He wrote in blue ink'' I want to be a millionaire'' it might look headless and weak to his customers but to him it mean a world. To him it was writing i saw, i read them in art, it was the future and possibilities i saw. I told him you're getting there if you're success conscious.

Desire does it own but can't make you rich , so you take a step further. You put yourself in the shoes of success. You can simply do this by visualizing it. Seeing yourself as someone who is a fulfilled factor already.

Yes you can is another important tool, being positive about it can help you visualize what success meant , how it looks like and what it feels like being successful.

Talk that success language, like my friend painted a picture, he communicated with his inner force, his inner voice connected the cable to more powerful source which increased the voltage of his desire that transform into writings which i called pictures.

Believe in possibility even if you're not that of that type that believes in faith, the truth is prayer works. And lastly step into success, take sip from the holy grail which is action. Desire gets weaker when it lack or when it's not back up with corresponding actions.

Success will never fall from heaven or come to you by accident, you use your mind to attract it. The starting point to being successful is you mind, develop it and they sky will be a starting not your limit.

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Walking across the street everyone is busy doing variety of thing, something comes into my head, i frequently question myself what the whole inhabitant of the world is chasing. Many says the are after achieving or fulfilling their destiny, what is this almighty destiny, is it a golden salvation of the soul?. No, it's simply somewhat material things that we all after, a better life.

Different people view a better life based on religious and cultural point but the true meaning we're kinda blind to it unless you seek to discover the hidden truth, which is the focus of all human.

A child grows up with one thing on his pretty innocent heart, to be a lived hero, wealthy and change his immediate world. People do anything humanly possible to excel, student work not for passion or to learn to know it but all are preparation for the what we all call the future.
Human are naturally materialistic, we want all, life to us is all about the money, due to religious settings and believes everyone seems to hide it, pretend as we are immaterial but the truth the say can't hide itself because rocks do crack and its butt exposed.

People no longer do things because of the passion of pleasure derived , the outcome is what matters most and if it won't have a cash full end then its abandoned.

At my younger age i was told times without number that life is not all about the money, that being contented and happy is living life to it fullest. But i grew up to witness totally a different scene on the flat screen that not having money can be the root of all evil. Biblical the love for it is.

If you don't love something you hates it and if you do hate you distance yourself from it and anything related to it. The facts is......we all chasing money but they say it don't make you rich and i wonder if the world billionaires aren't rich, maybe they are broke.

Money ,the answer to all things can be devilish when you focus on getting it Asap ,through any means, its don't grow on trees so in order you to be plugged to the power source bills needs to be paid in form of sacrifice. You work hard and watch it multiply gradually or you get it fast or die trying,

Why is everyone chasing money? that's the question here, the same way success mean a whole lot of things to different people, same the reason why people chase mula differs.

Money can do a couple of unimagined things, it mighty powerful,it controls rulers and disintegrate the strongest, it turns people into freaks. It can buy dreams, changes you and also makes you rich.

There is this concept about it, that can buy the best things in life but i can make them worthwhile.And it doesn't change you, i think if you haven't gotten enough, too much might kill you which i ask is Bill Gate still the same as he was when i started Programming?. Just saying, the change they mean is not the physical one , you know there is a fine line between having abundance and you still feel bored and being happy with little you have. Money don't buy happiness is just a microchip planted on the mind of the poor, the only thing it can't buy is inner peace.

There is one other thing that still make me wanna murder, with all this concepts about how money sucks peoples life, how it makes people empty, how it can't buy health......no one has stop chasing it, the more the concept the greater the chase.

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